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[–]nahinmal 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
There’s nothing wrong with going to a bar, club or social interaction place alone. I know several people who go eat a restaurants or go to movies alone, cause they want to. Make having fun your main goal. At times others will join you if you’re having a great time
If I knew of a gaming bar close to my town, I’d going there all the time. Friends or no friends
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[–]nahinmal 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m not for sure, that’s not my purpose for going, but I know a few acquaintances that have gotten laid from women at the club
[–]Overcloak 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The problem with going to a bar with the expectation of getting laid is that it puts you in a needy frame. You're going to a place (bar) to have a specific need (sex) satisfied. Nothing is more unattractive to women then needy, desperate men - and they can sense it a mile away.
On the other hand, women love to have fun. If you're having genuine fun at a bar, women will want a piece of that. So: go to bars to have fun. Once you manage that, the rest will fix itself.
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[–]Overcloak 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is just so completely, utterly wrong. That 90 percent of women won't think you're cringey as fuck because they won't be thinking about you at all.
You're like the fat guy just starting at the gym who thinks everyone there is thinking about them, judging them. Wrong. They're thinking about their own sets and their own goals. None of them give two fucks about you one way or another.
My advice? Just go out and try to have a good time without the expectation of getting laid. Once you get acclimated to going out solo and learn to be comfortable and enjoy yourself in those settings, the chicks will come.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who cares what the girls think...muahahahahahha
[–]TheJoeyJoeJoe 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've travelled the world solo for over a year.
Going to a club solo is only a big deal if you make it one. The only hurdle is in your head.
Got some great results with girls over the last 12 months too.
I wrote a three-step guide to successful solo nights out here.
[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I go out to the bar alone loads, check out some of my FRs. It's difficult but doable. Hope they help!
There's a bar in my town called Kongs. Retro video games. Never been. I'm more of a dive bar guy
[–]Renegader933 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure why not
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