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This is true. Males usually are clueless to subtle. My advice is be direct but then let him dictate the pace of the interaction.
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:21 AM
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"don't be insecure, don't be insecure", almost to the point where you're having to ask yourself to be okay with her fucking other dudes. Ever heard the phrase "She's not yours, it's just your turn"? The phrase portrays the reality you can not control her nor should you even try. You can only control what you do. Being cuckold means you have no balls will accept any type of behavior from her. it'a not insecure to let your woman know what actions you will not tolerate and the repercussions that wi…
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:18 AM
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No, boot camps are scams. All you need is experience and practice. My advice is always been stop cold approaching and learn how women display attraction and view which type of women are attracted to you. If the only women giving you a chance are women you don't find attractive then you have look at yourself and upgrade yourself to catch better women. You have to know what you can get before you can get your top level women. However if you really prefer to spend the money then I suggest you buy a…
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:44 AM
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The fact you're asking is proof you need to do more. Without knowing exactly how you interact with women it's difficult to give concrete advice but I would say you need to be more forward, more direct.
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:25 AM
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Dude, you're in high school you have 6 to 8 hours a day to meet girls. Then you have two hours during Friday night at local HS sports meets to meet girls.
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:20 AM
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It's not about compliments it's how and what you feelings you convey in your words. If your compliments put women on pedestal or place pressure upon her then she will feel she's either too good for you or she is not good enough for you. There's a difference between: "Your body makes me horny and I can't sop thinking of fucking you" and "Your the most beautiful women in world and I can't stop thinking of you". The former conveys your want her but don't need her and the latter conveys she is rarit…
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:14 AM
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I need to begin again and have a life. Well you already have the answer you just need to move forward, a step at a time. Use the kaizen method and progress a little a a time or else you may end up frustrated, disappointed and depressed.
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:21 AM
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It's been a few years since I've read models but I don't believe Mark Manson promotes cold approaching. As I said before; Stop cold approaching and learn how women display attraction and view which type of women are attracted to you. If the only women giving you a chance are women you don't find attractive then you have look at yourself and upgrade yourself to catch better women. You have to know what you can get before you can get your top level women.
/r/seduction28/01/18 06:18 AM
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That's mean she thinks you're a nice guy and nice guys do not make a woman's panties wet. Nice guys are boring and do not give women a range experiences that they crave.
/r/seduction28/01/18 06:09 AM
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She went from hot to cold, until it was getting late and she got really cold. It went okay for a while, we cuddled for a long time. So is this woman your girlfriend or just a casual fuck buddy? Based upon your post I'm confused as well she is, I suspect. As for your dilemma the solution is simple; Be a Man. You do what you what to do. If you want see her again text her and see how or if she responds.
/r/seduction27/01/18 05:26 AM
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You made her feel like whore and wonder why she's mad at you? You need to step back and then re-engage. The hotel is not gong to happen.
/r/seduction25/01/18 06:36 AM
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it's hard to tell based upon your description but since you mentioned being creepy I'm guessing you are not being assertive and not building sexual tension and leading towards sex. Instead you are following her lead and after while behave as friend not as guy who flirted with a woman he wants fuck. You need to be more direct and lead the interaction.
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:43 AM
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Corey Wayne, who taught to pursue little, and not using text except for setting dates and never initiating contact otherwise. I like Corey's book but that one part always struck me as odd and counterproductive. I posted this same advice numerous time son this subreddit so I'll just copy and paste again: Stop cold approaching and learn how women display attraction and view which type of women are attracted to you. If the only women you don't find attractive are giving you a chance then you have l…
/r/seduction22/01/18 06:55 AM
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Sound like you're confusing many different things. Being omega means not giving fuck about whether you're being alpha or are alpha. You live by your standards not by what pua's say is alpha or not. A tactic to attract 10's by ignoring them and gaming 5's is non-sense. I guessing you mis understood what the legendary Assanova has said. Women aren’t going to be attracted to the individual acts that you do. They’re going to be attracted to who you are as a whole. And what I mean by that, is that a …
/r/seduction22/01/18 06:38 AM
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My strategy is to just kinda approach a girl I find attractive with the usual "Hey this is totally random but I just thought you were cute and had to say hi." A girls first initial "I'm gonna try and get away from you now" reaction will be based on the fact that she's anxious, not that you're a horrible, ugly, "not-good enough" guy right? I have say that a bad strategy. Just because you're attracted to her doesn't mean she's attractive to you nor wants to be bothered while out and about. And no …
/r/seduction21/01/18 04:47 AM
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My question is why did you spend an hour with this woman and not progress towards sex nor set up date? Or why spend three months to chase this woman?
/r/seduction21/01/18 04:23 AM
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Advance topics such as hook points, when and how to pull, gaming a girl with an over protective friend, social calibration. None of those topics are advanced. 1) is when she is naked in your bed. A woman can always change her mind up at anytime until you're actually having sex with her. 2) is game 101. When is when you what and how is up to you, direct or indirect or mix of both. 3) Why would you want to? For your ego? For the challenge? If she has a friend guarding it's because she wanted her t…
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:46 AM
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What advance topics you need to learn? In my view the only advance topic in game is how to prepare yourself to transition out the game to one woman. The fact is there comes a time when you can longer game younger women (under 30 years old) and have to settle down with either one women for time (months or years) or lower your standards and settle down with a through bottom bitch.
/r/seduction19/01/18 06:32 AM
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Measuring your progress is totally different than obsessing over little things. You're obsessing over nothing. You did you part and texted her and she hasn't responded. So what? "Don't chase 'em, replace 'em". There are other women in the world. Again read David X's rules. It ain't rocket science. You can waste time, money trying to be everything to every women or you can spend your time with women who are conducive to your life. As far as Jusitn Wayne. He's a pussy hound. Nothing more nothing l…
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:50 AM
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WTF is there apologize about? This is HS non-sense. This is not seddit topic.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:37 AM
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she blatantly told me that she’s coming to my college in 2 weeks and we can fuck when she does. Seems great right? But I don’t go back to school for another week and I figured we could hang out at her school again before that and for some reason she just doesn’t want to So she told you blatantly she's dtf and you want to hang out? You should have took control of the situation and took her to hotel, friends' house or secluded spot. She wants to fuck you not be your friend. Frankly I think you mis…
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:56 AM
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Wow I remember when I was like obsessing over every little thing. You just making it hard for yourself I suggest you read David X's Be Relentless then reread it again then read again to understand his two rules. Or read Rules Of David X
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:34 AM
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A guy's value is judged by good photos and how many likes and followers he gets on Instagram rather than confidence itself. Bullsh--t! Game hasn't changed young women have always wanted to fuck the "hawt" guy. Ain't nothing changed. The use of technology always only inflated the value these young broads think they have. When you can post a booty pic on instagram and get hundreds of likes it can't but help inflate these young women's ego.
/r/seduction17/01/18 04:42 AM
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The devil had his heyday back before men realized using tricks to get pussy is pathetic.
/r/seduction16/01/18 08:15 AM
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But what if there's something fundamentally wrong with me that I have no insight into? This is nonsense. You're beating yourself up over nothing. Women make decisions based her emotions, she has a feeling then looks for evidence to support her feeling and then makes a decision. As long you do not do anything illegal, immoral or rude why a woma's affection changes it does not matter. It's her problem. You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why a woman turns cold and leaves. In the end…
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:03 AM
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You need to build your resiliency. https://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/01/19/building-your-resiliency-part-1-an-introduction/
/r/seduction16/01/18 06:48 AM
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I feel like girls you approach during the day would be more "wife material" and better for a longer term relationship This isn't necessarily true. Women go to clubs for fun and enjoyment. They're not looking for something serious so finding your next LT partner at a club is waste of time. Daygaming offers you a chance to meet women in a different environment and mood. A woman at a club expects and desires to be noticed and wants male attention. The same woman, while going about her day, isn't ne…
/r/seduction16/01/18 06:28 AM
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Go for the number and no, do not act as friend. If you act like a friend you will be treated as friend. As man asking for her number she knows you want hook up. Be direct, be bold.
/r/seduction15/01/18 07:34 AM
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Now that's new one! Send a sexual meme to woman and magically she will want have sex with you. You can not sneak you way into the pussy. if you want a sexual relationship with woman you have bold enough to move the conversation towards sex.
/r/seduction15/01/18 07:19 AM
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Are you serious? You already fucked this broad and now you are scared of her opinion of you for asking for nudes pictures? If you're the type of man who wants nude pictures of his woman then you have to be the type of man who not afraid to ask for them.
/r/seduction15/01/18 07:16 AM
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Is there a way to ask Travis for an introduction after drinks without it coming off weird / thirsty? No you are thirsty. You do not know this woman yet you stalked her on facebook and now come on website seeking advice how to meet this woman. You're invested in this woman without even qualifying this broad.
/r/seduction15/01/18 07:08 AM
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You need to approach. A lot. At the beginning of the year I had a goal of approaching ten girls a week. That felt like a lot. Now I'm doing a minimum of 100 approaches a month and I'm on the fence if that's even enough. You're the perfect example of what is wrong with pua industry. 100 women in month with no success and wondering if you need to do more? You need to learn to identify what women are attractive to you instead of chasing after every skirt you find attractive. You just making difficu…
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:42 AM
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We've went on a few lunch dates after class After class? I think this subreddit is better suited for you https://www.reddit.com/r/highseddit/
/r/seduction31/12/17 05:40 AM
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You're making it hard for yourself. I'll repost a comment I made a day ago since it's fits your situation. Game is simple; identify what type of women are most receptive and attracted to you, focus on these type of women then upgrade yourself to attract even better women. If you have sticking points like how to flirt (push-pull) then learn that aspect and build it into your game. Nothing more. I will add one aspect of that game that rarely gets taught that sometimes (many times) you have at a lo…
/r/seduction31/12/17 05:27 AM
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Totally forgot to upload this. The Beige Phillip Show EP 64 - Listener Mail
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:47 AM
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You seem to doing too much you can not break habits and mentality that took a lifetime to learn in short time. You should focus on being sociable for the next 2 months and then move to other aspects of your game. Conversating with a person is not hard but you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Just relax.
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:57 AM
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I will add one aspect of that game that rarely gets taught that sometimes (many times) you have at a lower standard. One can not go from having no pussy to being attract your fantasy women without having a lot experience. You have start with a solid 5 before you can upgrade to 10. That's the reality of the game despite what the pua industry promotes.
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:53 AM
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RSD is a business built around teaching complex theory that require ever increasing amounts of products, boot camps that need to be bought. Game is simple; identify what type of women are most receptive and attracted to you, focus on these type of women then upgrade yourself to attract even better women. If you have sticking points like how to flirt (push-pull) then learn that aspect and build it into your game. Nothing more.
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:49 AM
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Recently a girl told me that I have a big ego, So what? As long as your ego does not surpass your ability it's not arrogance.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:11 AM
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Every girl you're attracted to will not be attracted to you, that's reality. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong other than you need to work qualifying girls - find girls giving choosing signals.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:46 AM
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Should I️ build comfort first with these girls? Here's my experience if you have to build comfort with a woman she's not really interested. Women fall under three categories, interested (they are attracted to you), not interested (they are not attracted to you) and maybe (They are not necessarily attracted to you but will give you chance if you catch them at the right time in the right way) . These maybe women are the hardest game and take the most effort. This where the Comfort,Attraction,Seduc…
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:30 AM
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It's The Beige Phillip Show Episode 64. I'll try upload it to somewhere tomorrow.
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:19 AM
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You qualify by asking questions that qualify for you time and company. So for example I do not waste time with women who smoke, use drugs, are bisexual, or have children and I will straight out ask women questions about these things. Others will be more indirect and ask questions that will reveal the answers without straight forwarding asking the blatant questions. Whatever works for you but you should at least have qualifications and standards for the women you involve yourself with. Being pola…
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:00 AM
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Well when you have someone use a pseudonym instead of their real name (Derek Vitalio) when running a business is always shady.
/r/seduction24/12/17 07:32 AM
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The problem you are having is being too passive and do not use qualifications. Instead wondering whether a woman is interested you should be more polarizing. Being polarizing removes flakes and timewasters from your life but the downside is it can scare women on fence from being interested in you, However being you have a kid you shouldn't waste time with timewasters or women who are scared away from man who's not afraid to be forward and direct. Instead of asking for numbers you look set up dat…
/r/seduction24/12/17 07:11 AM
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Stop pussyfooting around she is not your friend and stop acting as you can sneak your way into pussy. This girl already knows is she wants be with you or not so stop acting coy. Offer a time spend time together and she will accept or reject. If you have spark her interest she's not into you.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:21 AM
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Why are you letting her dictate the relationship? You're the man you dictate how things move forward. You give her the opportunity to spend time with you and she can either accept to reject.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:13 AM
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Why would you meet up with a broad on tinder and not hit it? Tinder is hook up app not a dating app. Any woman who uses tinder is dtf.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:10 AM
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Generally women do not go out of their way to make guy friends and her comments her body display she wants your attention and validation. Now you have man up display to her your attention and validation are important. Basically act like man trying fuck her not like a friend. If she rejects or makes excuses no problem but if she makes comments about her body ignore them and do not engage. She is a friendly acquaintance and no man who values himself flirts with a woman he can not fuck.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:06 AM
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Ignore her tantrums. If she really hated you she would not nvolve herself with you. She's a drama queen I would seek out another females who's so full of drama. Thats one rule every man should have; No drama from females ever.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:00 AM
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I really want to be in a relationship, and take care of someone that is important to me That is very problematic as the type of women you attract will be women who will use this against you. Based upon you post I will say you need to be more confident and learn to say what you mean and mean what you say and not fear the consequences of how she will take it. I advise to read tow books No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and the Confidence Gap by Dr Russ Harris
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:55 AM
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This broad is using you for attention, validation and ego stroking. Cut her off. You already gave her plenty opportunities to move forward and yet she always has an excuse. Move on to somebody else who respects your time. If she was really wanted you she would have jumped at the chance to meet for date. Move on she is what Alan Roger Currie class a timewaster or older men call a cocktease. https://negromanosphere.com/mans-1-priority-weeding-manipulative-timewasters/
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:43 AM
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working hard to have a decent tinder profile after reading many guides online I hardly get a match Despite what other say with tinder unless you're young good looking white male your chances of getting matches are hit and miss. Girls I talk to on my degree, I could work a bit harder but it seems a bit strange to approach a girl after lectures to be honest and I've hit on many many girls on my degree at least 10. Hoe chasing, cold approaching is a numbers game with 90% failure rate. It's better l…
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:43 PM
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You look like you're suffering from oneitus my BP friend. No way he has oneitis he had performance anxiety, it happens. My advice is don't let it mess with your head. As man you should always lead thus if doesn't seem like a problem for you it will not be problem for her.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:34 PM
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TL;DR Indian male has self hatred and a fetish for Caucasian women yet regrets has work to find women willing to deal his self hatred and fetish.
/r/seduction19/07/16 11:19 PM
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Day game is more direct than bar game. Just keep doing what you're doing at the club/bar just tone it down a bit. my format is: eye contact approach genuine compliment I then ask direct questions about what I want to know (does she smoke, use drugs,have kids,etc) then number exchange then tell her when and what time I will text her to hook up. Also I'm black so I can be more direct then say a white middle age man gaming a business women during the day. You will have find the style and format tha…
/r/seduction12/07/16 10:10 PM
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-Women want to FEEEEL a range of emotions. Do not try to make her happy, give her a full range from fury to ecstasy. This is a.k.a. her Drama Cookie Frank Kermit Further listening: Frank B Kermit - Why She Wont Have Sex with You Frank B Kermit - 10 Emotional Needs Of Women Interview (2015)
/r/seduction12/07/16 09:54 PM
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The first girl I talked to was reallyyyyy cute and she was also hot. Had a convo about how terrible our school is, our majors and classes, etc. I asked for her number but she said no (I ain't even mad tho) Why are you taking about non-sense? You should more upfront and direct. https://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/heres-post-by-jack-bauer-off-masf-on.html Second girl was also cute and hot. She was helping me in the administrative building since I didn't know how to file one of the financial ai…
/r/seduction12/07/16 09:35 PM
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Models is for inner game and The Manual is for techniques. Read Models if you need inner game help. Read The Manual is you need a few techniques to improve your game. Read this if you're starting to game. https://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/heres-post-by-jack-bauer-off-masf-on.html
/r/seduction10/07/16 10:02 PM
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You are a dumb ass. She throws herself at you and instead of taking the lead you fumble. You let her dictate when and where. You should have take control of situation and stated when and where. It's obvious she frustrated by you lack of initiative. Be the man and take charge of the situation.
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:49 PM
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What am I missing? if you "hooked with her" (had sex with her) then why are so timid around her? Tell her when and where he want to see her and she will either respond favorably or not.
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:40 PM
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NO!!! NO!!! Stop being so afraid and desperate. If you like this woman and want to spend time with her then do so. However I suspect she doesn't have some feeling for you that you do for her. That's life. You can't have every woman you want. You can't trick you way into pussy nor a relationship.
/r/seduction15/06/16 10:44 PM
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Stupid dumb idea. An game for immature idiots to amuse themselves.
/r/seduction15/06/16 10:39 PM
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This girl I met was all over me in the early days. I started showing interest too and then she backed off. Did you truly do something wrong by acting too clingy or did you just display your interest and desire? If it's the former then work on not being so clingy and desperate for female affection and attention. If it's the latter you did nothing wrong, she is not the woman for you. That made me curious, so I started being a little needy, messaging her once or twice a month. Telling her shit like…
