I have been successful with F-closing a M-F-F three way with my lady. I am certain these ideas may help you, regardless if you have a girlfriend or wife.

You need to be on top of your game verbally and emotionally. There is no way around this, you have to exude “fucking-awesomeness” and that is done easily, tell yourself that you are. You need to know that your invite wants to fuck your brains out, and your lady too, tell yourself that. Mental game is number one.

Prior to going into finding yourself a playmate for you and your girl you have talk to her, there is no avoiding that too. If she has interests, wants or curiosities, you have to entertain what she wants. You need to be going into the idea of multiple partner sessions knowing that it’s about your girl, not the invite. You need to reassure your lady that you want her and that inviting someone is not crucial to your relationship, just that it will make things fun, give you both an experience to talk about. Discuss how you would like to touch your invite, and how you would like to see your girl touch your invite, just to seduce her.

In my situation we have a friend we both like. We both think she’s sexy and we both want her. So I spend time talking to my girl about it, even entertaining fantasy scenarios. I ask her from time to time to tell me what she would want to do with our friend before or after she shows up to just hang out. This gets her mind going, it gets her thinking about our invite, and when our friend shows up to just have dinner or to hang out and play games, I know my woman is thinking about her.

Once you got your girl prepped, understanding of what you want to do with the invite, make sure you know what your girl’s boundaries are for you to seduce the invite. You can seduce your invite with your words, especially if she is into your lady. Have a nice group dinner, tease your invite about what your girl wants to do to her. Practice light keno, touching her arms, her back, playing with her hair, all things you discussed with your girl that you got permission to do. You may not have to do this if your woman initiates the seduction, if that happens, back the fuck off, stay cool, stand tall, smile, keep thinking about fun shit and talk about fun shit, nothing at all remotely serious.

When you get everyone together, do not expect to be getting laid, remember girls move at a different pace than men, we make plans, they tend to “see where things take them.” So if dinner ends and your invite goes home, no big fucking deal, take your girl home and bang the bejesus out of her and talk about fucking your female friend while fucking. Make her say some naughty shit too, get hyped about fucking your invite. You are there to be fucking awesome and to exude fucking-awesomeness, you don’t want to fuck them, they want to fuck you.

Get your invite back to your place, keep a clear head so don’t get stupid drunk, don’t get stupid high, Stay FUCKING AWESOME, keep smiling, keep touching and more so on your own woman, keep talking about every day fun shit. If you even feel the slightest bit nervous, pour a shot of something easy, honey whiskey, apple pucker, UV cake, whatever, just one, do not get stupid drunk.

You need to be a king of awesome, you need to know how to have a good time, you need to ramp these ladies up. You need to find some music or a movie that gets that sex vibe rolling. You don’t want to choose a porno movie, women don’t react to that shit, porno is too fast, too crude, too much. You need a movie like Madonna’s Truth or Dare, live Prince, or live recording Rhianna’s stage show, they are hot, seductive, has gorgeous men and women and good music. Put that shit in and sit your woman by you and a big comfortable couch. Netflix has a ton of these live shows from seductive artists, find them, watch them, see what sparks you and your lady while you are together alone, commit that shit to memory and be ready to break it out when the time comes.

This is about your girl and her girl, not about you, so put your dick away and keep that seduction vibe going. You are fucking awesome and you want to make your invite a bit jealous. Keep your girl close, tease her, tickle her, kiss her. Make that other girl jealous.

You want to tease that other girl. Tell your invite how good your lady’s lips taste. How much fun it is to tickle her and make her giggle. Tell her to imagine the squeal she makes when she has an orgasm. You want that other girl to be so jealous of your kissing your hot girlfriend to the point of waiting for you to invite her to kiss your lady. Once again, you may not have to do this, if those ladies are at it, back the fuck off, let them call you in.

Once you got those girls to MAKE OUT without pushing their heads together (which is an uber douche move and mood killer) you can always move into close mode. They will be kissing deeply, that’s when you know it’s time to move. Get those ladies to a bed room fast and get ready to be used. Whisper in your woman’s ear to take you back, or suggest that you want to see those ladies enjoy each other. Keep your shit to yourself, your woman will do all the work. Let the ladies have their time together, sit and watch, slowly work your way in there.

Remember, it’s ALL about your woman, not the invite. Keep your hands on your lady, do everything to her and slowly. With permission while in the moment, to move on the invite, do whatever they want you to. You will get far by asking your woman what she wants you to do, or see you do.

Remember these rules, I follow them pretty tightly.

Rule # 0 – it’s all about her, not you.

Rule #1 – see rule zero.

Rule #2 - Be fucking awesome