i went out with my friends for drinks and clubbing. Ended up dancing and spending most of the night with my friend's friend for the night. Let's call her sasha. She sort of gave me hints to isolate her,I did. But I didnt dare to make a move on her due to the few reasons. 1. Hitting on her might affect my friend relationship(sasha is my friend's date best friend) 2. I actually am not looking for a one night thing and I'm sick of it 3. I actually can communicate on an intellectual level with this girl which is not easy to find . 4 I heard her friend Saying she likes one of my friends 5. Sasha gave me hints to isolate her in the club which confuses me with reason#4. 6. There were iois. So for the entire night I just tried to get to know her better and just danced alone with her without making a single move. She even isolated me out of the club. But my friends ended up bumping into us. I was fine with that as I need lots of trust before doing anything with any girls. I decided not to get her number as I might see her again. Few days later my friend's date told my friend that "HE SEEMS LIKE A NICE GUY" WTF?!?! I'm a nice guy?? What I'm trying to say is should I be the old "bad boy" that managed to get hook ups or can I just be myself and change the pace and just go slow. Cuz I'm fine with both and I don't know which one makes me more "ALpha male" Thank you