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Full beginner HELP

GeminiSoulsTy33 · 2017-04-04T02:12:32+00:00

Anything you giys can link me too or help me with in order to get in this game because i can't keep thinking about a girl I'm attached to and...

GeminiSoulsTy33

April 4, 2017

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Title	Full beginner HELP
Author	GeminiSoulsTy33
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	April 4, 2017 2:12 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Woujo 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]olronk 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

What you're doing is good, but there are certain hobbies that are just attractive to women as well: being a DJ, doing something in entertainment, etc...

What would be some examples of hobbies that are attractive to women? I've done a lot and stuck to the ones I really like but from my experience none of them seem to be considered attractive hobbies.

That's just false.

What I meant was that the whole concept of game or seduction is being attractive. Some guys aren't very attractive and need to focus on what they can control such as dieting, lifting, finances and overall quality of life. That's what I focused on for two years to change my life instead of wondering why women don't like me.

Didn't make me any more attractive at all but it did help me out in literally every other aspect of my life by fueling positivity. But that's not what seduction and game is about at all unfortunately.

[–]Woujo 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What would be some examples of hobbies that are attractive to women? I've done a lot and stuck to the ones I really like but from my experience none of them seem to be considered attractive hobbies.

Girls want to have fun, so anything that is fun, artistic, or cool:

Painting, or any kind of art really
Comedy
Music. Right now most hot girls are into EDM, so DJing is big.
Anything relating to partying: being a party promoter, throwing parties, etc...
Unfortunately, selling drugs
traveling
fun sports like surfing, etc...

Girls are also attracted to guys that fight or do other manly activities, but that's less exciting to them because they can't directly participate.

Other activities are also interesting depending on the girl. If a girl likes rock climbing, she will like guys that do rock climbing. Solitary activities like computer programming are not attractive because girls can't participate.

Some hobbies are not attractive because they are just not impressive: video games, smoking weed, etc...

What I meant was that the whole concept of game or seduction is being attractive. Some guys aren't very attractive and need to focus on what they can control such as dieting, lifting, finances and overall quality of life.

You are looking at "attractive" the wrong way. You are looking at it the ways guys look at it: purely based on looks. But to women, a cool life is part of being "attractive."

[–]olronk1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

In terms of music all I know is guitar and a little bit of drums but those don't have anything to do with edm or DJing so.

I've never been popular or anything so I've never been to a party like that.

I used to sell drugs. I mostly stole it from my family just to make money so that me and my brother could eat. It wasn't fun or cool and I did that for a few years and that didn't prove to be attractive. I wish it did.

The only traveling I do now is to Los Angeles to help out my aunt clean her house every couple of months, other than that I will sometimes travel for work if there is a big event or live on air thing that they need me to help out at so nothing fancy.

I'm not big into sports, my family would always watch soccer but I never go into it.

I thought about doing rock climbing, but decided to go with hiking instead. Helps me clear my head to go hiking but now that I know it's not really an attractive hobby I probably should have gone with rock climbing instead, but I love hiking so I won't stop doing that anytime soon.

I do occasionally play video games. I used to do it a lot when I was a kid to escape. I know it's the epitome of unattractive but it's something fun for me and I don't do anywhere near as much as I'd like because I prioritize more active stuff now. But I don't think I'd ever just stop caring about video games so that's an aspect of me that will unfortunately have to remain unattractive to women.

You are looking at "attractive" the wrong way. You are looking at it the ways guys look at it: purely based on looks.

For the most part from what I've seen guys are more into who the person is rather than looks. I mean I've known men who like women of all different shapes, sizes & colors. If guys were only based on looks as you say then how would you explain those examples?

Most men that I've seen don't care what a woman looks like as long as they're cool people to be around and connect well. That's how I feel and I can attest to that because I'm not very good looking myself so who am I to judge if someone isn't good looking.

When it comes to attraction men and women seem to think very differently.

But to women, a cool life is part of being "attractive."

Well, it depends. I personally love my life and what I've done with it in the last couple of years but having that has not translated in any way into being attractive to women so I don't think that statement is sound. What you will find enjoyable about life, no matter how positive it may be will not correlate to what women find attractive.

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