For the past few months I've been in a rut. I could barely open women and building attraction was definitely not on the menu. I could tell my body language was bad, I'd stumble and trip over words, and I was reading seddit and similar sites to help me break down my errors and improve. While I did learn a lot of valuable things from the 6 or so months of research, I wasn't getting laid.

I've never been a pua of any sort, but I started thinking, "At least before I started studying game I would get laid about once every three months!" I then just gave up hope and stopped trying to meet women and took a 1 month sabbatical from seddit and started doing things for myself and doing things that were enjoyable to me instead what I thought would be fun/attractive to women. I didn't hit on a woman for two weeks; turns out this is just what I needed.

This cleared my head. After reluctently accepting the advances of a below average looking neighbor woman, I realized I was ready to get back in the game and try again. But it was different now. Everything became extremely natural and smooth. My old personality was back, but now the principles of seddit became ingrained within me. The things I learned here became instilled in me instead of every little thing being schematized and lingering in my conscious thought. Within the past two weeks I've slept with four different attractive women. My ex has been trying to get back with me. I notice eyes follow me at the clubs and bars. The past two nights I've gone out, I pulled and f-closed - something that I've never been able to do in one night before. (I'm going for the hat trick tonight.)

So if you're in a rut or are having trouble smoothing out what you learn here into a fluid congruence, take a break! Go out and focus on yourself and your wants! Studying game should be a hobby, not a number 1 priority. I hope this helps some of you and lets you get out of your heads and into some pants.