Yesterday I did a approach and got a insta date for the first time! It was really nice and the girl was amazing, a solid 9. We shared a lot in common and had tons of fun, there is just one problem: she is a Muslim that prays 5 times a day. I flirted with her and used a LOT of techniques (e.g I hate you, I was actually liking you but then you said that..., you amuse me, you are actually kinda cute, etc etc). I created a sexual tension, but was a little bit indirect about it because she was a Muslin and I didn't know how she would react. But if I ever see her again, I'm thinking to say something about sex and then putting the topic in a confortable way for her and then use it to create a tension. What you guys think?

About the approach: it happened in Germany near a Christmas Market. I approached with something like: "Excuse me, excuse me. Hi, I'm kinda lost do you know if this is the Christmas Market?" And while was talking I said: "Actually, I saw you coming, thought you were adorable and I had to come over say hi". She gave me a shy expression but showing that she was really enjoying it. From there we talked a little bit and after I while I said I was going to the Christmas Market and said something like: "can you join me?".

The approach was a little bit more indirect, not that indirect but a little bit more because 3mn before I had approached another girl that I stopped but I was a little bit to direct and she just walked away. So yea

Abou the date: We talked for HOURS, went to different places and it was really nice, but I couldn't even kiss her. How to deal with a Muslim? Anyone has any experience with this? She doesn't use a veil btw

I don't think I was put in the friendzone cause I teased her a little bit, and for example when she said something about frinds I said: "wow, you are putting me in the friendzone already." She laughed and said: "I didn't say it, you said it." So she was giving me signs. When I was looking away she would constantly keep touching her hair, etc

She has a YOLO lifestyle and is very spontaneous, which I enjoy and value a LOT. And she cares about studying and all, so it's not like she is just a one night stand type of girl, which is ok. But it's not like I will only go out with her. I got 2 more dates schedule this week without considering the cold approach, that now I realized that it's not bullshit at all.

About me: I haven't had sex for about 4 months. I got over a long term relationship (2 and a half years) and tried to fill a gap with a lot of girls. But I got to a point that I couldn't enjoy having sex or being around girls. So when I moved from my country (Brazil) I gave my self some time to heal. I watched a lot of content, read some really good books and yea, now I can enjoy being with girls again but I'm still a little bit rusty.

I'm with a really good vibe atm, sometimes I even laugh alone which is feeling amazing to be honest. Solf development gave me a purpose in life again, and I also starded working for the first time which is amazing and I've been enjoying it a lot.