Hey guys

So today was my first day back on campus for university. Im 21 and still single so Im ready to make a difference this year. Because i study engineering, the gender ratio is unbalanced with too many guys, this pretty much forces me to do cold approaches as the quickest way for me to meet girls on campus.

I had all the mental blocks any newbie would have. I would see a cute girl sitting by herself and i would pace around her pretending to be occupied with something but i was really trying to psyche myself into it but still walk away in the end and not do it.

Thankfully, i didnt stay stuck in that mindset, I've approached girls before but im just really rusty. Anyways I saw a cute girl walking like 6m behind me and without thinking i turn around and go up to her.

"Hey, this is kinda random but i saw you ...and i thought you were really... adorable" (with those pauses). She smiled and giggled and said that that was really sweet of me to say. Ultimately she had a bf but she thanked me for going up to her telling her how i felt.

Moral of the story, yes us guys are afraid of rejection, sometimes we assume the absolute worst case scenario in our heads. However, girls can be really nice too, if you go up to her and talk to her with a genuine smile, she cant really hate you for that and chances are she will appreciate it :)

Go get em my dudes!