I had been going back and forth about making a post. I had some friends of mine tell me I’m naturally very good with women and I could definitely help some guys struggling meeting and seducing women. Not speaking as Cassnova or anything but I’m always willing to help out other men because let’s face it: men don’t receive much help in life. I’m thinking about starting a blog or do in-field game with people.

My background. I am in my early 30’s. I am African American and I’ve been described as an 8 or 9 in the looks category. I make pretty good money and can travel most places I want internationally. Now, you’re probably thinking, what does a guy like that have to worry about? Well you’re wrong. I too have to WORK to secure women, they don’t just fall in my lap (sad to say).

My first lesson is rejection. Listen. Every single guy gets rejected. No one man is not the type for everyone. Some women like black guys. Some like Asian guys. Some like guys with tattoos. Some like guys that are truckers. Etc etc. Also, women are sentient beings. They might have just gotten over a bad breakup and they may not be willing to your advances no matter how good looking or rich you are! Imagine that!

My second lesson. Girls wants girls where I’m from. Maybe not literally like Drake but you become more attractive when you are seen with other women. (Especially high value women). This communicates a cornucopia of things to women emotionally and sexually. This subconsciously communicates to women that you’re able to be comfortable with women. You’re probably not a creep because at least you haven’t scared off the women in your company. You can create conversation with women and your understanding of them.

My third lesson. Bend but don’t break. Every man has had to endure the resistance of a woman. She may be playing hard to get. She may think you’re a weirdo. She may have heard false things about you. Don’t panic. Be calm and non sexual with her and AVOID her. Go flirt with other women. Have fun. Observe. Go back and try to make small conversation. Keep doing this until she becomes friendly. You communicate high value and that she doesn’t easily intimidate you. DM me if you want some advice. Thanks!