I'll avoid giving too many details so the post stays up, but what do you guys do to decipher what someone wants if they keep saying they want to be just friends but with their actions they are sexually escalating--touching you, complementing you about sexual things like body parts, and sending you sexy but clothed photos, etc. For various reasons I don't have a need to push boundaries that the person doesn't want crossed. So I'm trying to figure out: how do you know if the friends comment is just a game or if the person actually wants that?