Hey guys,

I have a thing that really is affecting my path to become better with women. I've read on this subreddit that you shouldnt think about picking up women when going out. You gotta be having fun first and not really thinking and just be in the moment. As im just a newbie making progress baby step by baby step i try to see every night out as a moment to practice but whenever i start thinking that way I fuck up. Im having a hard time to ban that thought out of my head and its really bothering my progress

You guys know any tips?