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[–]Gamefart101 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
a great and cheap first date that i use quite frequently is taking a girl to a humane shelter. most of ( or at least all of the ones ive been too) will allow you to play with and pet/ hold the animals. its a great time and being that its hard to find someone who hates both cats and dogs its a place you can take just about anyone and they will enjoy themselves. also its 100% free.
[–]CaliBboy 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, great idea!
This works as a screening method as well. Any woman who is too prissy to hold animals, due to fear of ruining her outfit deserves to nexted.
[–]CaliBboy 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Connection comes from your conversation not activity. You need to work on your conversation skills. Furthermore, you need to remove the notion of needing to entertain a woman. If a woman wants to be with you she will want to be with you, no matter what you do.
[–]superbear1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I genuinely try to find a connection before meeting - but it doesn't escalate in the way I want.
[–]CaliBboy 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
"Find'? You don't find it you make one. I don't normally endorse pua products but Kezia Noble's The 10 Hook Lead System is best at explaining this. Here's the some notes from the program.
The 10 Hook Lead System
High Caliber Hooks:
Celebrities
Countries
Cities
Hobbies
Jobs
Interests
Movies
Books
Hooks:
Hook 1 - Open Question
Hook 2 - Fact
Hook 3 - Challenge
Hook 4 - Opinion
Hook 5 - Humor
Hook 6 - Anecdotes
Hook 7 - Tasks
Hook 8 - Validation
Hook 9 - Assumption
Hook 10 - Suggestion
Start with:
Validation
Opinion
Tasks
I'm a bit under the weather today but tomorrow I'll upload the audios and send you the link.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go to the subreddit of your city and search for "Dates" in the search bar and you'll get a lot of good ideas specific to your area as well.
[–]Big_TX 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine is only restaurants haha. I guess my city never got the memo.
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