Mostly a lurker of seddit here, this is my first post. I'm at a critical moment with this chick I've been talking to-- it's time to make a move! Heres the situation: I'm a junior in college and my buddy has a female friend from back home who we go and visit every now and then. Some guy friends and I play poker every week in the same apt. complex she lives in so we usually stop in to say hi after the game. She has two smoking hot room mates and one of them is the chick I'm trying to get with. Last night all 3 of them came out to the bar to chill w. me and some friends. She had obviously spent a lot of time getting ready because she looked gorgeous and was totally outdoing her friends. The whole night I was flirting, making her laugh and a little kino here and there. At one point we were playing pool and she was really bad so I moved in to "correct her shot" by coming up behind and putting my arms around her and my hands on hers to "correct her stance." My game was on point and she was loving it. Eventually we got an invite back to their place (it was 3 guys, 3 girls at this point btw). We played liquor pong for a while and her and I were on a team. It was at this point that I started to freeze up. I was running out of witty lines and just shit to talk about in general. With nothing to say it was hard for me to get the kino going. I think she noticed that my energy was fizzling out (literally, because I was drunk and running on very little sleep at this point). I think I ruined my chances with her because if there was a time to make a move it was then-- last night in her apartment after a night at the bar. My question is this: what kind of stuff should I start talking about in order to move in and start making out and/or fuck? My friend says I need to bring sex into the conversation... but I'm lost on how to do this. I really like this chick and I think she's into me too so I'm hoping my inability to make a move last night hasn't ruined my chances with her. Next time I want to be prepared. We may be meeting up again tonight to go to a party and this time what should I do/say to set the stage for a hookup?