I am 18 years old now studying in a college, so most of the girls I talk to are between 16 to 19 years old. There are about 10 girls I'm talking through text right now. Most of them I met either through Tinder, or through pick up. I am able to engage them through text as I'm quite witty and able to make them laugh. But that can only last for about 2 or 3 days before I get bored or there isn't anything interesting to say.
So I desperately need to move the conversation to physical dates. But they are mostly students and have busy schedule while I'm on holiday now. Whenever I ask them out, it is one of 2 reasons. Either busy with school or not comfortable with me yet (they feel like I barely talk to them yet, don't know me well enough) They usually are only free 1 or 2 weeks later, but by then the texting usually stops because I am too lazy to continue or there isn't anything to say.
I know traditional pick up convention says to immediately move to face to face, but through my experience these girls will not meet you unless you warm yourself up.
Side note: I'm from an Asian country so most of the Asian girls are shy and usually date within their social circle. So most of what I am doing is to show that I am valuable and different. I market myself by saying that I am different strange and interesting
Help by showing me how to effectively move from text to a date Help to explain how to text them in a way where they will be open to meeting me up and being friends Help by any tips on topics that will make texting more interesting
there doesn't seem to be anything here