So it's time for my first field report. I will try to explain, what I think went right/wrong.

About me: 21, currently in college in a medium sized town

Prologue: I got this HB7.5's number about 2 weeks ago, while in the club. It basically went down like this: I approached her and her friend, a HB6. We talked for a bit, then I told them to put their Numbers in my Phone. They did. After a little more talking and having fun, I went on and approached some more. I think this approach was pretty decent, I got 2 numbers and left a fun and confident impression. Later that night, I started texting the HB7.5 and suggested meeting again, outside. Unfortunatey, they had already left. So I told her, we should go drink some coffee next week. She agreed and seemed excited.

The Date: So, we set up the date for today. We met near some coffee shops, about 20 min. walking distance from my place. After I greeted her with a hug, we started walking to this coffee shop I suggested. We did smalltalk, but we didn't really start flirting/talking about sexual topics. I got her to laugh often, though. While walking, i did some light kino(touching her upper arm; guiding her, by laying one hand on her lower back). When we arrived at the coffee shop, I sat to her side. We both had a coffee. The talk continued, with topics like family, college and the weather. In short: Nothing sexual. Again, we did laugh a lot. And this whole time, I made sure to hold strong eye-contact and smile often. Somehow, i wasn't really comfortable kinoing her, in this position. It stayed at maybe 2 light touches on the upper arm. After we finished our drinks, we went on to the park. On the way there, my kino got a bit bolder, but only, in that my touches were longer. At the park, she showed me a favorite spot of hers, with a great view. We stood there, next to each other. I probably could and should have kissed her right there, but i didn't. I am still fucking angry about myself, for not using this opportunity, but i didn't push myself enough to do it. So we just sat down and admired the view. At this time we were about 5 min. from my place, which I told her. She then got a damn call from a friend, and she told me, she would have to leave in about 30 min. Instead of suggesting to go to my place, I took her to look at the bus stop, for her next bus. Which of course arrived just then. We hugged again, and she told me to text her again. And right there I stumbled on my fucking words like this: Her: Okay, so when are you visiting your friend tommorow? Me: No Problem...Uh...I mean...5AM...Get home safe. I have no idea, what happened there, really.

And thats it. All of this happened about 2 hours ago. All in all, I think I just didn't escalate enough. I should have did more kino, more flirting, more kissing. It was not able to push myself out of my comfort zone and just fucking do it. What I am satisfied with, is my choice of location (coffee shop in walking distance from my place/ the park even closer, and with a beautiful view), and i also thin, the kino i did, was decent, just not enough.

TL;DR: Went on first date, had fun, didn't escalate enough, am unsatisfied, but eager to improve.

-I know, this isn't /r/askseddit , but every feedback and advice will be greatly appreciated. (Also I am deeply sorry, if my english has offended you, it sadly is not my first language)