I was at a bar the other night, and I saw a girl walk in that I was immediately attracted to. Later in the night, she was out on the patio and I noticed she was text messaging. I said to my wing man, "I'm going in" and I walked over and opened with something lame like "Why aren't you texting me?" We talked for a little bit more, and I ended up taking her home and giving her 93 lb frame the business. I am a 33/m and she ended up being a 21/f. We talked here and there, and about four nights later she came over for more fun. When I was mid pumping, she looks up at me and goes, "You never told me about your ex-gfs." I literally lost my hard on right then and there. I diverted the subject and gave a few generic answers before going back to screwing around. I have never been asked that before during sex. I got caught in her text messaging trap that week, and started getting tunnel vision over her so I backed off. Being a recovering nice guy, I have been using every opportunity to challenge and change my old ways of doing things. I have never been good at avoiding tunnel vision, what do you guys do in these cases?