Lately I have been wondering why I haven't got a girlfriend for over a decade now. I consider myself a 7.5 yet I know people think I am a 9/10. I have received many compliments in my lifetime and people tell me I look like a movie star. Attraction based on looks is one thing for me and it's easy, sometimes I catch women looking/staring or their body is facing me in whatever situation or they are trying to draw attention. And it's always the fat ugly chicks that approach me, or worse homosexuals.
Whatever I do I always set for failure, I have approached hundreds of women and it's as if when I open my mouth then I scare them away. I don't know why but I probably intimidate them with my looks and for me that's a tough pill to swallow. I can do whatever the fuck I want, be myself or play mindgames, play hard to get, be nice, be cocky/funny or an asshole, nothing works and I think all these seduction games don't work for the better looking men. I end up chasing the girl or hardly talk to them and then it's still the same result.. nothing.
It's not that I focus my life on women, I got enough hobbies and I do boxing/kickboxing/fitness and have a regular job and good friends and know a lot of people, yet I sometimes feel so lonely it's almost depressive. Though I always try to stay positive in whatever circumstance.
So my question is, how do you 9/10's males handle this? I know I am not alone with this. What can I do, dress like a bum or wear glasses to make myself more approachable or something?
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