Hi Seddit. I'm not an expert with this whole PUA thing, and I'm hoping to get your perspective. Having said that, I'm not looking for your advice. I'm looking for something approaching a consensus view here, because I don't honestly understand a lot of the philosophy that sits at the heart of the PUA community. So here it goes.

I'm a giver in relationships, and I've got good stuff to give. Without trying to sound boastful (but still get my point across): I'm an amazing cook. I give semi-pro quality massage. I'm a good romantic gift-giver, and I love eating my girl out.

I like giving these things (and other stuff like it) without the expectation of reciprocation; I give them freely because I take pleasure from practicing the "art and craft" of this kind of stuff.

Now based on what I understand about the PUA community (understanding that there will obviously be a strong difference of opinion from person to person, etc.), giving without reciprocation is, bluntly, "beta as fuck." Am I correctly reading your response to my behavior? Honesty, please.

I should say that I don't actually plan on changing my game regardless; I'm not bedding a new girl every week or what have you, but I get laid on the regular, and I'm content with what I've got. My question mostly comes from the confusion about how these skills of mine - universally appreciated by people who receive them - would appear to be serious flaws from the vantage point of the PUA.