BACKGROUNDI'm going to give a little backstory about myself first. I am a 22 year old senior at a small directional school in the south with about 5000 kids. The city that I live in has under 50,000 so everyone knows everyone else. Well I got introduced to The Game about 1.5 years ago then found this place along with RSD and Mark Manson not long after that. That shit doesn't really matter but just wanted to give some of my background.

This story takes place in Tampa, Florida the week before school started this year. I am with my best friend, his little brother who is 17, and his sister is a high school freshman. Well my best friend is being a boring bitch the whole trip so I decide to hang out with his brother most of the time. His brother went to my high school and has a guys ID that I graduated with so he's "22 also". This kid is a fucking natural. He is tall probably 6'5, good looking, confidence out of the ass, and an athlete. I'm shorter than him by like 8 inches but Im a pretty good looking guy and have really improved my style since joining Seddit. The first few nights we run game on the beach and get a few numbers and make outs but nothing great. We are staying walking distance from a pretty cool bar that plays a lot of live music and is fucking big. Well his mom finally lets him go out the last night. THIS IS WHERE THE STORY STARTS So I get really good and drunk before me and the 17 year old who is 22 go out. This was a bad idea and I will come to regret it later. PSA- don't get too fucked up when sarging. Coming into this I still have quite a bit of AA but it's my last night on vacation and I am drunk so I really don't care. Well anyways we walk into this bar around 11 pm. Our plan is I'm the leader, I choose who we approach and I open the set. If you have the option, do this because it gives you social proof as the leader of men. So the way this bar is set up there are multiple stories and these big ass booths. Right when we walk in there is a 6 set sitting at the table and they were at an average of probably HB7.5(sorry Mark I still rate). I walk up scan the table, introduce myself and ask if we can sit. They say no we have guys here with us but were very polite about it. Next set is the same thing. Big set at a booth with the same excuse. So we go to one of the bars and grab a beer when we see these two cute asian girls. They smile at us and without skipping a beat I walk right to them make strong eye contact(that is one thing that has helped me probably more than any other) and introduce me and my friend. They are really receptive so we pull up chairs and I scoot my chair a little closer than you normally would talking to a friend. The conversation is good. I ask a question then I give a cold read(another really good method). This goes on for about 2 minutes and then I initiate kino and the girl I'm on is very off put by me touching her. Instead of backing off I tell my friend to come grab a beer with me so we can get out. There is a ton of girls here and I don't want to waste my night trying to charm this girl. Good thing because it turns out they're lesbos. Instead of backing off, building rapport then trying kino again I'm a big fan of next girl up. When everything flows from the start I think your chances are better at closing later on anyways.

Next we see these 2 HB7.5 blondes that are probably 6-7 years older than me sitting at these stools next to the dance floor. Their backs are facing us so instead of going tap on their shoulder I go completely around, walk across the dance floor which they are facing. I walk up the 4-5 step stairs(important later) make eye contact and smile. They smile back and I approach the one closer to me. I open by saying Hey, I saw you across the dance floor and I think you're sexy, My name is -----. She smiles and gives me her name. I cold read her and tell her I'm a student and say you're a teacher aren't you, and she was. She fucking loved that. She grabs my hand and tells me tells me to go to the dance floor with her. Her and the other girl get up and I say I'll be there in a second which I fully intended to but something came up.

Right under us there is a booth on the edge of the dance floor and there are these girls taking pictures. My friend photobombs them and they get a good laugh and tell us to come down. It's a 3 set with 2 HB7s and an HB 9. I go sit by one of the HB7s because she's smoking and if she smokes she pokes lol. Well it's about 2 o'clock and the bar closes at 230 so its starting to thin out. The girls ask us to buy them a drink and I say no you buy the drinks I'll pay for the taxi when we get out of here together( I escelated and DHV at the same time). So they bought us all shots even though I'm no longer drunk and actually hung over as a mother fucker at this point. Well when they come back with our shots the HB9 comes and sits by me and starts asking me questions about myself. I try not to give too much information while still being honest. Well the lights come on and they make us leave. The girls ask to go back to our condo(which my friends parents are staying at lol) but I say no I don't want you to come creep on me later so let's go back to your place. They actually drove so my friend rides in the front seat with one of the HB7s that he hit it off with. The HB9 is in the middle and I'm kinoing her the whole way back and creating sexual tension by whispering in her ear. 2 of these girls are 28 and one is 27. I'm 22 and the other guy is 17 so naturally we're slightly intimidated but by no means do we let them know that. The HB9 gives me a shit test and says I think you're too young for me. I say I don't think so, you look like you're in shape enough to keep up We go back to one of the girl's houses that her dad owns. Fucking nicest house I've ever been to. We sit on the balcony and start drinking playing never have I ever. Not going to go into details but we find out 2 of these girls are really fucking kinky. After all this it's probably 430 and we're leaving tampa at 830 to go back home so I know I need to make my move. I said I don't give a fuck if I strike out I've already had a great time tonight. I asked the HB9 to come mix a drink with me and she said ok. I took her inside and said I don't want a drink show me your room. She grabs me by the hand and takes me to her room....

ThoughtsThe way this changed me is it totally got me over AA. We approached a total of probably 25-30 girls and none of them made me feel bad for approaching them. It was so much fucking fun, I didn't care about getting laid. Just meeting different girls is fun, they all have a cool ass story and come from different backgrounds. Getting to know people is fun to me. I think when cold approaching it's best to go for smaller sets. I haven't really had great success when going up to more than a 4 set. Not being outcome dependent is why I scored. I didn't give a shit and I was out to have fun with a friend. My mindset when I approached was actually she is hot, I wonder what she is like. That is big. Tell me what you think, give a critique, or ask a question!