/r/seduction15/06/16 10:32 PM
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Also I would add spending anytime with RP wackos one begins sees an undercurrent racism and overt misogyny.
/r/seduction14/05/16 10:23 PM
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Deida is a dumbass and only those who absolutely no knowledge of theology would find anything him less than tool. He's worse than Tolle. How can anyone take a man with no expertise in theology, who knowledge comes from a man who told people to worship him (Bubba Free John) seriously.
/r/seduction14/05/16 10:00 PM
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Models and Mode One definitely do not have same philosophy. In you mean both teach "no game is best game" then yes they have same philosophy but ARC's mode one is no nonsense approach to sexual connections. ARC had never had a successful long term relationship and one he did have he played himself (Tyler Collins). He has often said he never met a women he would like to spend time with without fucking. That's his game -- by being "upfront and straightforward" root out all the women who not intere…
/r/seduction14/05/16 09:44 PM
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You're confusing attraction with connection. Furthermore, you definition of charming may be faulty as I have never known a women refuse to date a man because he was too charming. You might be confusing charming with being deferential.
/r/seduction11/05/16 11:21 PM
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Be a man and stop being a pussy hound. You know these women want more than fling and trying persuade into a relationship. So you either distance yourself from them and go find women who are at your level (side chicks,fuckbuddys,etc) or keep being a dick, stringing these women along until one day you mess with wrong women and she turns on you. It's guys like you who fuck it up for rest of us. I have no problem telling woman look I like you , I enjoy your company and love fucking you but our relat…
/r/seduction11/05/16 11:12 PM
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And square up (like have you hips face hers and your shoulders face her.) make eye contact ect. Context!! Context!!! Context!!! This behavior is very confrontational and off putting outside a few contexts. Comfort has be built first before attempting this behavior. A stranger who posts himself in "square up" is sending verbal clues he's a danger. One has make strong eye contact first and then after she sends signals of interest (holding eye contact, smiling,etc) then you proceed to "square up".
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:30 PM
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So you're the fun friendly party guy then once you reach their homes you turn into guy who sexually interested in her and wants fuck her. Your problem is you are sending Mixed signals all around. You're trying sneak you way into the pussy.
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:22 PM
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You question is basically how move out of the friend zone. Within year's time you have done nothing to show this woman you're interested in her and now you want her to romantically interested in you? If the situation was reverse how you feel? If woman you had no interest in suddenly tries to pursue you romantically , would it make you feel weird?
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:16 PM
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The real question why do you people can behave rudely towards and you accept it? ditch that broad and find someone else.
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:07 PM
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Here's something you will not truly understand until you get older; the older you get the younger women you attract and the older you get the older women you attract. The former refers to all hot women 18-34 that will interested in you when hit mid 20's - 40. I'm in my forties and routinely have 18 year olds eyeing me. The latter refers to women in their 30s and 40's interested in you when hit mid 20's - 30's. As for now you have develop your confidence. HS girls, despite their behavior are high…
/r/seduction26/04/16 10:51 PM
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I highly recommend The Happiness Trap and/or Confidence Gap by Dr Russ Harris. He has solid techniques to help you deal with your issues.
/r/seduction26/04/16 10:38 PM
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You're friend zone, move on to another girl. Stop fixating on this girl. She isn't worth your time.
/r/seduction26/04/16 10:34 PM
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Sounds like you off to a great start. My only advice is on the second date be bold and be sure to escalate sexually.
/r/seduction26/04/16 10:29 PM
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Reread his post again he didn't "hit on her" that's why he is in the situation he is in. He simply made small talk.
/r/seduction21/03/16 11:13 PM
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This is why being direct is superior to being indirect. My advice be direct and she will either reciprocate your interest in her or decline.
/r/seduction21/03/16 10:45 PM
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Stop placing this woman on pedestal. By doing so you leave only one option but to look down upon you. Be bold and blunt.
/r/seduction14/03/16 11:02 PM
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Very wordy and not useful in my opinion. textguide
/r/seduction05/03/16 11:08 PM
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Leaders lead from the front not the back. Being proactive and assertive not passive and reactive.
/r/seduction19/02/16 10:47 PM
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How would I know if he's interested? talk to him.
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:56 PM
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Avoid technique based books at all cost. Research the author first and see if his back story and personality is similar to yours. Models by Mark Manson is solid book Rules of David X is great! Other great books are: Everything Out of Her Mouth Is a Test by Frank B. Kermit. I'm a Man, That's My Job - Frank B Kermit
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:53 PM
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He has problem with his eye contact technique. It's not unusual most men do not know how to lock eyes with women. Men do not do well with hints, non verbal clues, etc since our communication style is direct. Instead of wondering just talk with you him AND ensure you touch him (kino) or else he will think you are just being friendly. When it comes to gaming men women have to take the lead and be direct then let him take the lead at his pace. No hints, innuendo, etc be direct! For example: "I thin…
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:46 PM
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If you revile women why would you want be around them? This is pua/red pill non-sense. Angry diatribes from loser men who do not understand women yet hate the fact their value as man revolves around their (lack of) ability to connect with women. "You can't be mad at a fish for swimming!" Dante Nero Further reading: http://postmasculine.com/pickup-artist Further listening: Frank B Kermit - Why So Wont Have Sex with You Frank B Kermit - 10 Emotional Needs Of Women Interview (2015)
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:27 PM
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I was wondering if anyone else has thought of doing it like a planned thing Never, thats feels like such a smarmy thing to do. It's one thing to game women at event/location it's another to purposely go to a place and game women. If you need a place to find women you need to leave your house more often and inject more activities/hobbies in your life.
/r/seduction16/02/16 11:08 PM
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Be more direct! Stop with small talk. Lead the conversation to topics you want learn about the type of women you're dealing with.
/r/seduction16/02/16 11:02 PM
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Taking her availability and changing my schedule to accommodate it seems needy to me. So true!! It priorities pussy and her. Its behavior that pussyhounds use. Their main focus is getting a variety of pussy regularly so they simp and appease women at every chance to find new pussy. A man who has value can always find pussy that's easy, finding quality women isn't thus using polarizing tactics filters out low value women (time wasters, cockteases,unrefined women,etc).
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:21 PM
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Why So Wont Have Sex with You Frank B Kermit - 10 Emotional Needs Of Women Interview (2015)
/r/seduction22/01/16 10:45 PM
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As with anything you have put in the time learn. There are no shortcuts. As per your date just remember to always lead the interaction.
/r/seduction17/01/16 10:51 PM
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The problem you haven't built any comfort before escalating. I do not recommend any puas or products since most products are crap and most puas are liars and con men but Frank Kermit's approach and his explanation of a women's needs makes comfort building simple. Why So Wont Have Sex with You Frank B Kermit - 10 Emotional Needs Of Women Interview (2015)
/r/seduction17/01/16 10:36 PM
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WTF? This is shit repost from yesterday: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/40z2yb/let_me_know_what_you_think_this_is_a_bit_obscure/
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:32 PM
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Talking to women who has boyfriend is a waste of time. Either she is lying and using it as excuse to next you or she does and you are trying eat off another man's plate. There's plenty of women out there to focus your time and attention on. Why waste time on one not interested in you? Approaching a group of girls. Me: Hey girls, so I'm running for president in 2016 I was hoping I could count on your support this fall. Translation: Hey girls I don't have balls to directly say I'm attractive to yo…
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:30 PM
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Not true relaxation can be produced by lowering your respiratory rate. Just as excitement and anxiety can be produced by rising your respiratory rate.
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:53 PM
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So instead of sending one text and not waiting for response. You want me to send one text, wait for response ,and then send another text? That's a text conversation. Conversation is for face to face meetings not through text. Text is solely for information exchange.
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:50 PM
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https://www.spire.io/blog/2015/04/23/how-breathing-changes-in-a-state-of-calm/
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:47 PM
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Stop with the pua crap and text convos. Text only for logistics, to set in person meeting. Your text should include commands only (Tomorrow you+ me, 8pm at [place]") or questions mixed with commands ("Do you have something sexy and black to wear? I love women who wear black, wear it tomorrow when I see you"). By getting into text convos you are letting her lead the interaction and control the frame. You're the man you lead, always!!
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:12 PM
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Multimedia: Don’t get caught with frumpy phone. Spend the extra “ching” and stay ahead of the game (or just in it) technologically. Women are critical beings, and having last year’s (or older) gadget can hurt your cred. Just sayin’. Who would to be with such a vapid bitch? Interactivity: This is an easy one, and one of the oldest methods of attraction and rapport. In any interpersonal interaction, keep them engaged by keeping them entertained. Come prepared. Why would any man of worth turn himse…
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:02 PM
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WTF? I rarely see American puas post videos of non-American women.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:51 PM
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Your comment demonstrates you do not have a definitive standard for the woman you want besides body type. Do you want women who outdoorsy or athletic or homebody and gamer? Extroverted party girl or introverted bookworm? The type of women you want will dictate where to meet them at? If these places are not the places you frequent you need to do so meet the women you desire.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:49 PM
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Here's the thing you're caught in the belief that "in order to do I must feel". You don't feel relaxed therefore you can not relax. This is wrong. Instead you must realize confidence, relaxation is based upon action not feeling. It does not matter what you feel it matters what you do. Ask yourself what how would a relaxed confident person act is this situation and do it, despite how you feel. I suggest you read the Confidence Gap by Dr Russ Harris. http://nathanschacherer.com/the-confidence-gap-…
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:43 PM
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simple advice but does actually work. Smiling has scientific proven to alter and boost your mood as well as the mood of others. Moreover, you can change your mood by changing the rate of your breathing.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:35 PM
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You don't need any help. Just keep doing what you're doing and correct any errors when necessary. Don't caught up in pua crap. Just get out there and learn by trial and error.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:31 PM
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The number of women you have sex with irrelevant. It's quality of women of those that matters. Every man's game and goal is different. Instead of posting up somewhere and harassing women. You need to broaden your life and frequent places where the type of women you want frequent. Do you even know what type of women you want? Do even have standards and qualifications for the women you involve in your life?
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:29 PM
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It depends on what you mean by "brushed away". A rejection is different than playing coy. Until more details are provided you will not find the answer you seek.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:50 PM
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Frankly, you're delusional. All these things you conjure up in your mind are not true. Move on. She doesn't want you. She has your number and if she really wanted you she would contact you. That's life! Every man has this story in their past. Learn from it (always be direct and lead the interaction) and move on.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:46 PM
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Learn to smile and practice, practice, practice. Soon the it will be become natural.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:22 PM
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It doesn't matter if she is joking. You take control of the situation and present her an opportunity to get smashed. Next time you see her tell her the time and place for you to hook up. She will either respond favorably or not. If she tries to play coy and say she was joking. You tell her you are not joking and you are giving her opportunity to get some good dick. You need to polarize the situation and force her to make a decision.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:21 PM
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i got a text telling me how much she likes me, BUT she wants to sort things out before going forward. Translation: She likes the attention and validation you give her but she doesn't want to fuck you. (I should emphasize that i wasn't needy at all, i texted/called maybe 1-2 a week, this went for about 3 weeks) . You were needy by texting more than once. You only text should have about time and place for the next date. Now, almost 1.5-2 months have passed and i want to come back and make it happe…
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:13 PM
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Send a simple text. "Hey, [his name], you have some free time for coffee date? How about [day and time]?" He will either respond (within 24 hours , if interested) or not. Either way you'll have your answer.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:04 PM
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Why didn't your female friend pay for her friend? You paid for her expecting this would earn you a chance to get in her pants, which NEVER works. Just take the money and find another girl and learn some game. As far as women, how important is having women in your life to you? If it's important to you you would do what necessary to find women, even if that means moving to another city.
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:58 PM
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You obviously do not get it but you will learn the hard way.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:34 PM
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You mean time travel/Time bridge/bouncing.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:24 PM
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Sorry but that is mangina talk. Either this woman will follow your lead or you will follow hers and then she will leave since no woman respects or tolerates a man she can control. Again, if she is interested in you she will enjoy being in your company, the activity is irrelevant. Pick an activity you enjoy. If she doesn't enjoy your hobbies chances are she will not like your personality nor anything about you.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:18 PM
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Man up and take the risk and go for the woman you want. One or two things will happen; number girl will be pissed and cockblock your attempts with her friend or she will move on and not interfere with your attempt with her friend. Chances are the former will happen but either way waiting is for pussies. Man up and take the risk.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:11 PM
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Why do think it's your job to entertain her? What do you want to do? Pick an activity you enjoy and invite her along and she doesn't enjoy it then she's not the right woman for you. Remember she in YOUR life you are not in her's. Ideally the woman you choose to be in your life should enjoy your company, the activity is irrelevant. How you make her feel when she is your company is important not the activity.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:07 PM
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The simple answer is give her what she needs but rarely give her what she wants. If she give her what she wants she will become bored with you and move on. In my opinion Frank Kermit's 10 emotional needs of women is spot on. http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/addressing-womens-emotional-needs.html http://mensdatingmastery.com/frankkermit1/ http://mensdatingmastery.com/frankkermit2/
/r/seduction26/10/15 10:58 PM
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Looking down demonstrates submissiveness and/or attraction. I always assume the both. A maintaining gaze could be attraction/interest or courtesy. It's hard to tell unless witnessed first hand. Usually it means attraction/interest if the woman is smiling as well as maintaining gaze. However, women tend to maintain gaze in social interactions more so then men so it could very well be nothing more than simple courtesy.
/r/seduction26/10/15 10:53 PM
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Clearly you have never tasted fame nor know any famous people. Anyone can achieve fame by notoriety or celebrity it has no value by itself. The most valuable people are not famous.
/r/seduction23/10/15 08:06 PM
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Why do you think she is out of your league? Fame does not equate with value. She's still a woman who has needs and as man you can fulfill them. In fact from experience I can tell you fame is isolating.It elevates you above most of the people around you socially thus it's hard to connect with people. I bet she is dying to meet someone who treats her as person rather than an unicorn.
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:09 PM
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It's hard to gauge from what little you wrote but it appears as if you didn't establish any comfort before escalating with the OKC date and the Tinder girl was looking for a slower pace but you did not handle your rejections well. You should have continued the conversation with her as to why she feels things were moving too fast. An nonsensical artificial rule (No sex before the third date) or she was attractive but felt pressured?
/r/seduction21/10/15 10:43 PM
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However, if the woman does respond positively to the seducer, even in the tiniest way that we’re always trying to identify here, he should pursue. If she has or doesn’t have a boyfriend is none of his business but hers. And who knows who he will be doing a favor. I call bull sh*t!!. Have some ethics and morals. There's plenty of woman around. There's absolutely no need to eat off another's plate. As well why would you want reward bad behavior from women? As adult she is responsible for excoriati…
/r/seduction17/10/15 11:13 PM
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You're a young man she knows has other options thus she playing the role to get what she wants. Not all older women are like this. Most older women would not involve themselves with a younger man.
/r/seduction17/10/15 11:06 PM
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Do you really want be around her knowing she is fucking other guys? That she is giving them everything you want? You can't be afraid to lose the woman. Besides your chances with this woman are zero. Move on to another woman and distance yourself form this woman. Being friends with her will only hurt you more.
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:25 PM
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As long as it is not boring it will get the job deal. Hey what's' up is boring. Hey [her name] this is [your name]. let's talk about...... My texts are very straight forward. [her name] thinking about you. you + me coffee tomorrow @ 2pm. If she doesn't respond I do not text her again. There's plenty of woman around. I don't chase woman.
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:21 PM
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You're over-thinking this. If she is interested she will respond and if she is not you can't trick into responding.
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:05 PM
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Yup you ruined your chances. Never let a woman run the interaction. http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:00 PM
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She makes friends with guys to have a group of willing makes males to have sex with. She doesn't randomly form friendships with guys. she has a plan.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:58 PM
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http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:55 PM
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The fact you do not understand the latter is the former is troubling.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:45 PM
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So she still has a mouth!! You should allowed her to give a blowjob or at least handjob.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:44 PM
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It's a test. She is testing you to see if you are a man who can lead her or are you a weak male who afraid of expressing his sexuality.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:43 PM
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Relax and stop over thinking. Do what you want , if you want kiss her, then kiss her and if you want to got back to your place then take her back to your place. She will let you know when it going too fast for her. As the man you lead and she will follow.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:39 PM
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I'm afraid that I might come off as a creep looking for sex That's your problem. Why do you think a man displaying sexual interest in female is creepy?
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:35 PM
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this should be on /askseddit/ not Sedit However...... She was in Europe for two months having the time of her life while I was back at home during winter, thinking about her all the time and waiting for her to get back. major one-itis!! She gets back, we are messaging LOTS. I mean, way more than the normal amount you message someone. And getting pretty deep as well. Got sucked into text convos to entertain her and did not to escalate sexually. which lead to..... We eventually hang out, which was…
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:32 PM
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We are talking about classes and such but she's not smiling or giving me any signs that's she interested. And why would this be fun to her? She could talk her girlfriends about these topics. Your strategy should be the interaction should be fun and exciting. In essence you need to convey to her by your words and actions she will feel excitement and pleasure being in your presence. The same goes for text. I sense you got into boring text convos with women and confused why nothing came of these te…
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:56 PM
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let her come to you about it.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:50 PM
1

