I rarely see females post on this sub reddit but I hope you cam still help me. I have a crush on an artist (small town musician) that I briefly met in July. I told myself that my goal is to approach him by winter. So yesterday I haathered the courage to show up (by myself-couldnt find a wingwoman) at an event he was performing at. Like an idiot I sat near the stage with a beer and i did not say a single word to him...i was way too anxious and shy even with the liquid courage. Im not even sure he saw me because i avoided eye contact and danced while staring at my phone for a good hour and pretended i was waiting for someone. And then i just left cuz i knew at this point i just looked weird. As you can see my seduction game is weak af (thanks to being an introvert) and i need clear indications about what to do next. Did i blew up my chances?? Should i write him on fb to say i was there and i enjoyed the show?