There’s this guy that I’ve been seeing (literally) at the bar since maybe February. We finally exchanged contacts in March and every week we stay late to chat at said bar. We’ve tried to plan something since March but we’ve both been busy and haven’t been able to plan anything til last week—we went to a live music bar. Entrancing sex; the romantic sort where I contemplate if I want a boyfriend or not. Now I don’t know how to play it. Don’t want a boyfriend but don’t want a fuck buddy? How do I play forward without scaring him off?