Oddly enough, this idea came to me while I was sitting in my room listening to music and generally not doing much.
I haven't gone out in 2 days, mainly because I need the time to re-charge and meditate on what I learned from going hard for 7 nights in a row.
Before I go into the post I want to suggest anyone trying to learn game is to invest in a game journal. Keep track of anything to do with girls, put all of your insights, frustrations and re-cap your nights in there. Also, date everything. I made the mistake with my first journal, I didn't date anything and when I look back at it, it's hard to piece it together.
How To Be Clever
This is actually really simple, I'm sort of shocked how easy this is.
I'm going to write down three common things a girl will tell you / test you with and I want you to write down what you would respond with.
"What are you looking for?"
"I'm not that kind of girl"
"What do you want to do with your life?"
I've been asked all of these questions by girls, they're pretty common (wait aren't all girls unique?)
Okay, so write down your answers.
Have them written down?
Okay cool.
Now I'm going to write down what my answers are before we make them clever and witty.
"I'm not looking for anything, no expectations..whatever happens, happens."
"Oh I thought you were."
"Artist travelling around the world, living life, seeing cool places and people."
Read each one of these answers and imagine you're telling them to a girl. Are they really that interesting? Is she going to do much more than say "thats cool." (let's take non-verbal communication out of this).
They're kind of boring, bland.
Now let's spice them up.
"Marriage, 3 kids, i got names for them all and picket fence. Give or take dog."
"Oh I thought you were super wild, crazy girl that lives by YOLO. Are you sure you haven't done any body shots lately?"
"Bohemian artist, 3 girlfriends and broke."
Read each of these three "spiced" up versions.
See how they say basically the SAME thing. By saying "Marriage 3 kids, I got names for them all and picket fence. give or take dog." you are basically saying "I'm not looking for anything, no expectations..whatever happens, happens." but in a much more interesting way.
That's the trick, you aren't saying anything different than the "boring" examples, all you're doing is saying it in a more interesting way. Both examples communicate the same things.
A lot of game is saying the same thing but in a more interesting way.
"Do you come here often?"
Turns into
"I bet you're the kind of girl who needs to just relax, let loose after dealing with annoying customers and this is your go-to spot."
"What did you do last night?"
Turns into
"Last night, you were at home. Netflix because it was cold out and you have 4 cats with specific names"
See how you're essentially saying the same thing, but you are saying it in a much more engaging and clever way.
(Again, let's take body language out of this because body language can change the way the remarks are perceived.)
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