Good hooks to keep the conversation going?

Livid_District · 2019-02-05T07:05:16+00:00

Hey - at first I posted a stupid comment, sorry about that. Deleted it now.

There's no simple rules to keep a conversation going. But mostly it's about:

- Showing interest. When someone tells you something about themselves, ask a follow-up question or two. If they seem to want to tell you more, keep listening (actively). DON'T make it into an interrogation - no rapid-fire questions etc.

- Giving a bit of yourself. Make statements about your interests, your experiences etc. Do try to listen more than you talk about yourself (most people like a good listener), but don't forget to bring yourself into the conversation.

The beginning of the conversation is all about establishing a shared rhythm and level of conversation. There will be a little awkwardness and some false starts, as you're both just experimenting a little to get the feel of this specific interaction. After a while, you'll establish a better flow - but do give it some time. Don't rush.

2019-02-03T21:14:36+00:00

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Title	Good hooks to keep the conversation going?
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Date	February 3, 2019 8:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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