Yesterday, I had a different thought process going out. What kept popping up in my head was that Steve Jobs quote that said:

Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

So I decided to spend my night doing my best to entertain myself.

After getting a few drinks into me (just buzzed), we went to a pretty sweet club. Amazing music, great friends, and the nicest bouncers I've ever met.

As we got inside, my friends decided to go to their booth and talk with each other, but I had other plans. I invited them to go out onto the dance floor but to no avail, so I went by myself! And you know what...it's crazy what can happen when you just do something by yourself.

I went onto the dance floor and just danced, but there was a difference this time around. Instead of just dancing...I danced and smiled! I caught myself yesterday when I realized I wasn't even smiling when I was dancing! (Isn't that crazy?)

So, I danced to the great music, smiled and caught the glance of the first HB7. She challenged me to a dance battle, which turned out to be a lot of fun. Lots of Kino, a bit of grinding but nothing too spectacular. That's when I had to use the washroom, but after I came back, I started dancing again and caught eyes with another HB7. She was smiling at me so I went over there and grabbed her by the waist. We started off with grinding for about 30 seconds.

I brought her to the closest wall and the grinding only got dirtier. Hand on her ass and she started kissing my neck. Game over.

Went for the make-out and we did that for a good while. Then the logistics hit...my buddy from before started puking (not due to alcohol, he was actually sick). The other guys paid for their booth (I was the only one that didn't), so I decided to take him home.

I don't regret anything though. I know I could have BJ-closed or F-closed in the bathroom or something if I acted faster, but here are the lessons that I learned:

  1. Be assertive.

  2. SMILE! Show some teeth or just do the wide-lipped smile. Whatever it is, smiling is attractive!

  3. When you see something you want, go for it.

And finally...

  1. You're gonna die guys...I know it sounds dark but people die everyday. I've lost more family in the last 2 years than I ever have before, and it really makes you question your mortality.

If you're going to die anyway, then why not just go for it!? You honestly have nothing to lose!

Have fun, and cheers! I look forward to posting some better FRs in the future. :)

PS. I'm on set 3