Game is solid - up until popping "date" question. Repeated ghosting...help?

CPharvs · 2019-10-29T23:04:00+00:00

Seems like you're doing well dude. My 0.02is that do you fancy going out for a drink is a bit average Joe, I used to like reframing it a bit and keeping them on their toes a bit - try something like.... Hey so you seem pretty cool when are you going to take me out for a drink?

Works well for me anyway. Good luck my man!

quinnmcd · 2019-10-29T23:28:09+00:00

Online girl are some of the flakiest you have to realize a lot of them just want attention and validation. To get more dates you have to memorable and interesting. Girls might be interested because you're attractive but that doesn't make you datable. When meeting girls around campus (or wherever you're meeting girls) make sure your interactions are long enough. If you're only talking to girls for 2 minutes and getting asked for their snapchats they probably are just gonna give to end the conversation. The sweet spot to me is about 4 to 7 minutes. That gives you enough time to get past small talk and really get to know something about her and gives you the chance to get her to learn something about you. Learn how to read body language and control the conversation to where she's mostly talking about herself.

For actually getting dates and to get more second dates I recommend offering an experience. If you're talking a girl then she mentions that she's competitive or likes to play video games suggest going to arcade or playing pool somewhere. If she says she like music take her to a CHEAP (keyword cheap) concert, bar with live music or local show. These type of dates usually build more excitement gives you opportunities to tease and have something to talk about afterward. After you give her a fun experience she'll definitely want to see you again. That what usually works for me.

axe122 · 2019-10-30T01:33:50+00:00

So don’t over text, don’t be to excited to reply to her texts if she’s taking an hour you text right away and she takes another hour to respond don’t keep responding right away match her hour time and then try and cut the time gap again after 3 messages. They match our time often too so you have to be the leader and break the time gap but don’t be always jumping at her texts if she’s taking an hour or 20 min to respond and you respond in 39 seconds. I think the best way to get a girl out is when she’s back and forth texting a little bit always be the one to end the exchange and don’t try to keep it going for no reason. I’ll flirt a little in text, I’ll do it based on what I wanna do with her on a date. If I wanna get drinks I ask so do you like margaritas and Mexican food she says yes , you say “ okay that’s a relief cuz if you didn’t like Mexican and margaritas I don’t think we’d be very compatible or we’d have to end this conversation right now😜😂.if she says no you say well your lucky you’ve been fun to talk to otherwise I’d be ending this conversation right now” Then when you know she’s comfortable meeting be like so when are you free to get together for Mexican and margaritas? Also if you met irl you shouldn’t have to do much texting but if you met online you gotta build a lot of comfort in text for her to feel comfortable meeting a guy off the internet. Also if you match with her and she’s texting you back and forth a lot you should be trying to get her on a date within a week and a half. If I match on a Sunday and she’s messaging me a ton I get her number by Monday and get the date by hopefully Thursday or that weekend. Some girls are just looking for attention and like a text pen pal to validate herself while the guy she’s dating isn’t responding to her or is acting indifferent to her. If she’s all over you and you ask her within 3 days and she ignores you or says I’m busy you can continue trying to talk for 1 week if she’s super hot but you gotta take your attention away and in a full week her up and try again.

Title	Game is solid - up until popping "date" question. Repeated ghosting...help?
Author	HalfwayThrowaway4
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	October 29, 2019 10:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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