Looks do matter they just do not matter in the way they do for men.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:46 PM
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Your mind goes blank due you not believing in yourself and your value. You still have the mental block that you are not prize but the women are. That you must do something to convince them to come down from their pedestal to grace you with their presence. Until you realize you have more value to offer her then she can to you you will always have mental blocks.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:29 PM
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WTF? The guy does not know how to get the point nor how to tell a good story. Plus the video doesn't even match the story.
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:30 PM
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I think one of the most important things is to have no expectations because day game conversion rates are universally low. Anyone who claims a lay rate of over 1% either has unusually favorable circumstances or is exaggerating. That comment speaks volumes on the type of women you game. 1%? so for every 100 women you only have sex with 1 woman? With that kind of stats you need to widen your targets and opportunities. Based upon your stats I assume you gaming upper class business professionals or …
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:22 PM
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You know what your problem is therefore the solution is the opposite. Do not entertain all women of the group. Find your target and isolate her and then escalate. You do not have a "responsibility to talk to them". You need to rid yourself of this false belief.
/r/seduction13/09/15 10:27 PM
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Advanced Speed Seduction stuff by Jeffries. WTF? Who recommends the devil is this day and age? He may have created the industry but many his teachings are outdated. He still advocates using tricks (NLP) to get women. Jeffires himself is not exemplar of a man to emulated. He's a petty, angry and bitter man.
/r/seduction12/09/15 10:04 PM
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Ask for the number and control the interaction. http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3
/r/seduction11/09/15 10:32 PM
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If its only four steps then why don't you type the four steps instead of posting a link to a video?
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:16 PM
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Find another girl. She is using you for validation and attention. Never allow a woman to waste your time and affection.
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:09 PM
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You act and stop thinking. Once you have the right mind frame then the opportunities will present themselves.
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:06 PM
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Agree and amplify is solid tactic but it doesn't address why she is asking. What she wants to know is how you will treat her differently then other women. If you answer displays you will treat her one of the many she will lose interest in you. I would say something along the lines like: "Look (her name) , I'm very particular about the women I bring into my life and that is why I'm talking to you. I see something special about you that I want to know more about".
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:47 PM
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I think they get the player vibe man, cause they ask me that I lot (you look like you got a lot of hoes, you have a girlfriend, how many do you have lol) How you answer this question will determine whether you will successful or not. It's a test question. Black women tend to deal with aggressive males more so then other nationalities thus you have convey strength by answering the question. If you sure weakness by answering unconfidently then you just blew yourself out. The answer to the question…
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:33 PM
1

