Hopefully this post will help some people learn from my mistakes.

I am a very quiet individual. I have honestly never really deliberately "picked up" a woman. But ever since I was little, girls have always been a part of my life. I have developed this philosophy of, "I'll just let the women come to me". Has it worked? Yes and no. Now before you write me off as a cocky f*ck, let me tell you why that philosophy has been one of the worst decisions of my life, and why I still suffer to this day.

The woman who approach me arent normally out for my best interest. In fact, my last girlfriend who I dated for almost two years, only thought of me as a kind of trophy. (Something we do to women a lot which is BAD) My point is: If you just sit back and stay quiet, yes, some women may approach you, but these women usually arent ones you want to keep any relationship with. On top of that, you cant count on being approached all the time. Thats just rediculous.

You can go out looking like Ryan fucking Gosling. And you can catch a dozen women checking you out, but you will never, I repeat: never get anywhere with these women unless you make some kind of effort. And i dont mean just returning eye contact and holding until she looks away. I mean having the balls to actually go up and talk to her before she leaves your life for good.

So reader, if you get anything out of this, don't become a guy that has girls left and right. Be a guy that gets girls left and right. Dont puff yourself up and wait for women to come to you. Because most wont, no matter how good you look. And more importantly, TALK TO HER.

thats all.