Hey guys, been at this for a few months now and have recently had a lot of success. Here are some general, quick tips that have been gold for me.

1. Game the Guys as Hard as you Game the Girls.

One of the key tenets of pickup is that girls want guys who are desirable, but lots of guys forget half of that equation. When a girl sees a guy who is killing it with a group of guys (especially her group of guys), you have immediate validation and she will begin to ask herself questions about you.

Example: Two Nights Ago

I was dancing with HB8 for the majority of the time that I was apart from my friends and running game, #closed and k-closed, but couldn't get her to come home with me because I'm 19 and she's 27. However, the whole night I had made a point of meeting almost everybody in the bar. After I kiss this girl goodbye outside the bar (it had closed), HB7 comes up to me and goes "hey, what are you doing later?"

I found out that she wanted to take me home because "I was friends with all of the guys she was there with," all of whom I had only met that night. F-close. Game the guys and the girls.

2. Question Anything a Girl Says About You

Even if its true. If you're the kind of guy who can throw energy at people in a bar or club, or be different in any way (which in my opinion is what we're trying to do here), girls will inevitably make a remark about it. Give them a big, shit-eating grin, and go "What the fuck is that supposed to mean?"

They will end up qualifying themselves and validating you. Every time.

3. Say "I'm a Virgin"/"I'm Gay" at Some Point

Quick trick that puts a conversation in a sexual light. Whenever you get a shit test about how you're trying to pick up girls or anything like that, be like "Why would you even say that, I'm a virgin for christ sakes." Make sure your target hears it, and belabor the point. Talk about how you're scared of vagina.

Later in the night isolate, and be like "Honestly I'm not a gay virgin, and the reason we're alone right now is because I'm gonna kiss you."

K-close.

Other General Tips

  • Always break off the first few kisses before she does
  • If you're in shape, twerk on her
  • Only alpha response to a compliment is "thank you," then let them say the next thing. Often they'll keep talking about you, or at least the ball is back in their court
  • Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People", "Models", and "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius
  • If you get drunk (or if you don't), take a quick second if you're in the washroom to write some shit down in your phone. I've woken up to a couple of gems, whether they be hilarious or actually useful
  • Go out with people you don't know that well. The less comfortable you are with the people around you, the more likely you are to meet new people outside of those that you're with
  • Get a fresh haircut from an actual stylist, spend >$20
  • Girls love tequila shots
  • #Closes are as simple as "I think you're cute, gimme your number and I'll call you some time"
  • You're a fucking badass. Act like it, and draw attention to yourself but only on your own terms

Take it easy, friends.