Uptalk vs downtalk If you have to plow your way through conversation to get the woman, she isn't interested nor worth it. Learn to filter out women who are not interested and only spend your time with women who interested in you. Don't hoe chase. Choose your women accordingly.
/r/seduction29/08/15 10:24 PM
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at the time Rooshv looked very differently than now. He had to use indirect game. His disheveled hipster looks were his disadvantage. Moreover, RooshV has some precise (and racist) ideas about beauty. His targets were exactly the one who would fall for disheveled hipster thus he had build strong comfort before escalating to seducing.
/r/seduction29/08/15 10:14 PM
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Well when you're black you gotta play the right cards, being a nerdy black guy only works for Lebron James. James is not a nerd. Even in highs school he was a star athlete in nearly all white school. You think he was outcast in that environment? He was the center of attention everywhere he went. Using James was a bad example to use.
/r/seduction25/08/15 08:18 PM
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blacklonerthrowaway is at it again!!! https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/3edikm/20m_new_to_all_of_this_seduction_stuff_and_need/ How many times under how many names how you posted in /amiugly and /Rateme?
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:35 PM
1

she not interested or you're wasting too much time texting. Texting should be for logistics only.
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:15 PM
1

Relax and lead the interaction. Also fix whatever issue you have, staying hard, premature ejection, etc,
/r/seduction18/08/15 10:15 PM
1

When you know the woman has the qualities you want.
/r/seduction10/08/15 11:14 PM
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walloftextPLEASEwalloftext USEwalloftextwalloftext walloftextPARAGRAPHSwalloftext
/r/seduction10/08/15 11:05 PM
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And that's it. I was too afraid to ask for the girl's name or number, I thought it would be too direct You wanted to ask for her number so you should have. Don't let fear of being 'too direct' stop you from escalating with a woman.
/r/seduction10/08/15 11:04 PM
2

You have a hard time finding things to discuss due to you're fear of saying something that will end of the conversation. Just trust yourself you know what to say and when to say it.
/r/seduction10/08/15 11:01 PM
0

Tucker max? In April 2012, Max reportedly offered $500,000 to Planned Parenthood if they named an abortion clinic after him. http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/04/03/is-planned-parenthood-reject-tucker-max-pro-women.html
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:36 PM
1

Eban Pagan is master marketer. As far as information there's better information for free elsewhere.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:29 PM
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Want? Yes. Will actually do it that depends on the woman.
/r/seduction30/07/15 08:10 PM
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You stop being sedditor when you either stop using reddit or don't post in /seduction anymore.
/r/seduction30/07/15 08:08 PM
2

You're not young (under 25) and since you're teacher you probably dress like one (very conservative) thus men assume you're married.
/r/seduction28/07/15 11:03 PM
1

The answer is simple tell her you are unhappy with her communication and be VERY specific with what she does you do not like and why you do not like it. Women are emotional creatures so you MUST be very specific on how it makes you FEEL when she does whatever she does you do not like.
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:13 PM
0

What do you want to do? Determine that then lead by example. if you girlfriend then treat like a girlfriend . if you want a fvckbuddy then treat her like a fvkcbuddy.
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:09 PM
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I had many of his podcasts but deleted most of them as mostly they were nonsense. Like the one where he tells the best way to walk in club and have women notice you is to pretend like you just smoked weed and squint your eyes and the women will notice you. About month or so after he said that he dropped out PUA industry. He can really tell he was hitting the wall and tiring of pua crap and was going through motions just to keep the money flowing. Anyhow here's a link. https://mega.co.nz/#!jBJyTb…
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:00 PM
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You will have to learn. There's nothing wrong with that. There are very ingrained traits within humans. Most humans had to learn everything. From chewing food to using the bathroom it's all learned behavior. Being sociable is no different. Here's some good info for you. Mindset/Inner game http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/David_X_-_Be_Relentless.pdf http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3 Techniques …
/r/seduction22/07/15 10:10 PM
1

