Good IOI list

pPUA · 2012-02-23T17:55:32+00:00

I used to spend too much time trying to identify IOIs, which put me too much in my headspace.

What I've been more focussed on recently is the whole 'assume attaction' mindset. When I'm walking around, every single girl is checking me out. Anything they do, it's most likely flirting.

2012-02-23T18:49:10+00:00

This isn't bad, but I don't think a guy should ever be consciously looking for IOI's when talking to a girl. What I do is just form a general, gut-level impression if she's friendly or not. If not, I'll usually move on fairly soon. If so, I'll usually escalate.

It's based on if she seems into the conversation and if she's in physical proximity. If she doesn't even want to stand too close to me, say, then I know she's probably not gonna sleep with me.

But it's just a very general impression that doesn't really require any thought. Based on experience, more.

Doing it that way keeps you in the moment more and makes things easier for you.

revbobdobbs · 2012-02-23T22:20:33+00:00

IOI's don't matter.

Looking for IOI's is just a subtle form of approval seeking. The gamer who looks for IOI's is just seeking permission to act on his own intent. Real seducers don't ask for permission before they take the lead.

Title	Good IOI list
Author	JadenLevitt
Upvotes	22
Comments	12
Date	February 23, 2012 9:09 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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