I have been working for the past few months in Florida. In the past couple weeks I have really made a personal breakthrough in actually DGAF instead of trying to DGAF; unfortunately, this has come as the work opportunity has come to a close.

Where am I going with this.

I have met dozens of attractive women at the bars, clubs, etc and have had varying degrees of success with women in these venues. I had put off opening an attractive blonde HB7 who worked for a different group at the same place I do until today. We had been smiling in passing for a few weeks but I had enough on my plate that I didn't open her like I wanted to/should have.

I ran into her at a local night club last weekend, we hit it off but I had to leave before I got her number. I got her number today and we talked some more, things were going great, she is an awesome chick. I invited her for drinks tonight but unfortunately logistics didn't line up. No big deal, i thought, I'll see her tomorrow night at the night club again.

Wrong. Come to find out, she leaves for texas tomorrow.

Gentlemen, do NOT make my mistake. I had a month of opportunity that I wasted dicking around, too lost in my head and work to do what I did today.

When you see a girl you want to meet, GO MEET HER. NOW. or else you WILL miss out on that opportunity. [Maybe] (http://www.virginmediashorts.co.uk/film/3388/maybe) made a huge impact on my thinking and Seconds describes the opportunity perfectly.

-As a side note, she told me to save her number, she will be heading to some music festivals over the summer at which I plan to meet up with her and pick up where we left off. Results not typical, or remotely optimal