It's not about place it's about skills. You develop your game so you game a women anywhere. You have to have honed strategy to meet and catch the women you want.
/r/seduction22/07/15 10:04 PM
1

Are you referring to something else. I honestly am unclear what exactly you are referring to with the compliance test. The woman calling back? the man calling ahead? a girl baling on a date?? It's not difficult. You took the risk and displayed your interest in her and asked her out on a date and now she has to reciprocate by not displaying any kind of hesitance when agreeing to the date. If she does she sending signals she is not interested in you. I was referring to the concept of touching base…
/r/seduction22/07/15 10:01 PM
1

What you mention have absolutely nothing to do with tactic. It is compliance test to gauge whether or not she truly interested in you or just using you for validation or free meal.
/r/seduction21/07/15 11:35 PM
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What do you mean? Just get her on the phone and lead the conversation by stating the time and place and she will either agree or not. If she hesitates use the takeaway. Also do not be afraid to lose this woman or else you will always be the one without the woman. Winners always play to win only losers play not to lose. You have risk the lost to gain the reward.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:50 PM
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Use the takeaway when setting up the date. Here's how Corey Wayne explains it. "Jessica, I have a really busy schedule, and I would definitely like to take you out, but if you can’t make definite plans with me, then how about we just do it some other time?" Then you are going to wait for her response. It is what we call in sales, the Take Away. If she says: "Yes. Give me a call and we’ll make it for some other time..." her interest is low. If her interest is high, she will be more likely to say …
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:42 PM
3

Watch Rapid Escalation by Liam Mcrae. A solid tutorial and with good techniques. His other videos have solid information as well.
/r/seduction20/07/15 08:05 PM
1

Women adore and want men who are confident and display dominance. No women wants a "man" who needs permission to have opinions and to act on those opinions.
/r/seduction18/07/15 08:35 PM
1

I watched it nothing but fluff. He does make a overall good point but mostly the video was fluff. Too much talking not enough actually content. His videos on approach by comparison was much better.
/r/seduction15/07/15 10:53 PM
1

stop being a pussy
/r/seduction14/07/15 08:39 PM
1

You can only get out of the friendzone but bringing other women you are fucking around her so she sees you in a different light. Or distancing yourself from her then later restart the interaction with her as man trying to fuck her not as a friend. Now for your situation you need to move on. She is just using you.
/r/seduction14/07/15 08:36 PM
2

Service workers have be polite to customers it's unfair to subject them to unwanted advances. Any more advice you can give me besides that? Never ask a women if she has a boyfriend. Always assume women under 25 have men their fucking in their life. If she is in a long term relationship she will either tell you or you will find out on your own.
/r/seduction13/07/15 09:39 PM
1

beautiful waitresses get hit on all the time, and the dynamic is awkward. They also get harassed, teased and inconvenienced by men all the time, when they're just trying to do their job. there are countless single women out there in more appropriate situations, right now, waiting for you to ask. Start where it makes sense. https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/3afjza/getting_a_waitresses_number/csc5pib
/r/seduction13/07/15 09:26 PM
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As if approaching is the goal. Approaching is not the goal catching the right women is goal. Approaching is just a means to the end. I suppose you one of those people who recommend hoe chasing by approaching random women anywhere, anytime without any qualification. Or one of those people who say the "the first 100 approaches don't count".
/r/seduction10/07/15 11:12 PM
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The prototypical "nice young man" that any parent would wish for their daughter. You're absolutely wrong. He didn't engage with the parents. And the interaction was so bold it can only mean one thing. He wants to have sex with my daughter.....what parent would love that notion?
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:57 PM
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If I were to guess I was say you may be "charasmatic" but not dominant. You need to lead the interaction. You can't wait for the women to throw themselves at you. You have to take the lead.
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:16 PM
1

Again with this bullshit!!! I propose blacklonerthrowaway gets banned for repeating making the same posts every week.
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:03 PM
5

If she agreed to come over for drinks then assume she will come. If she doesn't then next her. View it as a test. if she is interested in you she will be there.
/r/seduction10/07/15 09:59 PM
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Just no. This will only work with women who are rebelling against their parents. In other words low value women prone to extremes.
/r/seduction10/07/15 09:57 PM
1

Most women under 30 say do not want anything more than a bit of fun. Just go on the date and play it by ear.
/r/seduction07/07/15 09:53 PM
1

WTF? you approached 20 women at one spot on the same night? That reeks of desperation. I would say your abysmal track record comes from not qualifying women before getting the number. Usually unless really pressed for time you should test a women for interest before getting the number.
/r/seduction07/07/15 09:48 PM
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Due to the nature of sharing social circles with your potential partner, concepts such as DISCRETION and ABUNDANCE MENTALITY, are so much more important. Additionally, you are very likely to run into the same women on repeated occasions, meaning you can afford to take your time in the dating/seduction process. This is when you would use SLOW BURN Game. It is highly effective and practical in a social circle. http://socialcircletraining.com/how-to-use-slow-burn-in-a-social-circle/ you have to pay…
/r/seduction07/07/15 09:37 PM
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I want to ask her out but I don't want to just bluntly ask, Why not? You want this girl go get her.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:18 PM
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I'm a man I don't need self validate myself.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:15 PM
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kiss on the date not at the end of the date but you will need to escalate to a kiss. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/18jyge/the_ultimate_kino_guide_must_read/
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:12 PM
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I have to say your posts are getting annoying. How many times has it to be said it's not what you look like it's your attitude and piss poor self image. If you don't think you're attractive why would any women do so? I don't consider myself above average in attractiveness yet I had women stop and stare , a few times in my life. However most of the time that will not happen unless you're extremely handsome. Most women will make slight eye contact or shoot a glance. Some women (this happens more o…
/r/seduction06/07/15 09:21 PM
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1) How long should I text / message before asking to meet? Once. If the woman is interested in you she will want meet with you. There's no need for more than one text conversation to set up a date. 2) How can I minimise the amount of girls going cold? Stop getting into text convos. Meet in person as soon as possible. 3) WTF do I do when a really responsive (normally within minutes), beautiful and smart girl suddenly doesn't reply for a few days? Move on. if she was interested in you she wouldn't…
/r/seduction06/07/15 09:10 PM
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Solid line! I stealing it for my use.
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:21 PM
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if a person uses funny line he is regarded as funny. if a person uses lame lines then he is regarded as lame. Why would anyone want to present themselves as socially inept (lame)? have you ever heard of any women who desires to meet and date a lame man?
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:19 PM
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Be sociable and gaming are not same. Be sociable entails having positive experience with others. Whether its 30 seconds or 20 minute conversation. Seducing/Gaming is all about going from stranger to having sex and more. You need the tools of being sociability to be good at gaming/seducing. One helps the other.
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:58 PM
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That's how it is you have to lead the interaction. In order to get her to open up you need to direct her ("Tell about..."). Shy girls are not very talkative so if this is problem for you do not game shy girls.
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:51 PM
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Models is a solid book but those lines are lame. There always seem to a streak of corniness in white guy's game. If you approached any Black/Latina women with these lines you'll blow yourself out. I don't see these lines working out Punk/Rockablly/Alt women either. I guess these lame lines are for young sheltered upper class surburban white women.
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:48 PM
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tldr supplicate her, validate her and chase her. In other words behave like a thirsty trick.
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:37 PM
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It doesn't matter what she thinks. You are interested in one so be cordial to the friend but be direct and separate her from the friend so you can talk to her. A simple "let me talk to you for second over here" is all that is needed.
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:42 PM
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Is there anyway I can tell if she's actually attracted to me or am I just her "gay text buddy?" Stop having text convos and hook up a date to meet. Send simple text "hey [name] how about you and me coffee date Saturday at 1pm?" She will either respond favorably or make an excuse to not meet. Don't allow women to waste your time. Always lead the interaction.
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:35 PM
3

Oneitis is fixating upon one woman. You're clearly fixating on woman from 3 years ago. Move on.
/r/seduction27/06/15 10:45 PM
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The best way to get over a woman is get on another woman. You need to pursue other women, there's no way around it. I feel for you. I had this happen to me. I had women I was interested in (for 6 months) but never approached then I saw her one day and decided to approach. After talking her for a few moments (indirect game) she looks a bit uneasy. She then tells me she is pregnant has morning sickness. Ouch!! The moral of story, everybody gets oneititis and you can't hesitate.
/r/seduction27/06/15 10:09 PM
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How do I talk about sex with a girl like that without offending or coming off creepy? You don't. If she is really a prude talking about sex will scare her off. Not a bad thing, really since you're not looking for a prude.
/r/seduction27/06/15 10:00 PM
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I think it's due to find out with all tactics and tricks all that there is a cheap lay. Since that all that is you place pressure on gaining the cheap lay. In essence outcome dependence is high. Your validation and self worth comes from cheap lays but sex from women you do not really care for leaves you feeling empty.
/r/seduction24/06/15 12:12 AM
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I will no way endorse what you post as well as will not waste my time deconstructing your post. However, I will say your reap what you sow and you will deal with the consequences of your actions.
/r/seduction23/06/15 11:10 PM
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I would say next her. She is doing nothing to earn a place in your life. You need to use the Brad Pitt Rule for situations like this.
/r/seduction23/06/15 11:07 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:36 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/CougarsAndCubs/
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:31 PM
1

I have a feeling it's because I didn't "hype" myself enough for this, and didn't spend any time in the mirror telling myself how awesome I am. If you inner game were solid you would not need these tricks. Inner game is simply your actions reflect your intentions.
/r/seduction20/06/15 09:08 PM
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Wouldn't it be really weird if I just placed my hand on her leg mid convo? Yes it would http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/18jyge/the_ultimate_kino_guide_must_read/
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:04 PM
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I had conversation with random girls on the street yell,scream and cuss and still give me their number, not because I got game but because I Spit truth. Yes this does work.........but with only low caliber women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hr0-ZCb0nr4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqTE-ig7NhY
/r/seduction18/06/15 10:25 PM
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Me: "Let's go on a date. You got three options: (A) Yes (B) A (C) B" - I did this so I show myself like I'm funny and outcome independent. This is not outcome independent, it's leading the conversation. Her: "Do I have another option? :P" - I thought she was just testing my frame /teasing me. So I told her: Me: "It's up to you babe ;)" - Again outcome independent. No it's not. You let her frame the conversation. You went from leading to following and worse, needy seeking behavior.
/r/seduction18/06/15 10:09 PM
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I sent her a message the following day on FB but it didn't go through. No sure what to do now, You can now make post on facebook where only she can see it and hopefully she will contact you. https://www.facebook.com/help/community/question/?id=3359366879557
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:58 PM
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You make your intentions clear, but you aren't attached to the outcome. this is the flaw of "outcome interdependence" suggested on this subreddit on a daily. You are attached to the outcome but whether or not you obtain the outcome you desire it doesn't change who you are because you know who you are. For example you are You have hobbies, life goals, experience and morals. Whether or not you get women's number or get a date doesn't change who you are.
/r/seduction16/06/15 11:43 PM
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And definitely listen to this so you don't end up in the friend zone. How to get out of the friend zone
/r/seduction16/06/15 11:35 PM
1

Do I simply have to be more aggressive with women? No, you have be assertive not aggressive. It just makes it awkward for me to do that because I am already self-conscious about my height (6'3") WTF? Do you know there are women who will reject any man not over six feet tall. but have no illusions about what most girls think about tall, intelligent, lanky fucking black dudes such as myself, who are pretty much on the bottom when it comes to projecting manliness. GTFOH!! Stop with the pity party. …
/r/seduction16/06/15 11:26 PM
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Self improvement and seduction relevant to high school. https://www.reddit.com/r/highseddit
/r/seduction16/06/15 11:11 PM
1

What am I missing here?? You're missing the point you shouldn't try mold yourself into a Mystery clone. Bad habits can be learned
/r/seduction16/06/15 12:08 AM
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"I'm sorry to tell you I'm currently talking to someone. But if you wanted to do coffee or something I could do that." She is telling you her interest in you in weak but will keep you around for validation and attention and "just in case".
/r/seduction15/06/15 11:20 PM
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We got too physical. The date progressed into some pretty serious making out after about an hour. While she was always into it, I definitely did the initiating. I see now that that probably made her think "he's just after sex", which isn't true at all. No you never escalated past making out. You turned her on then nothing. Kissing a woman is one thing; making out with a woman with no further escalation is a mood killer.
/r/seduction14/06/15 10:04 PM
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There's nothing wrong with your approach. Every man's game is different. However, you can add forcing eye contact to your strategy to increase your opportunities meet more women. When your eyes meet their eyes their body language will tell you if they are interested in you or not.
/r/seduction11/06/15 10:57 PM
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Wall of text!! Please use paragraphs as nobody is going to read that.
/r/seduction11/06/15 10:44 PM
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No, unless you lead this girl on.
/r/seduction10/06/15 10:23 PM
1

Well, sometime even just saying "hi" or asking simple question such as "How is your evening going so far" gets no response. Your problem is no eye contact before hand. With eye contact and body language you easily determine if the woman wants to talk to you or not. I sense you are approaching random people with no eye contact and needy body language and voice tone.
/r/seduction10/06/15 10:17 PM
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If I pre-select doesn't that limit my choice ? Limit yes but your success rate will improve. Do I really have to consider that I have choice when I have had no one so far ? For every guy there are women attracted to him so yes you do have a choice.
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:53 PM
1

