So I had dated this girl for a while and things were looking good.

I was hoping for more and I think I had oneitis on her. Now I wondered if anyone experienced the same. I think I have this oneitis because I'm quite inexperienced due to my AA and escalation anxiety (which is even bigger than AA).

Now I'm having this oneitis and I kind of cannot really get over her with dating other women because I have anxiety.

Any tips how to approach this problem? Prolly unimportant but I'm 19 and live in Europe.