I just wanted to make a comment about a certain situation in my life currently. I met a girl in a cafe; I didn't find her "attractive" in a sexual way, but she's smart, and what I liked about her was that she was very genuine. So, now we have this thing where we meet once every other week and just talk about our lives, which I do enjoy very much. In general, im trying to get to know as many interesting people as possible, not just women, and not just for sex.

However, what I noticed in our last meeting was that she really wanted to spend more time with me. If I did feel the same way about her, I would probably have asked her to have a drink, or go somewhere date-y, but I didn't, because I honestly don't feel sexually attracted to her, and I don't want to do something which will give the wrong signals...

Maybe this is the situation a lot of women find themselves in? When they're with a guy they find interesting but not sexually interesting? I don't know. I felt slightly bad that I could read her so well, but did not explicitly tell her that no I'm not interested.