By your actions and statements. I suggest you read For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn.
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:21 PM
1

I can tell by your post you're hoe chasing - you're trying to game any and every women you find attractive without any signs of interest form her. Hoe chasing is a numbers game, the more women you approach the more the chances you find one women who is interested in you. You need to preselect your targets better. You need to determine what kind of women you want and tailored your game towards that type of women you want. The principles are the same but the style and techniques you employ on hot …
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:50 PM
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All women are insecure about their looks and all women are insecure about there relationship at times. Do not allow yourself to dragged into this pity party. You should ignore the comment and address the issue. The insecure comments are a symptom the issue is the problem. Deal with the problem and the symptoms will end.
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:41 PM
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Yes it is but thekidbass is not asking about a specific technique or style; he's trying sneakily to coax others to develop game for him. Rather than stating "here's what I do and how can I fix it". He's using a passive aggressive manner to gain information.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:53 PM
1

There's nothing preventing anyone from private messaging anyone and asking them to be a mentor. There doesn't need to be a formal system.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:01 PM
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I think it'll be interesting to read the responses. No, it would not. The intention of the questions are evident. You are trolling for responses so you can use to game women.
/r/seduction08/06/15 07:57 PM
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No, touching a women from behind will instantly instill creepy vibe. Always make eye contact first then proceed to say hi, ask her name then lead the conversation to allow her to talk about herself.
/r/seduction05/06/15 10:32 PM
2

You have understand Corey's game. He doesn't try to seduce women he only deals with women who have high interest in him and he structures his game around that concept. It's similar to The Kidd's concept of Stacking Evidence Form the book: A lot of guys think: Hey, I’m on a date. I can hold hands or put my arm around her. Women will let you know when it is okay to touch. They will give you an invitation. The invitations are usually subtle, so again, you have to pay attention. When you are walking…
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:14 PM
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I want a girl who will get me out to do things during the day, where there aren't a lot of people or spending money betters me as a person, not literally piss it away in drinks. This reeks of weakness!
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:01 PM
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Now you learned a lesson: the importance of eye contact. You need to force eye contact and by their body language you will can gain clues as to whether she is interested or not. You just cold approached a random girl you thought was attractive but displayed no interest in you and your approach was not welcome. That's what happens when one follows pua non-sense. Women are a different gender not a different species. Eye contact and body language will display if she's open to talk to you or not as …
/r/seduction02/06/15 10:29 PM
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If I try to have a respectful, adult conversation they quickly lose interest. This is boring. Women want fun and excitement not serious discussions. Do you think women have these discussions with their friends? only if i treat them as if they are my daughter ("did you get that right?" "how are you preparing for this and that?" "that is nice baby") do they actually show sexual interest. Those questions are not fatherly questions. Those questions display you are leading therefore they are followin…
/r/seduction02/06/15 10:12 PM
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Don't text her. If she's interested in you you do not have to do anything until the date. If she's not interested texting will only lose what little interest she has in you. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/385209/so_did_i_blow_it/crsekra
/r/seduction02/06/15 09:48 PM
1

What's your opener? Maybe you should ditch the opener and just say hello.
/r/seduction02/06/15 07:25 PM
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Polarize the situation and give her some dates and times and let her choose. For example say: I am free. Thursday after 6pm Saturday after 2pm or Monday after 3pm you pick which day we can meet? She will either pick one or use another excuse. If she has another excuse, next her.
/r/seduction01/06/15 11:41 PM
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"so, when should I pick you up? No,no, no. This is letting her decide. You're the man you are supposed to take the lead. When making the date you should have stated the time and had no contact with her until the date. There's no need to verify the date with a call or text. This how Corey Wayne handles dates and I agree with him on this strategy because it works. My response in this situation is something along the lines of: "Jessica, I have a really busy schedule, and I would definitely like to …
/r/seduction01/06/15 11:32 PM
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i'm worried Iv come off as clingy and she is going to lose interest too late she already has.
/r/seduction01/06/15 11:15 PM
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Age-restricted video (requested by uploader).
/r/seduction30/05/15 09:56 PM
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smoking pot by myself, and dumpster diving Those two qualities in itself will work against you for finding a quality women.
/r/seduction30/05/15 09:54 PM
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I am surmising simple logic escapes you. If the foundational belief is false than any beliefs founded upon is false as well. The foundational belief of an animal alpha/beta social hierarchy applied to humans is false. Social mastery and dominance are not alpha, this correlation between the two terms are patently false.
/r/seduction30/05/15 08:24 PM
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If it has been debunked why does this mindframe mixed with the tactics you call immature still works with women. SMH! I suggest you learn the definition of "mutually exclusive" and "immature" You say that the alpha beta concept has been debunked. The concept was based on a false understanding of certain animal behavior. For one most animals do not have an alpha/beta social hierarchy and why shoudl humans behave as animals. Furthermore in animal alpha/beta social hierarchy the Alpha of the group …
/r/seduction29/05/15 10:32 PM
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Again read this slowly since you obviously did not understand it the first time. No need to act immature with immature women. The fact you still are mired in the debunked alpha/beta paradigm and advocate immature tactics with low value women displays you place too much value on pussy.
/r/seduction29/05/15 09:52 PM
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I repeat No need to act immature with immature women. The fact you still are mired in the debunked alpha/beta paradigm and advocate immature tactics with low value women displays you place too value on pussy.
/r/seduction28/05/15 09:21 PM
1

LS spam is bad but this guys spam is worse!!
/r/seduction28/05/15 09:11 PM
1

Confidence is action not a feeling. Many times the feelings don't come no matter how much you perform the action thus stop worry about the feeling and continue to perform the actions of a confident person. I suggest you read the Confidence Gap by Russ Harris
/r/seduction28/05/15 09:09 PM
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"only as friends" is not a anti-slut defense. This woman is friendzoning you. Your choices are deal with it, remain friends and use social game to game her friends or next her and find another women.
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:57 PM
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However, you need to be able to stand the tension and also be able to generate good energy through conversation. That is problem with your anti-kino strategy it is an advanced skill set. Unless one is a master at social situations, which most men struggle with, than learning this instead of kino will retard many newbies growth.
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:54 PM
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More LS spam!! GTFOH!!!
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:50 PM
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No, just no. You obviously have issues with women. No need to act a immature with immature women. Just move on and let her deal with her bullshit.
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:50 PM
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Probably due to not building rapport nor comfort before hand.
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:46 PM
1

You seemed to put the cart before the horse. You need to decide. If she is thinking of you long term you can't turn that into a something casual. If she wants something casual she will leave when you bring up long term. You need to decide or else she will run the interaction and you will lose.
/r/seduction27/05/15 10:36 PM
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You seemed to put the cart before the horse. What do you want? A fuckbuddy? Something long term? For something long term you will need to romance the women. For a fuckbuddy you need present your rules to woman (only see each other once a week,etc).
/r/seduction27/05/15 10:25 PM
2

Move on, this girl is using you for validation.
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:00 PM
0

How do you guys react when a girl does this to you? playfully call her on it. Am I acting right? No, you're acting as a child. Should I do something different? Yes, see above answer to the first question.
/r/seduction27/05/15 08:58 PM
0

I actually don't fetiishize white women. Good for you but can you say the same for most Indian posters on this forum? How many Black posters making posts about how being black puts them at disadvantage? Or any other race/ethnicity? All this posts on this forum are usually by Indians.
/r/seduction27/05/15 08:54 PM
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Not much more you could have done. Gaming a female in front of her dad is the one of most awkward situations. In daygame, should any eye contact be given before hand? Yes, eye contact and body language will inform you whether or not to approach or not. Any tips for approaching at an inconvenient time? You just have go for it. State upfront you know it's unusual than proceed to game as usual. Like when she was ahead of me in line? In that situation you have to force eye contact or use your voice …
/r/seduction27/05/15 08:50 PM
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As I read this subreddit daily I can't help to think most Indians have inferiority complexes and fetishized white women. With this degree of mental insecurity it's no wonder many Indians have problems with woman. Fix your issues first and worry about woman later.
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:39 PM
1

You're over thinking everything. When you see her just ask her out! say we should go on a date. Then state the day and time and she will either agree or not.
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:29 PM
1

While hanging out, I feel as if I was getting IOI's, but that one IOD is too large to ignore! Not it is not. Polarize the situation. Ask her out. Don't let her friendzone you. Always lead the interaction and stop worrying about what she thinks. http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3
/r/seduction26/05/15 10:25 PM
2

When I'm chatting or speaking wit girls I'm trying to "pick out" for being more than just a "girl", I'm trying to act as a "dick". But in fact, I'm more wicked than everything so, I don't understand the difference I'm not sure what you mean I suggest you write it in French and use google translate to translate for you. https://translate.google.com/
/r/seduction26/05/15 10:20 PM
1

While Jeffries had early commercial PUA products, he certainly is not the originator of the PUA "industry." I would probably ascribe that to Cliff's List. This was roughly contemporary with the early Usenet PUA communities like ASF. There's no Cliff list without ASF/mASF and no ASF/mASF with Jeffries. Jeffries made the industry possible by showing and creating a viable market for such products. He created the community. He was the only one who had 'students'. All others had products.
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:16 PM
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Ok you need this. http://www.mediafire.com/listen/o21ou4opqa5ogp4/The+Beige+Phillip+Show+EP+64+Pulling+The+Trigger+-+Resistance+sample.mp3
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:09 PM
1

http://www.erikvonmarkovik.com/
/r/seduction23/05/15 11:14 PM
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Who teached PuA's the PuA? Ross Jeffries is the father of the pua industry. There were others before him writing books about game but he's the one who created the industry. Are they born with it? Nobody is born with it but some have a natural talent for displaying qualities that women find attractive. Who holds the monopoly in this Art - who dictates it's rules/game? Nobody. Every man's game is different. The basics are the same but the style and techniques are not.
/r/seduction23/05/15 11:10 PM
1

I thought I would just go knock on her door and apologize once more for the noise, and make acquaintance that way. But that just seems awkward. It can't hurt. Either it will work or not. What would you do? I would pass on her since I have no idea what's she like as person. I don't hoe chase.
/r/seduction23/05/15 10:42 PM
1

Childish and immature. Don't do this!!!
/r/seduction23/05/15 10:29 PM
2

Every time I try to escalate to this HB 7 she goes "What are you doing?". does she say seriously or playfully? Without context it's hard to say. What kind of escalation are you doing?
/r/seduction23/05/15 10:27 PM
0

Me thinks, the newbie is confusing "friendzone" with push-pull tactics.
/r/seduction20/05/15 11:49 PM
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Yeah because, of course, meditation and yoga are subjective constructs. GTFOH!
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:27 PM
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There's nothing "spiritual" about meditation, yoga, or mindfulness. Both mediation and mindfulness (an useless term) are nothing more concentration exercise. Yoga is nothing more stretching and breathing exercise. "Ritual is thus a process of programming (conditoning), or deprogramming the spirit to manifest desirable effects in our lives. The assumption of responsibility for the conditioned state of our spirit - what we like; what we can do; how we feel; how we spontaneously react to situations…
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:12 PM
3

But I didn't get her number because it felt weird to do that with her sister present. Why? What's weird about asking a girl's number you want to see again? How should I go about it at the next meetup? Say "I totally forgot to get your number last time we talked." pull out your phone and ask her the number. simple. don't complicate things. Simplicity is the key.
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:03 PM
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Make statements then ask open ended questions about statement.
/r/seduction20/05/15 08:34 PM
2

Yes to some, but those are women you do not want in your life. I never had women leave me because I told her that. Every man's game is different. I'd rather be a "dick" than a moist simp listening to some women's nonsense.
/r/seduction19/05/15 11:22 PM
1

I do know their "language" I just refuse to engage in it. I have no problem asking a woman what she is babbling about. Do this a few times and she will no longer bother you with nonsense. It always worked with me.
/r/seduction19/05/15 10:09 PM
1

The reality is the less you give a fuck, the more people like you. Ever hear of 'girls like assholes'? Well, it's true, only because those assholes simply don't give a fuck and are doing whatever makes them tick. This is so wrong on so many levels. First, women do not like assholes they put up with them thinking they can be the one to change him into something more refined. "Bad boys" bring out women's nurturing nature. Also, "bad boys" are selfish and only focus on what they want regardless of …
/r/seduction19/05/15 10:07 PM
3

The fact is you did your friend dirty and you should feel somewhat sad how your relationship failed due your selfishness and greed.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:54 PM
2

"good news. I've decided to progress you to the next stage and give you a telephone interview at lunchtime today." With no rapport developed beforehand most women would next you if someone tried to follow your advice. Now when I see her I can continue to make jokey references to progressing her to the next stage if she impresses me- keeping the mood a little bit sexual and like she needs to be performing to my satisfaction. So at this point you have no idea if she will flake on you before date n…
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:50 PM
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That's the problem with women they talk about nothing and everything at the same time. it's randomness to the nth degree.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:44 PM
0

"I'm not that sexual, I'm not that attatched to sex, and never have been so it's never bothered me. I choose clients I find attractive already or who only want to hold hands. Or you know, just watch me. And if they are willing to pay, who cares!" This broad is delusional and nothing but trouble.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:41 PM
2

A simple opener is force eye contact, smile then say hi. It works everywhere.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:32 PM
1

being all touchy messing with my hair and such WTF? What you think that means? she broke of with her boyfriend a month ago She is on the rebound. Don't expect anything long term with her.
/r/seduction19/05/15 12:18 AM
1

