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[–]Umbran_scale 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She's playing games, drop the bitch, then move on.
[–]joaopfg[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Of course, but why is she doing that? First time btw
[–]Umbran_scale 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The same reason anyone ghosts, they lost interest and don't care about you enough to simply tell you.
[–]joaopfg[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So, why sexting for so long? Why saying that liked me i wanted me for so long also?
[–]Umbran_scale 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because interest fades? Because she found someone else who excites her more? Because she kept you around as a back up plan in case the other guy didn't work out? The list can go on, but no one knows the answer but her and as you've found out, she frankly doesn't give a shit about you and you need to respond in kind by blocking the shit out of her
[–]joaopfg[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're right, thank you guys
[–]MissKittenson 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Is this literally one message that this happened? Once is not a big deal. She probably got distracted by something (not necessarily someone) else bc her life doesn't revolve around texting you. The bigger issue I see is this started up again around the quarentine. She could just be bored and want some attention. Try chatting with her again if you're into her, but keep a look out for other signs that she's just not that into you.
[–]joaopfg[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, she was instered one week ago until today. But she saw the message that i gave and dindt respond, i sometimes check the DM to see if the person saw the message, wich was the case. Then, half an hour later she liked my last message. She was probably just keeping me around until the guy that she really likes and really wants texted her, our is some sort of "girl test"?
Forgot to say, yes, just happend this time
[–]MissKittenson 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea maybe it's a "girl test" if she's like 16 and immature like that. Or maybe she has a life outside of talking to guys that keeps her busy. You're trying to read a lot into one message. Keep talking to her if you like her and watch out for if that becomes a pattern.
We are both 17 xD doing 18 this year. Yes, she sometimes is a little immature for the age. I liked her in the past, but she flaked me (english is not my native language, but i think this is the word. Like "to betray" but we weren't on a relationship) now, i just wanna bang to avoid mental problems xD.
[–]exampLeN1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If she ghosts you, you ghost her. NEVER chase a girl.
[–]joaopfg[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Man, i know that rule and you're right. But i just wanted to know why she did that
[–]exampLeN1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Who knows why her interest level dropped, we don't have your full chat history so that we can see where did you maybe maded some mistakes. Maybe you were too available...who knows.
Just let her go.
Hmm maybe, althoug she was responding very well and in some flirty way, im very confused.
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