Giving value

Traveltrader · 2014-03-30T16:46:19+00:00

Tldr: find value, absorb it, you are value. You are an unlimited supply of "awesome".

Its not about "giving" consciously, like on purpose, because like you mentioned toward the end of your post, "giving them stuff..." "Making THEM happy" is associated to "low value"

But back to what you may be looking for. Basically, paradoxically, treat yourself, experience yourself to know what brings value to your life. Bringing value isn't something you give, until something in you finds it valuable. And when you do find the MANY things that are worth it to you, no matter how big of a deal or small they are, you INDWELL this "value", you don't run out of it, and naturally authentically you spread whatever good you find.

And this "value" can be just about anything. BUT I MUST MENTION, whatever you "think" is value, others may not perceive as value. There's this issue, because if you were to THINK and ACT on "I'm going to give value now" the value you may be so desperate to give may not always come in tune with your "target".

But anyway back to it.

I do it for me. What ever it maybe, I preach it to myself. I "intend" to do it for myself. Just like what I'm doing right now, typing up this post. My post is opinion, I'm telling myself something, but maybe just maybe whatever I'm telling myself may be something you could find some value in. The answer overall isn't selfishness, its perhaps depends on where you are.

There's so much more, and I hope to add more to it as life goes on. I may be right, I may be wrong. This is a part of what I'm running with..for now.

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Title	Giving value
Author	Matt1441
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	March 30, 2014 2:28 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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