Hey I’m new to this sub and I need a little help, I have never flirted with a girl or talked with a girl or anyone first irl , I normally wait for people to make the move first as I’m shy , but it’s often portrayed as being cocky and arrogant , There used to be a lot of girls that would talk to me first in my city , but now that I’ve moved to China , less and less ppl do that , and now I’m 1 month in and I haven even got any friends that I can really talk to , I’ve met eyes with a lot of girls they smile at me but I never dare to talk to any of them , I don’t think being ugly or unattractive is the problem as I’m 183(fairly above average ) for Asians and I have like 6000 followers on Instagram , someone help me out , how do I make the first move , how do I get over this shy thingy cause it’s really annoying and I’m losing a lot of chances because of it , Irly need help sorry about my English , and I hope u all have a good day