Well, first ask about their past relationships and casually mention that you had a serious relationship but since things went south, you aren't looking for anything serious right now. No. Don't do that! If she is the type to want a relationship she will conjure images on her head of how she is one to change your mind. Be upfront, be bold and be unambiguous. To women ambiguity leaves room for them to think they can change you. You need to state that you're looking a casual relationship and explai…
/r/seduction18/05/15 11:58 PM
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How do I not get as emotionally involved/invested in a girl? Date other women. The thought of me not being sure whether or not she is as into me really hinders me around her. Polarize the situation. This girl knows you well enough to know if she wants sex or relationship. It's your job to force the issue. When you are with her behave as she's girlfriend. She will either tell you by words or body language if she's interested nor not.
/r/seduction18/05/15 11:51 PM
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http://www.employerslawyersblog.com/2013/06/fired-for-dating-a-client-employee-fails-to-prove-violation-of-colorados-lawful-activities-statute.html
/r/seduction18/05/15 11:23 PM
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The synopsis of story; Young coed tries to experience pleasure with mature male but ends up with the same experience as immature male.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:43 PM
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it seems like the more I say, the less attracted the girl becomes That's how it goes. The more she talks the more she feels you are invested in her and not out for just sex. You need to direct the conversation towards her offering up her life's details. If you do all the talking she will feel you're talking at her, not to her.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:40 PM
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She is basically saying she knows you will eventually leave her but don't cheat on her. When you find someone you want pursue let her know so she can move on.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:37 PM
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keep it simple. just say "we should go out for (coffee,tea,ice cream) and talk. How about (day and time)?"
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:20 PM
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Maybe he doesn't like club game nor the caliber of women in these environments, I know I don't. What does he say why he won't approach?
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:15 PM
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If you want multiple women you need to upfront about it. The more you hide it the more the possibility of the destroying the relationship you built. Having multiple women is cop and blow. Very few women can maintain relationship like this in the long run.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:05 PM
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You're definitely not ugly. I'd say pretty average. I'll say the same thing. I would say your lack of success with women has more to do with how you feel about self than your looks. You need to work on your self image.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:01 PM
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Once you have k+number closed, how do you let her know you want to have sex with her without being so direct. There is no other way. Not every women is down for a same night lay. After making out a couple of times how should you change how much attention you give them to not seem clingy? Why would you not give attention to a women you made out with? If you do not want her why make out with her? How do you handle the girls friends? Its easy to appease the cockblocks enough to k-close but how do y…
/r/seduction16/05/15 11:48 PM
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Your comment again is example of transference. You speak of ego yet anyone reading your comments can easily see you ego is bruised and you feel your self image is endangered and you're lashing out. This comment can easily describe you many men waste their time by spending money and time on women and get nothing but pussy in return. As if pussy is special and not plentiful? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/34ngiy/my_wings_aa_is_starting_to_kill_me_how_can_i/cqxaxd8 btw, I am not this pe…
/r/seduction16/05/15 11:10 PM
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"Lets get X tomorrow" - leads to "Yea I might be able to do that" "Lets grab X and Y at Z later" - leads to "I'll think about it, depends on what our plan is for tonight but if not I'll probably see you out" All this mean she is not interested. If she was interested in you she would have jumped at the chance to spend time with you. "Don't chase them , replace them"
/r/seduction16/05/15 10:28 PM
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Your comment is a textbook example of transference. Only women starved for affection and not quite bright would randomly hook up with a stranger that texts them.
/r/seduction16/05/15 10:04 PM
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So procure random girls' numbers from the web then try to game through text, am I right? Maybe it's a Finnish thing but Finnish women sound dumb and starved for affection. I don't see this working in the US nor Canada.
/r/seduction15/05/15 10:03 PM
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This be straight up with him and tell him I like her
/r/seduction15/05/15 09:50 PM
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If she seems like the type who would do that then move on to another girl.
/r/seduction13/05/15 11:33 PM
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Here's a simple rule if you don't want anybody else to know something do not say it to another person.
/r/seduction13/05/15 10:31 PM
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Cold reads are an immediate skill reserved for comfortable engaging in conversation with women. Most newbie PUA do not fall within this category. The number one topic within any pua forum or site is "approach anxiety" and the next "what to say to a girl". How exactly is someone who has these hangups use cold reading skills? In order to cold read you have observe the situation. Most newbies are too in their head to think clearly nonetheless think creatively.
/r/seduction13/05/15 10:21 PM
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Generally move on but this situation you need to restart the interaction and be polarizing. You need to convey by your actions you want to be with her.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:50 PM
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Stop being a friend and be polarizing. Ask the girl out in a simple text.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:44 PM
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Is texting too much a bad thing? Should I be more direct and less "conversationy?" Is there a specific way to be approaching text? Yes, yes, and yes.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:42 PM
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Hinting is what women do. Men state their opinions. The problem is you have not controlled the frame with this girl. Instead you're wishy washy. In the text you must be convey you are sexually interested in this girl. She will follow your lead or disengage from you from. You have be bold and be prepared to lose this girl or else you just spinning your wheels hoping you can trick your way into the pussy. In other words, when in doubt always polarized the situation and force the woman to make a de…
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:31 PM
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So true. You have discount anyone who advocates cold reads.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:22 PM
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Your problem is your afraid of saying something she disagrees with so you're playing it safe. Don't do this, instead state an opinion and ask her about it. Ask her open ended questions. Lead the interaction.
/r/seduction12/05/15 09:32 PM
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Do these things mean anything? Yes, it means she is interested in you. I probably won't approach because of the age difference but I just noticed these things. What age difference? Is she under age?
/r/seduction12/05/15 09:29 PM
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The concept of test are simple have her do something for you. it could anything like have her pick up your dry cleaning or pick up something from store for you. Do this on weekly basis, once or twice a week. Any women who wants to be with you will gain pleasure from being needed by their man. If she resists then she doesn't want to be with you, she wants what she can get from you. I think this will help gain a better perspective on women. Why She Won't Have Sex With You Interview - Frank B Kermi…
/r/seduction12/05/15 09:08 PM
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More LS spam! GTFOH!!
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:11 PM
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Long story short, it seems that almost every time I have really invested myself towards pursuing a relationship with a particular girl, I find myself getting passed up for another guy that I never knew I was even in competition with Why are you invested more in woman than she has in you? That's rule one; never put a woman on pedestal, ever!! A women has to earn the right to a relationship with you. What do you do have this woman earn the right? I'm guessing nothing. You need to develop a criteri…
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:01 PM
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Just say no cold approach!! Cold approach is really an intermediate skill not something for newbies but many misguided PUAs preach this non-sense. What you should do instead is force eye contact then if judging by her reaction, approach. This way you minimize the risk of rejection and flakes. Randomly approaching every women you find attractive and assuming she's interested and/or available is non-sense. For newbies, first you need to identify which women find you attractive ('get in where you f…
/r/seduction11/05/15 09:45 PM
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Read this http://www.actmindfully.com.au/acceptance_&_commitment_therapy Listen to this http://www.portlandpsychotherapyclinic.com/counseling/acceptance_and_commitment_therapy_exercises_and_audiofiles
/r/seduction11/05/15 09:34 PM
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Should I tell her this? Yes, Yes and Yes! And if so should I do it in person or over text. In person! Do not be a wimpy pussy. Be a man tell her in person. You can not read body language over a text. Some tips: Always lead the interaction. Don't worry about what she thinks be focused on what you want to convey. She will decide for herself if she wants what you offer. You can't trick a girl into being interested in you. http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/David_X_-_Be_Relentless.pdf
/r/seduction11/05/15 09:22 PM
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Confidence comes from doing not by waiting for the feeling of confidence. The more you do the more the feeling of fear dissipates. Also no eye contact doesn't always mean "not interested". This happened to me yesterday from a female who I knew was attractive to me but refused eye contact. It was absolutely hilarious how she purposely avoided eye contact. Sometimes a female is attractive to you but has a boyfriend or feels subconscious and avoids eye contact. No eye contact and stand offish body …
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:50 PM
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For you I would say no. The fact you asked the question proves if attempted you would be awkward and creepy.
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:32 PM
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It's difference between uptalk (question?) and downtalk (statement). http://www.aauw.org/2013/06/25/is-that-a-question-or-a-statement-how-you-speak-matters/
/r/seduction08/05/15 11:04 PM
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The problem is you waiting for her to lead conversation and she is waiting for you to do so. You need to be the man and lead the interaction.
/r/seduction08/05/15 10:53 PM
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You don't need "ice breakers" you need to structure your conversation.
/r/seduction07/05/15 09:08 PM
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You can read: Sex-Ploytation by Matthew Fitzgerald http://www.theliberatedmind.com/2014/04/the-emasculation-and-feminization-of.html
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:57 PM
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I realise that I'm an asshole and I do want to change Reminds of "I'm asshole. All I got is vanity". Jayden Cross http://beigephillip.com/2012/05/30/ep2-jayson-cross/
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:20 PM
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And when talking to a girl, how do you know she's interested? Eye contact and body language.
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:14 PM
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Getting a day 2 is tough and more than half the numbers are a no response. This is what happens when you hoe chase. You can not have every women you find attractive. I develop rapport but it's tough to turn things sexual/flirty because most girls feel awkward "talking to a stranger" or they are in a hurry to go somewhere, etc. That's your job to lead the interaction. You feel awkward thus they feel awkward. And no, you did not build rapport or else their would not be any awkwardness.
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:11 PM
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The new school way is really a repackaging of the REAL old school way before men became feminized. It starts and ends with the right mindset of being man who's not afraid to express himself. Once a man masters this mindset the techniques comes effortlessly. You engage with women on your terms and lead the interaction. The "old school" way thugswagyolo420 mentioned is nothing more than techniques observed by men good with women packaged and explained to nerds.
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:04 PM
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Anyone who promotes Ferris has no creditability.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 11:00 PM
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I've thought about that, but I've wondered if it's wrong to straight up tell someone you need to have sex as an ultimatum... Any thoughts? Why? Being a man entails not being afraid to tell a woman what you expect from them. She will either comply or move on. Either way you let her know you will not allow her to waste you time. Why would you allow a woman to manipulate you into doing what she wants without even considering what you want? Does that sound like something a person who cares about wou…
/r/seduction05/05/15 09:56 PM
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Firstly you need to lead interaction, always!! Do not let her lead the relationship. Now what do you want? If everytime you see her you want to have sex then you need to tell her that. As it is, she gets what she wants without you getting anything you want. You need to lead and not be afraid to lose her by telling you what you expect from her.
/r/seduction05/05/15 09:30 PM
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Man Crush Monday is feminine, pure and simple.
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:48 PM
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Why would you need a funny response?
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:46 PM
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Breathe slower. It's impossible to breathe slowly and be tense. Take a breath in for 3-4 seconds, hold for 3-4 seconds, and release breath for 3-4 seconds. Do this for about minute and you should be relaxed.
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:45 PM
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Your tension comes for the fear of other person judgments. An easy cure is stop fearing what the other person thinks. You should spending your time displaying your personality and not worrying about if you will live up some imagined standard you concocted within your own mind, you think the other person is judging you by.
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:42 PM
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They seem to delve into minutia and techniques akin to Mystery when he first started and not mindset. I found links to their "Inner Game" videos and will give a viewing but I 'm not expecting anything that hasn't bee said before.
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:32 PM
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Pretty much. The only caveat is that what they put out is actually pretty good, so its a pity. Where? All I see is two nerds trying to funny. The only thing that one can learn from them is there's no need to be afraid of women as evidenced by their videos. Women are very accommodating if you control and lead the interaction.
/r/seduction04/05/15 11:02 PM
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Its just cruel marketing, because after you invested so much time watching the past videos and getting hyped you kind of feel obligated to pay. No, it not. That's basic marketing. The problem is why are you so gullible to believe the package is a magic bullet. Just one look at these clowns should enough to spot these guys are nothing more then their predecessors in industry. Scammers using time tested marketing and advertising tactics to entice the gullible from their money.
/r/seduction04/05/15 10:51 PM
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I have this dvd set. A top notch product. Very detailed with no fluff.
/r/seduction03/05/15 10:06 PM
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People do all kinds of shit when a friend challenge them. That only works for weak people. if someone can easy manipulate you into doing something you do not want to do for various reasons, then you're a person who has no values nor principles nor integrity.
/r/seduction03/05/15 09:48 PM
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Hunting pussy consists of one night stands and fuckbuddies. When you catch women you have evreything that comes with her: Her money, time, care, affection, her submissiveness. How many those broads you have one night stands would even buy and bring you lunch? Or pick you up if your car broke down? or wash your clothes? Or take care of when you are feeling ill? Women expect a lot form their mates but many men waste their time by spending money and time on women and get nothing but pussy in return…
/r/seduction03/05/15 09:46 PM
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Do what you want!! Stop behaving like a boy by asking permission to do what you want. Call her or next her. You decide what you want.
/r/seduction02/05/15 08:16 PM
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dusky chick WTF? who talks like that?
/r/seduction02/05/15 08:13 PM
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Let him grow at his own pace. Every man's game is different. Some men, lead by insecurities and ego, hunt pussy but others focus on catching women.
/r/seduction02/05/15 08:10 PM
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So my dumbass went on Facebook and wrote her "hey". Yesterday she read it but no reply. So what was she supposed to say? For future reference if you want to communicate to someone you have make the effort not the other person. What is communicated by "Hey"? "I don't know what to say so I going be passive and hopefully you have something to say to me" That reeks of weakness.
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:38 PM
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If she is actually into you, she'll express it. If not, she will express it. So when a woman is engiging you, THAT is when you assume attraction Too many pua clowns do not know the simple truth. Just because a woman is attracted to you doesn't mean she's interested in you. However, every woman interested in you are attracted to you. Assuming every female you desire, desires you is foolish. Nothing more than self delusion.
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:25 PM
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There's your opener. Now go talk to her.
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:19 PM
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Here you go
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:18 PM
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Your problem is you are not man enough to risk a lost. Why are so afraid to tell a women you already have sex with, that you want sex only relationship? She will either agree or not. You can't trick you way into the pussy. Man up! Tell this woman what you want.
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:15 PM
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No! Just don't!
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:33 PM
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Great..more lovesystems spam. GTFOH!!
/r/seduction28/04/15 09:13 PM
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Does anybody take Tucker Max seriously?
/r/seduction27/04/15 10:19 PM
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Polarize the situation. Next time you see her, tell upfront what you want and have her make a decision if she interested or not. Don't allow women to waste your time. open up opportunity to DHV around campus when she's around. http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.se/2012/08/about-demonstrating-high-value.html http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.com/2013/01/the-psychology-behind-dhvs.html
/r/seduction27/04/15 10:13 PM
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an ultimatum is best served in person. That way you can gauge the person's emotions. It's best to do it before the "date". Don't allow a woman to waste your time. She's obviously using you.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:56 PM
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Chances are she has moved on but you can always try. You need to be bold, be confident and be straight forward. Do not beat around the bush. Tell this girl you want to be more friends and tell her exactly what you mean by that.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:54 PM
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Decent looking guy, can't approach women in college even when he knows they're interested, doesn't know what to say. Just say hi my name is ___? Also always lead the interaction. Your problem you're too busy wondering what she will think and how she will react to what you will say. You need to focus on what you want say rather than her. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/33hzje/so_what_do_you_actually_talk_about/cql5jy7 http://www.mediafire.com/listen/ehy739j634gbfyx/15.Ask+Rosebudd+Show…
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:50 PM
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You need to polarize the situation!! http://www.mediafire.com/listen/kuu2xixdluu7mo1/Friend_Zone_(Black_Phillip_Show_4).wav don't allow women to waste you time nor friendship. You polarize the situation by telling her you're not her friend, and either you can remain in your life as a sexual partner or nothing at all. The only two ways to get out of the friendzone is by giving her an ultimatum, Pussy or no contact. Or you start bringing other (better looking) women you are fucking around her and …
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:43 PM
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It seems like they may have wanted me to pick up on it Yes, they did. 2) What are some not so known signals college girls are giving these days that I might be missing? Don't worry about that and just focus on having the right mindset and the techniques will come. http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/David_X_-_Be_Relentless.pdf http://www.mediafire.com/listen/ehy739j634gbfyx/15.Ask+Rosebudd+Show+-+Finding+The+Right+Woman+Samples.mp3
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:33 PM
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How to Attract and Date Younger Women
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:35 PM
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Best book for game for women. Play Or Get Played.pdf
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:17 PM
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I disagree with that. It's a ruse. A man should always have integrity and not be afraid to state what he wants. six9one needs to improve screening of women better and learn to identify women who will available for casual relationships.
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:09 PM
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Whenever I'm trying to get physical with a girl and her head turns when I get close or she subtly scoots further away for me, I instantly read that as disinterest and completely abort. You mean like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wG8oMmTjiyI&t=03m19s That means she uncomfortable not disinterested. Your need gain more rapport and/or polarize the situation by telling her you're interest in her and she has to decide now if she is interested in you. Lead the frame,always!!! Don't allow women …
/r/seduction25/04/15 11:57 PM
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Why would it be a bust if she's not interested? You're man who interested in women, why would this fact be wrong? Don't be afraid of being a man. You never know, situations change,in the future she might be interested.
/r/seduction25/04/15 11:47 PM
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You're missing the trees from the wood. The principles are same for your situation, you don't allow women to waste you time nor friendship. You polarize the situation by telling her you're not her friend, and either you can remain in your life as a sexual partner or nothing at all. The only two ways to get out of the friendzone is by giving her an ultimatum, Pussy or no contact. Or you start bringing other (better looking) women you are fucking around her and she will start see you in different …
/r/seduction25/04/15 11:44 PM
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What I want is to better myself and my ability to convey a sexual nature. What do you mean? Give an example.
/r/seduction25/04/15 11:38 PM
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I didn't read this wall of text but this should help you. http://www.mediafire.com/listen/kuu2xixdluu7mo1/Friend_Zone_(Black_Phillip_Show_4).wav
/r/seduction24/04/15 10:44 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2goasp/facebook_game_is_it_real/ckmtqui
/r/seduction23/04/15 11:10 PM
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Accept the fact you will feel uncomfortable and don't try to resist it. When you start to notice you feel uncomfortable and accept it, it becomes normal and it won't affect you as much.
/r/seduction23/04/15 11:04 PM
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Why? What's the point other than displaying crudeness?
/r/seduction23/04/15 11:02 PM
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Man up and tell your friend you're going for it and lay back. Also accept the fact if you fail he can have her. Don't hate, congratulate. There's more than enough women around.
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:49 PM
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I will be in my room enjoyably for about 2 hours when I will begin to get irritated and bored. How can you get bored? You with one person who knows you best, yourself? Do you really need other people to tell what to do? when I am out with friends I find myself being witty and confident. Ahh you're an ambivert! http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/24/both-introvert-and-extravert-ambivert_n_6177854.html My main advice is accept who you are, don't try to deny your feelings. The more you accept you…
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:45 PM
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I absolutely hate approaching in groups and most time refuse to do so. I usually make eye contact of my target, move closer, say hi my name is ___ then ask to talk to her alone for moment. My game is direct and works for in daygaming. I never tried it at club. I don't do clubs. What is she doesn't want to come talk with me? I usually man up start being direct in front of her friends. Usually it doesn't succeed , but at least I know she wasn't worth my time.
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:39 PM
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Basically, after the girl stopped talking to me she had sex with one of the jock boys while I was in the same house as them You biggest problem is how you see the situation. "How dare she do something she wanted to do without asking my permission or considering my feelings". She is and was not your girl. She is free to do as she pleases just as you are. You are placing unrealistic expectation on a person. She owns you nothing. She is stranger to you, so why are even allowing your thought of what…
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:34 PM
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I'm a bit introverted but hate being alone. There's your problem. Why is this so? I love being alone, introverts love being alone. Maybe you're shy not introverted. Anyhow you have work on your issue before you can move forward. Fake it til you make it only works for the short term, as you found out.
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:23 PM
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Do you guys have any tips for walking sets? I'm used to always sitting and I've rarely opened and closed so quickly with success. Why would there be difference? should I assume familiarity and just sarge it Assume familiarity but don't assume attraction. However do display you are sexually attractive to her by your words and actions.
