Hey guys, so just a little background I’m a 22 yr old, AA female in a LDR with a 25 yr old AA male but we’ve been having trouble getting intimate. We were friends for 8 months before we tried to get intimate with each other, and we’ve been together for about a month now and have only done oral because when we tried to go to the next step, he wasn’t able to stay up. I would give him oral and he loved it but each time the same thing would happen. He’s told me he’s somewhat insecure because I’m more experienced than he is and he knows he doesn’t last long and isn’t the best. I’m not very comfortable with dirty talk but I will if I have to. He tells me I’m great at pleasing him but I want to be pleased too. How do I make him more comfortable and teach him how to please me and hit that spot in both ways? Thanks in advance!