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[–]Sennius 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just be honest with her and say that you missed hearing from her throughout the day, about her day or whatever, and that it makes you feel distant. Be calm and rational.
[–]whatsyourpurpose 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, just tell her what you told us, just without the whole cheating part. Tell her how you feel and give your reasons why. Be sure not to accuse her of anything and be calm.
I personally would read into it just a tad.
Best of luck!
[–]warm_theory 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's part of a relationship, if people are texting and hanging out all the time than it starts to fade away. It's like anything else really. Wouldn't you get bored of just constantly doing something for two years straight?
You both should have your own time to invest in your own interests, that's how a relationship remains healthy. It brings out the best in you, it keeps you in a good mood and never too invested in her - which is a complete turn off. Take it as a natural thing and enjoy your life and the company of your friends. Don't force her to talk to you or be with you at all times (it's needy and unattractive) and always keep in mind that if she doesn't really want your company, you deserve better. High self-investment, high standards, hell yes.
[–]getchased -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Address it with her directly. Don’t be afraid to dump her sorry ass and stop wasting your time if she doesn’t warm up
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[–]getchased -3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you’re worried about being needy you need a new gf
[+]joelhamptn -6 points-5 points-4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
DROP HER. Not so direct but she’s pulling back, so even tho it sucks and is super hard to do you need to pull back as well. She will be running back to you in no time
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[+]joelhamptn -6 points-5 points-4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely do not reach out, not even to say anything at all, if she doesn’t text you that day then boom- you don’t talk that day. This is gonna be really hard to do at first. But what she wants you to do is completely fall head over heels for her, and you’re not a pussy so you’re not about to fall into that trap. By giving her this distance she will realize you don’t need her as much as she thought you did and she will be running back to you chasing for your validation. Also when she texts you, don’t respond in a minimum of 1 1/2- 2 hours, and I mean MINIMUM
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