Disclaimer: I'm a total newbie but still, tonight was pretty weak. Didn't really push my comfort zone all that much. honestly there are no excuses, I just sucked shit tonight and barely pushed myself :/. This was my first night doing night game, I've only done 11 day game approaches prior to this.

1) Didn't approach everyone. Thus I stayed in my head the whole time and didn't really do a whole lot all night. I DID approach a bunch of girls so that was good but I didn't really know how to generate conversation with them.

I was also value scanning. Looking around to see who's approachable and pump my self-image with good reactions.

2) minimize time between interactions

didn't really do this either. My approaches were relatively spread apart. Also there were a bunch of girls that I could have approached but didn't approach they were taller than me or with a guy.

3) Don't judge yourself - actually I feel myself judging myself as I type this, good thing I'm catching myself now. I feel good about all the approaches I did (in total probably about 5) but I didn't stick to the process which I KNEW would fuck me up but I was just really in my head. That's the point of step 1 though, to get out of my head, and that's why I was judging myself in the moment though, because i wasn't taking action to do the things i knew would help me. Probably continuing to judge myself and aimlessly walking around hurt me. In retrospect it might be one of the biggest reasons why I failed, along with fear of approach. Next time I'm in my head/beating myself up I'll just think "what can i do about it right now?" instead of wasting that mental energy with self-defeating thought patters. Habits die hard though, I'm a newbie so I'll try to be forgiving with myself about it.

4)Find something funny about each interaction - yeah didn't do this at all. I actually did try it once tonight but it just felt forced and I didn't really find it funny so I gave that up.

5)Short and sweet interactions early in the night and long interactions at night - didn't really do this either. My interactions i either ejected way too early or I got rejected early.

6)Add a little bit more each set - yeah i didn't do this either :/ I just approached the girls i liked and thought I had a chance with.

The main reason why I feel shitty about this is because in the moment I KNEW what what I was doing was wrong but I didn't take the necessary steps to get out of my head.

I know this was formatted horribly and probably comes off a bit ramble-y but it's 3:12 AM on the night, sorry about that