good challenges to do?

flickin · 2013-03-21T21:49:29+00:00

It's not so much of a challenge as a goal to overcome AA. There's two ways of doing this:

a) Start off making eye contact with every girl you see. After a short time, make eye contact and smile at each woman. Now make eye contact, smile and say hello. Then eye contact, smile, "hello", start a conversation. Just keep escalating the interaction and make it a game between you and your wingman.

b) Jump in the deep end. Find the hottest girl and approach her with the intent of striking up a conversation and getting her number. You might not get it, you might get blown out, but I can guarantee you'll no longer be as stressed about approaching any other women there.

Those are my two strategies; any feedback welcome :)

2013-03-21T21:26:16+00:00

Go watch adrian van oyen's "pickup" videos on youtube. Quickest way to overcome AA forever is to learn not to give a shit and laugh at yourself.

BovineGoMoo · 2013-03-22T02:42:06+00:00

Go in with a silly goal. Have your wingman set challenges for you. For instance, he could tell you to try to get as many lines from the Pokemon theme song in as you can. Or he may tell you that you can't attempt to take her home until you get her to say "orange." These challenges will make things interesting and improve your confidence quite a bit. If you get blown out, no biggie. It was a retarded conversation anyway and you had a huge disadvantage. You complete the challenge? You're the fucking man. Feel awesome. From then on, anything should be easy, right?

cypress_fruit · 2013-03-22T04:10:04+00:00

Take turns going up to girls and do not leave the conversation until being forcibly removed by obvious statements like "go away". Ignore all passive evasive actions women use to turn you away. If they leave, then that round is over. You bail at the last moment. Don't be a dick though. That's not cool.
Say super gusty things but don't be a giant prick either. Just don't be affraid of yourself. You may bail after the huge opener you make. My favs are things like, "what was your original hair color", "you drunk enough to go home with me yet?", "turns out, I have a boner. Let's go fix it.", etc. It is incredibly hard to get smacked. I have tried.
Dance with women who didn't invite you to dance with them. DO NOT ASK THEM TO DANCE. Asking a girl to dance almost promises you that you will get a no. Just dance with them with intent and purpose and not in a way that shows you are nervous. If they move away, then so be it, keep dancing with other folks. If you want to dance with one specific girl, just walk up to her with a smile, take her hand, and lead her to the dancefloor. So many good dances were had this way. You can almost feel the steam come off them if you take them to the floor that way.
Ask them to play pool.
Ask them to teach you how to talk to women. Don't take their advice seriously. Seriously, just don't, but you still entertain them.
Dance on your own and own that shit. I have been hit on many times for this reason. I love that shit.
Do all challenges your wingman sets out for you unless you are positive that it gets you in legal trouble, kicked out, or your ass beat. For instance, don't go up to that big guy and give his ass a good squeeze. Probably wouldn't go over well. However asking that blonde bombshell if she enjoys a little rough and tumble, that is ok.

So many other good ideas in this thread too. Gotta love these guys.

rikjames90 · 2013-03-22T02:47:09+00:00

High five random cute girls.

rikjames90 · 2013-03-22T04:14:29+00:00

I like to switch up my openers every week to keep me on my toes so I dont get bored and it doesnt get stale and mechanic.

My new opener is the thumb wrestle opener. I go up to a girl and say "aloha, I want your opinion. How boring and unoriginal are handshakes? We do it all the time when we meet new people. enough is enough. I came up with something more exciting"

we then proceed to thumb wrestle while exchanging witty banter. Its golden. Its new. Shes smiling and laughing.

Title	good challenges to do?
Author	pineapplechobani
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	March 21, 2013 7:07 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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