I know you're not suppose to ask for a date... but when I've been dating a girl for quite a bit and I've invested time into her I don't wanna lose her. So when i make plans with her I always initiate with, hey wanna hang out this week? or when're you free? I feel like its bad to ask as it gives her the option to say no. But I don't wanna be like, tomorrow night lets do x!! And then shes like oh tomorrow night I can't i have so and so. And then I have nothing to say from there. If I say "ok then the next day after that lets go" she may just have something that day and it makes me look needy. And if I wait a couple days and ask her again, let's do x on friday!! The cycle continues if she has something on friday she'll just say no and bam same thing.

I don't like guessing the days of a girl's schedule. Is it bad to just ask straight up, when're you free? And if she tells you open days you go into lets do x! Or if she doesn't tell you free days I ask again in like 3 days with the same line when she's free? I don't wanna be like forceful y'know but I know that I have to.

Will asking questions like this affect my game? I want to avoid flakes by trying to guess her schedule with lets do this tomorrow! and she's like i can't I have something that day.