How can I put this... About 3 yrs ago at a social event I met this girl. I wasn't interested in her at all, like zero. She is in her 20s but looks like a 40 yr old and she is fat and face is not attractive. Overall a 4/10. On my scale that means I'm repulsed. (1= completely repulsive, 10= perfect) But I still talked to her out of politeness/sociability. Afterwards we added each other on FB - maybe a mistake because it may have sent the wrong signal. Anyways she made some attempts to want to connect, sent me her phone number, etc. On an unrelated note, I deleted my FB acct completely. But later decided to make a new acct. I added back my old friends and (bad idea) this girl too. She probably took it as an IOI as I explained I was adding all my old friends.

Anyways, she invited me to a party at her place. And initially I wanted to go because there would be other girls there. But my cousin convinced me this was a bad idea because she'd take it as an IOI. So I made an excuse and didn't go. Every once in a while I get a message which I give a disinterested response or ignore.

Anyways, she just invited me to coffee a day ago. I'm thinking I should just tell her "I'm not going to be able to do coffee. Sorry" and hopefully she'll get the message. She also knows some of my same friends so I have to be a little careful.

So I had this idea: instead of just ignoring/rejecting her, maybe I can help her by sending some info on game for women trying to attract men. What do you guys think about this??? I'm not sure it would work because our attraction switches are mostly all based on genetic looks/beauty. But I'm curious how Game would work when roles are reversed.

The other thing I've learned is how it feels from a hot girls perspective when she has guys chasing her.

TL;DR: fat ugly girl chasing me. how do i handle gracefully especially since she has mutual friends