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:13 PM
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The opener is less important then how you lead the conversation after the opener.
/r/seduction23/04/15 10:02 PM
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It may come off as overly demanding / creepy. OMG!! No!!! No!!! It is commanding and polarizing technique. She will either comply or she won't. Do not allow a woman to waste your time and stop trying to trick your way into the pussy. It's not worth the time.
/r/seduction23/04/15 09:45 PM
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No man wants a clingy emotional unstable woman.
/r/seduction23/04/15 09:42 PM
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So your question is can you get a women invested in you without sexual intercourse? Then yes you can. It's all about forming a deep connection. You have to be keenly aware of what she is looking for and get to her in small doses. That's how prisoners can get married to total strangers without meeting in person. You have know what need she needs to be fulfilled and show her by your words and actions you can give it to her.
/r/seduction22/04/15 11:49 PM
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Okay, I read here that atraction has a expiration time...but what about those girls that fall in love(and that love become something almost insane and remain through the years) and sometimes the guy barerly knows about the girl's existence. That's not love , that's infatuation! So I was wondering besides having a solid game...how to make a girl fall in love for you in a short period of time(relatively). Forming a deep connection will do that. Or at least what are the things that makes a girl fal…
/r/seduction22/04/15 11:41 PM
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Here's my take on texting. Text should be only for information only not conversations. If more men would refuse to have text conversations women would have go along as well. I tell women straight out I do not have text conversations, if they try I text "Sorry, I don't do texts. CALL ME! I want to hear your voice"
/r/seduction22/04/15 11:36 PM
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You need to distance yourself from this girl and find new women. That's the only way.
/r/seduction22/04/15 11:32 PM
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Changed the link ! Well since you have what it takes you need to stop thinking about saying something boring. You should know what ever you say will be the right thing. It's hard to explain techniques since once you have a mindset the actions become automatic, without any thinking.
/r/seduction22/04/15 11:20 PM
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As as rule, do not do anything you are not comfortable with. Don't try to be somebody you are not. Being direct demonstrates strong confidence and women will test you on this later. If you're not that confident you will end up losing the woman later. Furthermore, this approach only works due to congruousness. A confident man who has no problem being sexually direct, you can't fake it.
/r/seduction22/04/15 08:05 PM
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Fast forward to today and she texted me an inside joke from our 1st date, however I text back without a response. Frusturating but this girl now seems to have chalked me up to a friend at best. She was thinking of you and took the risk to communicate with you and you ignore her? You should have responded back with a positive text.
/r/seduction22/04/15 07:49 PM
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The structure I use is: The opener. Then qualifying compliment. Ask a few question about her. (Chit chat) Then another compliment Then ask for number then tell her when I will call her (day and time). Then I leave.
/r/seduction22/04/15 07:37 PM
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Exactly. That's why being direct works. Fyi, I don't hunt pussy, I catch women. Once the women is invested the pussy and everything else comes along (money, care, affection,etc). Hunting pussy is a waste of time.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:37 PM
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Attraction is based upon one and/or two things: physical beauty and conversation. At this point you have no idea what she thinks of you. You have be direct and be confident and go speak to her. http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/David_X_-_Be_Relentless.pdf http://www.mediafire.com/listen/ehy739j634gbfyx/15.Ask+Rosebudd+Show+-+Finding+The+Right+Woman+Samples.mp3
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:31 PM
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Based upon what you wrote shes not interested. Move on. Maybe in the future things will change but for now find somebody else.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:29 PM
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You do not want easy. You want polarizing. You can't trick you way into the pussy. If this girl is attractive to this guy any communication will be welcomed. If she is not this indirect method will waste time and confuse the girl since what you suggested is very,VERY platonic.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:26 PM
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Truth!! Women in that age range are looking various things thus it's easy to be straight forward with them. With younger women, no matter what you say they ignore it and want to be your girl. 10 – Agreements with women don’t mean shit. Don’t think that if you’re honest and they agree to it, that they’ll agree it to later, there’s no binding legal agreement. Women have integrity amnesia, whatever you decide the relationship will be in the beginning doesn’t mean a damn thing. What she wants in a r…
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:23 PM
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They don't feel happy, they aren't fulfilled at all. Most women feel that way. As a 19 year old it's easier meet women than it is catch them. As you get older the trend reverses. For this time in your life, although I'm sure you're a normal horny guy, I would focus on the process and take as many risks trying to game woman as possible. The experience will prepare for when you hit over 21 and those 18 year old broads will melt at your game. Your confidence and smoothness will beyond any of your p…
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:18 PM
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so it's hard for me to believe that the prettiest girl would be attracted to me. That is the crux of your problem. If you do not believe you are a worthy man why would she? You need to recognize you own self worth. Why don't you believe you are worthwhile individual? Why don't you believe you have what it takes to catch a woman? Why don't you believe this woman would lucky to be with you?
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:09 PM
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This problem with this method is very,extremely indirect. Direct is way superior than indirect.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:06 PM
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Wow, great idea! This works as a screening method as well. Any woman who is too prissy to hold animals, due to fear of ruining her outfit deserves to nexted.
/r/seduction20/04/15 09:59 PM
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"Find'? You don't find it you make one. I don't normally endorse pua products but Kezia Noble's The 10 Hook Lead System is best at explaining this. Here's the some notes from the program. The 10 Hook Lead System High Caliber Hooks: Celebrities Countries Cities Hobbies Jobs Interests Movies Books Hooks: Hook 1 - Open Question Hook 2 - Fact Hook 3 - Challenge Hook 4 - Opinion Hook 5 - Humor Hook 6 - Anecdotes Hook 7 - Tasks Hook 8 - Validation Hook 9 - Assumption Hook 10 - Suggestion Start with: V…
/r/seduction20/04/15 09:56 PM
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Male platonic relationships are friendly camaraderie Fixed Western Male platonic relationships are friendly camaraderie.
/r/seduction19/04/15 09:38 PM
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Connection comes from your conversation not activity. You need to work on your conversation skills. Furthermore, you need to remove the notion of needing to entertain a woman. If a woman wants to be with you she will want to be with you, no matter what you do.
/r/seduction19/04/15 09:33 PM
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Do you recommend that just holding it back and then building up would be a whole lot better? No, Keep doing what you doing. ARC's game can not really be replicated by most guys. His direct sexual game is very specific to him alone. As a black man who targets black women and white women who date black men, he can be more aggressive and forward than the average guy. A black man can get away with making sexual comments to black women since they are used to this forwardness. Other women outside Lati…
/r/seduction19/04/15 09:18 PM
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Anyway, I asked her out on Thursday and she said "Uhm I'm a little hesitant but sure i'll give it a shot." I was a little pissed at that response, but whatever. You failed at this point. What if guy said something similar to you? You would call him on his bullshit. You should told her what you thought of her comment. This was test to see if you, as younger man, has what it takes to take the lead and not stand for her bullshit. You failed big time with not responding to comment. You essentially b…
/r/seduction19/04/15 09:09 PM
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The thing about his style is that it is predicated upon understanding you will fail more than win. He's right that you have upfront and truthful about what you want but randomly telling women you just met you want have sex with them is a recipe for disaster. There's no finesse in his style. He's only interested in casual sexual relationships. Did you read about his disastrous relationship with Tyler Collins. He played himself badly.
/r/seduction18/04/15 10:55 PM
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You're sentence makes absolutely no sense. As well as a lie. It's obvious you feel the need to maintain a false image of yourself.
/r/seduction18/04/15 10:50 PM
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You obviously lack the ability to discern information. The more women you fuck casually the less sense that analogy makes. No, the analogy holds true as you will know most women will not have causal sex with strangers but they are many women who will. One just has learn to identify them correctly. And your pimp analogy is still fucked up It is? Then why you prove my point? CaliBboy - The men who are more successful with ONS than not have learned to identify those few women who are promiscuous an…
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:22 PM
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My question is, how do I get more comfortable touching intimate areas like her knees, thighs, abdomen, neck, and face. Stop worrying about what she thinks. If she does like being touched she will tell you. I don't if this is appropriate in a public setting at a college house party, but if it is, how I do I naturally get towards touching her tits and/or ass And when have seen this happen? It's not, intimate touching is not for prying eyes. Whenever I touch her at any part of her body, am I suppos…
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:11 PM
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we got back she told me she didn't want to have sex because the "vibe wasn't right." So? Make another date. Most women will not have sex on the first date. Last night I invited a girl who I hooked up with months ago to a party. When I went in for a kiss she goes off about how she "just wants to be my friend" and "she already has people for that kind of thing". College is a buyer's market for coeds thus you will lose sometimes. That's life. You need to get out of your head, relax and focus. Stop …
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:06 PM
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I do care to admit it. I naturally screen out girls who are not attracted to me, and are not dtf. I don't understand why you're making this point. It doesn't support your (false) notions that quick casual sex is a myth. See you proved my point: One night stands and same day lays are a myth for most part, for the most of humanity. The men who are more successful with ONS than not have learned to identify those few women who are promiscuous and only deal with them.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:41 PM
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Just because the PUA talks about it in a scam way, doesn't mean it's a myth. They're not lying in that is exist, they're lying in the notion that you can do it with any girl. And they're lying that you can do it easily. But they aren't lying that quick casual sex exists. That's exactly what I said One night stands and same day lays are a myth for most part, for the most of humanity. The men who are more successful with ONS than not have learned to identify those few women who are promiscuous and…
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:39 PM
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And to correct your next paragraph, it's not that one night stands and same day lays with quality women are rare... it's that guy's worthy of them are. that's total bullshit. Most women will not have sex with strangers. Just as with the pimp analogy, these type of women are far and few between outside certain social contexts (frat parties, women on vacations,etc). Furthermore, as I stated before "The men who are more successful with ONS than not have learned to identify those few women who are p…
/r/seduction17/04/15 10:28 PM
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Why would you do this? stop reading pua bullshit. Confronting her to arouse attraction is pointless for HS girls. Find another girl.
/r/seduction17/04/15 10:10 PM
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You want this girl, go get the girl. stop worrying about what she thinks.
/r/seduction17/04/15 10:08 PM
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girls are filthy, they love and want sex. Yet most guys interpret this as "All women will have one night stands with strangers". The reality is most women will not have sex with males they are not in a relationship with. Although all women are slutty, not all women are sluts. The distinction can not be emphasized enough. PUA industry have deluded many a man with false notions. One night stands and same day lays are a myth for most part, for the most of humanity. The men who are more successful w…
/r/seduction17/04/15 10:02 PM
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Be bold, be confident and be upfront. Teenage girls are easy since they lack experience. The approach is simple: Make eye contact than smile and go over and say hi. Ask her name and introduce yourself then give a qualifying compliment. A qualifying compliment is where you give them compliment but add a qualifying statement there will have answer. For example: You have really beautiful brown eyes and usually girls with brown eyes are wild and adventurous, do you consider yourself adventurous? She…
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:30 PM
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Give her your number and tell her when (day and time) to call you. She will either text/call or not.
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:19 PM
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My goal is to get with quality girls, not just to get easy lays from any old woman. That's what cold approaching does. Any woman you find attractive will do but with first viewing for signs of interest you learn to identify women who are into you. The theory behind cold approaching is one has the skill to seduce any woman into bed. That theory is not only flawed but false. To be good game is first start with women who into you then precede to women who are neutral to you. Cold approaching women …
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:17 PM
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Really? I have explain why walking up to someone and just start passionately kissing them would seem awkward and weird? I think you need to reread david x's rules and understand them properly. It's mindset followed by actions. You do not have the mindset; you're still too busy worrying about if she likes or you not. It doesn't matter what she thinks. You are attractive to her and act as though she to you. This action is polarizing; she will follow your lead or not. Either way, you control the fr…
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:45 PM
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Personally I have learnt my lesson and already made a mental note to NEVER approach ugly girls <7 ever again, and I feel that anyone who does otherwise are just devaluing themselves. Bullshit!! http://www.reddit.com/r/Rateme/comments/1h1yrw/can_we_switch_from_the_110_scale_to_the_patrice/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCi1VIIrUZ0
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:37 PM
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Sounds like the "someone" you talked to does not know what he is talking about.
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:34 PM
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Well you can cold approach 10 women and only get one successful result and I'll approach 3 women and all them will end in success. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:33 PM
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Roissy's site is a gathering place for racists and bigots. Just read of some of the comments. The rawness is a bit better but still has problems. Anyone who uses evolutionary psychology as foundation for theories is not someone who is thinking properly. http://human-nature.com/nibbs/02/apd.html
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:30 PM
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I'll go for the kiss next time I see her. This should clear up matters really quickly. http://m.friendfeed-media.com/a3a479c0de60469cfe13b1f3dcd24480016c1a61 http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/David_X_-_Be_Relentless.pdf
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:28 PM
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I would assume that a girl knows that a guy is interested if he asks her out on the weekend. Yes but the fact you were too scared to mention it reeks immaturity. Don't assume; say what you want. Many women will use guys that they know are too wimpy to resist. Just because she agrees to date doesn't mean she likes you. It could mean she wants to use you for a free meal and validation.
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:24 PM
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All the work is done. Just stop trying to impress her and get out of your head. http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=60#p11910 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4HNYRFC0Kk&feature=related
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:21 PM
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How can I find out if she likes me as more than a friend? You should have said what you want clearly when first meeting her. Now when you talk to her again tell her "after we do the walking meditation I think we should go out for a proper date." Then tell her where you plan to take her and she either respond favorably or not. Do not be ambiguous. Be a man. Say what you want.
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:16 PM
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The gym is no different any other place. Eye contact is the key. No strong eye contact than leave them alone and move on.
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:12 PM
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A girl I talked to from tinder for a couple of weeks told me I don't know to talk to women. Why are you talking to woman for weeks on tinder? Within 15 minutes you should have set something up.
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:55 PM
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a girl reading a book looked up, we made eye contact, and she smiled and giggled a little bit. I walked a little further and go to the table, and I looked back at her again. We made eye contact, and once again, she smiled and giggled. When that happens, you're home free. There's no work, the girl is into you and now you just have to escalate. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2xzgds/met_with_ex_lessons_about_oneitis_relationships/cp5p91u You won't be for long. Just don't it screw it up.…
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:53 PM
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That just says to me that you have never had success with girls who didnt give you approach invitations You be wrong. I'm 43 years old, you think I never approached a woman randomly in all those years? Every man does that until they actually learn some skill. The last 3 girls I dated did not even see me before I approached them, and I did great. Good for you but how many can say the same? Now tell me about the 5 girls you randomly approached before, did you find success? I would think not.
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:40 PM
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I do this because I don't give a fuck what she thinks. But more than that I want to see what her reaction is. Your second sentence contradicts the first. You actually do care or else her reaction would not interest you. Now, in this time of your life, you are substituting mind fucks with pussy. Before you hunted pussy for validation and an ego boost, now that has become old and boring you are now using something else for validation and ego boost. Until you deal with your need for outside validat…
/r/seduction15/04/15 12:09 AM
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Recently the onitis girl said to a mutual friend how she really misses me. That got me thinking, can I give it a second try? It depends on what you want and how you structure the relationship. The biggest obstacle will be not falling back into past patterns. In order to create a strong relationship you will need to control the frame, always! Known what you want and do not let her change the dynamic no matter what. Once that happens she will leave you or worse, she will cheat on you.
/r/seduction15/04/15 12:00 AM
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Sure I can meet women in normal situations, but if you want quality girls, cold approach is the way to go. Yes but meeting and actually closing the deal (relationship - ltr, causal, fuckbuddy, etc) is not the same thing. Also you're misunderstanding cold approach with approaching unknown women. Cold approaching is where you try to seduce a women you do not know, who shows no signs of interest. I against cold approaching but not approaching unknown women. One should only approach women who show s…
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:52 PM
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Have you tried conventional gaming before? Why didn't it work for you? Typical PUA in theory works but in practice is too time consuming. After actually meeting women when you look back at the PUA stuff, you can see PUA theory is nothing more than breaking down natural game. once you have the mindset right, your actions will flow. There's nothing to memorize. There's no trying, you just do it naturally.
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:46 PM
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The next day I called her at 4:30 and she didn’t answer. I Immediately deleted her number off my screen. I couldn’t care less. She wasn’t busy for 5 hours, she was testing me on my neediness and I passed. The ONLY reason she texted me is because I was so unlike most other guys who would’ve blown up her phone when she didn’t answer. Dumb, dumb, dumb! It never fails young guy red some pua bullshit and thinks this a proper strategy with women. Rule #1: A woman continues to communicate with you she …
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:18 PM
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I stand by statement, hoe chasing is a waste of time. The ratio for success is low. There's too many women available to waste my time on a women shows no sign of interest in me. I would have a very hard time getting in-state by sitting at the mall. The problem is you're not sociable person or else you wouldn't need to get "in-state". If you were a naturally a sociable, friendly person then you wouldn't need to get into pimp mode to step to a woman. It would be natural to begin conversations with…
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:50 PM
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You tell her where and when to meet you. You can even do this on the initial meeting (setup the next date). This then if she flakes, you tell her (not ask) to set a time within the next 3 days to reschedule the date. If she hesitates, next her. There's no need to be dick or be hurt. Women are emotional and flake for so many reasons, which most of the time has nothing to do with you. She may interested but feel sick by being on her period or be self conscious of how she looks that particular day.…
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:21 PM
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Hoe chasing/Cold approaching is a waste of time. Even the most famous PUAs say with cold approaching the success rate is 1 out 10 women. You need to observant and stack evidence not chase after every women you find attractive. Once you notice evidence of interest then it does not matter what you open with because you know this women is interested in you. Then you can be straight forward, not chitchat, and state what you want. http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=20&t=241#p1471 http://w…
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:08 PM
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They’re putting lipstick on a pig, trying to convince you that you’re either the leader of the pack, or you’re a beta who won’t get what you deserve in this life, and they pretty it up with all kinds of nice-sounding terminology and definitions, but at its core the idea of being an alpha male is bogus. The entire concept is built around dominance over others. Again, they can put lipstick on the pig and call it something else, but people have a tendency to simplify things, and if you’re thinking …
/r/seduction12/04/15 09:18 PM
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It stings due to you placing too much value on women and not having other options. The Marquee Value Theory By The Kidd
/r/seduction12/04/15 09:14 PM
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I was thinking as you but most threads within subreddit are of the same variety. Men whining about nonsense. You can't spit against the wind.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 11:15 PM
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There's difference between having values and principles (frame) and not allowing others to change you and not seeing reality. This women by her actions proved she is open to be instructed. Any person who truly understands game (not pua bullshit) knows when a women behaves in this way you charge her! You tell to do something for you for her to invest in you. The more she invests in you, the more she will show complaince. The is game 101. You never get rid of a woman. She removes herself. As long …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 11:07 PM
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So due to the fact, I typed too fast and forgot one letter everything I said holds no value? You obviously do not have a variety of experience with women and are content with only being enchanted with alpha/beta paradigm (which has been debunked,btw). Anyhow you're right, it's your life. Some people enjoy being mediocre.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:56 PM
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Yes, you were so unaffected by her behavior you decided to come upon an public forum and wine about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:40 PM
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http://www.mediafire.com/listen/kuu2xixdluu7mo1/Friend_Zone_(Black_Phillip_Show_4).wav
/r/seduction10/04/15 10:38 PM
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I don't really talk with "B", she does have a bit of an ego and thinks every guy wants her. I don't know how I can change someone's perception that I'm a creepy guy. Why is the fuck do you believe this crap. She is stuck on herself and since you did not do anything overtly to let her know you find her attractive she avoids you. You are not creepy she is arrogant and narcissistic.
/r/seduction10/04/15 10:30 PM
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She came back apologetically, asked how she disrespected me. Which of course is just more invitation to lose my frame and enter hers. Since I said no need to reply (and meant it), there's also no need for me to answer the pathetic question she asked. WTF? She just demonstrated she is open for instruction and direction. Asa man it is your job to give women purpose, direction and motivation. Your behavior demonstrated you are easily hurt and prefer to behave childish and be lazy. . My girls are we…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:22 PM
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So let me digest this for a moment. Passive aggressive man children do not speak up then after second finishes their painting the man children escalate an non incident further with more passive aggressive tendencies then you come along on this subreddit to bitch about an incident that has no relevance to your life. am I right?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:01 PM
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