Here's what usually happens to me.
I go inside this uppity bar place and tell my regular friends "hey check this out" and open up a 5 set full of 8s and 9s with my usual group opener.
'Hey, Iam curious, what are you guys laughing at? Whats so darn funny?"
At first I dont respond right away and they all kinda look at each other, but then just when I was about to step away they started talking to me and being positive. One of them asked "Why do you have a cigarette in your ear?" I could tell she was showing interest. I replied, "because they will get crushed in my pocket and because I am a party guy. Why do you like party guys?" Her "Yes I do!".
At this point they were giving me all their attention and smiling but I was starting to feel awkward and I couldn't think of anything else to say... 2 seconds later I am like "thats cool, well I'll talk to you guys later." Which was pretty much a lie.
This shit happens to me all the time. I get nervous when good looking girls are responding to me very positive. In fact I am a lot more comfortable when a girl is only showing mild interest.
Here's some responses that come to my mind a day later. Let me know what you gusy think.
"Sweet, well youre freaking hawt, do you have a boyfriend?"
Or
"Nice, Well I am Frank," (Greet everyone else) "where you guys from blah blah blah, what do you guys do blah blah blah" Isolation attempt "Anyways I am going to grab a beer, do you want to grab a drink? I might buy you one... Is it cool if she gets a drink with me?"
Or i can also try and introduce my friends and then isolate.
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