Hey, Sedditors. I've been lurking for awhile and wanted to finally post an FR, Now some back story, I'm a college freshman (Go Aggies) My "Friends" or the people I hang out with occasionally, Dont invite me to things at all(upon retrospect its probably me that I'M not the person they would want to hang out with)

*Become the person YOU want to hang out with(fake it till you make it) I got tired of them not inviting me to things so i decided to become A social butterfly, Today i said i was going to approach people and have fun doing it. Just tell your self you're going to be the thing you're doing (running; Be a runner ect.)

So here's what I used. (note: it works only if YOU'RE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN THE OTHER PERSON)

Tell them to tell you something interesting about themselves, I Told this to some guy sitting down and me and him had a fun conversation about his life and how he became a born again christian. (His name was Eric, always remember their names) Another girl Told me she likes Koalas. (i didnt get her name) A especially interesting conversation I had was this really pretty girl told me she has a thing for even numbers(Isabella) I had lots of fun talking to random people and Im going to meet more people like this. Obviously canned openers are just amateur stuff but this helps me build up to the person Im going to become.

"Tell me something interesting about yourself" shows your interested in the other person and that you actually want to know them.

If they ask you why (which is going to happen.) Is even better because now you both are asking questions and thats how the conversation starts. Here's what I do, I say, "So I know what to get you for Christmas" Im more of a jokey-not-take-anything-seriously kind of guy and I own it.

If they don't like you when youre having fun then they arent worth it, (But its a fine line between having fun and being an asshole/creeper etc. Trial and Error helps with this Portion,)

This is just what I do and I find it fun to get to shotgun-meet people. Not just for seduction, But for life.

Thank you seddit.