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[–]Azrael1985 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sadly, not everyone in your life will leave in a good way. She probably found someone else and you are better moving forward.
Sorry for typos, not a native speaker.
[–]Jonnywhoop 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry bro that she ghosted you. It’s best if you ghost her too and keep your abundance mentality up. Best of luck. It sucks but it won’t matter in a few weeks when you meet someone new ✊🏼
Edit: don’t tell her your feelings. It’s a lost battle anyways. Just ghost and don’t say anything. Don’t burn the bridge when it could very well come around in the future (just don’t hope or dwell on it. Focus on other shit and if it happens great)
[–]norwegiandoggo -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry this happened to you. Rejection hurts. I think this was more of a personal issue for her than that you made any mistake.. If I were to guess she sensed the relationship was moving towards a sexual situation and she may have huuuuge issues with that. Like she may not want to have sex with anyone.. perhaps due to unresolved past sexual trauma or somesuch thing.
I think you could have solved it though by addressing the elephant in the room. Ask her thoughts around sex and if she feels uncomfortable and what makes her feel this way etc. You can switch on "therapist mode" basically. Without coming across as pushy or demanding. Come from a place of genuine curiosity and concern. Just wanting to understand her. Not to get sex, but to get to know her and what's up in regards to sex for her so you don't accidentally cross a boundary etc. So you know what she's feeling and why. If you can make her feel safe she will share and open up to you. If you fail at making her feel safe then it will all come crashing down. So you have to be very careful, non-judgemental, sensitive and understanding.
[–]Galvatron261 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
At least she was courteous enough to slow fade you first rather than an outright ghost. Silver lining bro. In any case, the next one is right around the corner! Cheers
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[–]Galvatron261 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh, at least with a slow fade you can see it coming and prepare yourself (lower your expectations..etc). I’m sure you knew something was up before she stopped responding all together. Ghosting can have more of a blindsiding effect, which can be worse.. because then you’re seconding guessing everything and anything.
In any case, she probably wasn’t feeling it. Oh well.
[–]Mhotdemnot 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rip the band-aid off!
[–]9MaxR9 -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe because she wanted you to make the next move instead of going on another date. I am not sure I could be hella wrong.
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