I have read quite a few posts and comments refer to a "frame" that should never be broken no matter what. I am going to disagree and this is why.....

I have found that a lot of the times a girl can see right through your frame that you are putting on. Maybe it is just me, but I honestly believe that if a girl meets 5 guys in a night who put together a frame of a confident and charming guy, she is going to question whether or not these guys are for real. Here is what I would do. Halfway through your conversation with her, change things up. Admit to her something real about you. Don't lie and don't say too much, but say something that she would never expect from you. Break the walls of your frame to show her you are not just another robot hitting on a girl whether its at a bar, a party, or wherever. The timing and execution of this move needs to be perfect. You do not want to randomly admit to her that you have a drinking problem or anything like that. What you should say needs to stick with her for the rest of the night. In the end, she will remember those 5 guys that hit on her like everyone else, and then she will remember that guy that was real to her, and I guarantee if she remembers any one guy from that night, it will be you.

I have tried this before and it has worked. Admitting I cried at the end of "the notebook" after trying to seem like a badass, or telling her how passionate you are about something going against the cool, calm, dont give a shit vibe you may have been bringing all night. ANYTHING THAT WILL STICK OUT...

your thoughts...