I was vibing with a girl at a house party. We start talking about her tattoo and her jewelry and she casually mentions that the necklace she was wearing was a gift from her boyfriend of a year and a half, who happens to be a long-distance boy. I respect that and I decided that my efforts were better spent elsewhere and started playing around and dancing with the other girls there. I don't mind when that happens because I give myself props for talking and am relieved of the responsibility of carrying things any further. I mean, it's fun but it's also work. Anyways, later on that night after I'd been vibing with the other girls she got back to me, dragged me out to the dance floor and started grinding on me. Now to me grinding is an open-invitation to feel her up so I felt her up and kiss closed. She paused it for a bit to say "wait, I can't" and then we continued. I still haven't decided on whether what I did was bad or not.