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Congratulations on your success! I wish I could figure this shit out
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:26 AM
1

Argentine tango is so cool. Tough though
/r/seduction12/02/16 04:54 AM
1

Does this include "Oh god why is he smiling at me" tense smiles? Or is that just me projecting?
/r/seduction03/02/16 02:30 AM
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My problem is that I reflexively look away if someone makes eye contact with me, which is kind of a problem when it comes to girls in a bar. I feel like a pussy when I do it. I'm just not sure how to break the reflex, so this might be a good exercise for me.
/r/seduction03/02/16 02:26 AM
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Sort of. Mindfulness is a pretty wide umbrella term in Buddhism. mindfulness, quite literally, just means to be aware of something. Mindfulness of the breath is a form of samatha meditation. What I have generally understood people in the West to mean when they talk about mindfulness meditation is vipassana. Vipassana could be considered a level beyond samatha meditation, and involves being aware of mental formations and emotions as they arise and acknowledging them with equanimity. The thing is,…
/r/seduction30/01/16 06:58 AM
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Do what you can to "bring them down to your level" in your mind. As long as you're elevating them above you mentally, you're never going to be able to interact equally with them. Remember that they have foibles and flaws, are human, and are subject to the same experiences as everyone else. Then in the meantime, remind yourself what makes you awesome, bring yourself up. Also, if you're getting matched with hotties, you can't be that ugly. I don't get matched with shit on Tinder
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:38 PM
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Don't do this.
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:36 PM
1

Send a doctor. I think I'm experiencing a salt overdose ;_;
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:36 PM
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This seems like it's criticizing a straw man that's never really emphasized, at least not here. I've never even seen people here talk about spirituality.
/r/seduction28/01/16 07:21 PM
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The first thing is it's really good exercise. It looks easy. You just stretch, right? Way harder than expected. Makes you feel good. Proximity to women is just a cool bonus.
/r/seduction28/01/16 01:45 AM
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I thought I was in meddit for a second. Not sure what this has to do with seduction, but... If you're new to meditation, your primary goal should be Samatha meditation. It's a form of focus meditation that helps you build your ability to concentrate. Pick a focus (Your breath, your belly button, a candle, a sound) and make it your singular focus. Don't attempt to "clear your mind", instead as thoughts arise and distract you, just return to your focus. It's a bit like training a puppy. The puppy …
/r/seduction27/01/16 03:33 PM
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You don't have to be good at pool to have fun playing it. In fact, almost everyone I know who plays pool is bad at it because they're super casual about it. I think it's more important to have fun.
/r/seduction27/01/16 03:26 PM
1

Ballroom dancing is my go to. It's a total blast!
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:12 PM
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As the list progresses, it transitions into more recent stuff. But some of this stuff is timeless. It just seems to be trying to invoke a "When men were men" vibe.
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:12 PM
1

You mean Michael.
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:11 PM
1

I agree that he shouldn't rest on his laurels but it's an improvement for him and if it improves his self confidence that's a good thing
/r/seduction19/01/16 12:52 AM
2

Well, it's not, they aren't, and you don't. People here have told you many times what you need to do in order to develop yourself. If you want to hear comforting lies, go pay a stripper.
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:35 AM
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I don't know what you want me to say.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:45 AM
0

More girls.
/r/seduction18/01/16 03:07 AM
5

Sounds like you've already decided you're helpless despite the reality. Dunno what you want us to tell you. You really think you can't improve yourself? You think autism prevents you from getting in shape, learning an instrument, becoming more interesting?
/r/seduction18/01/16 03:06 AM
4

Conventions.
/r/seduction17/01/16 02:37 AM
3

Well I suppose that's the answer to the post I just made, lol
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:36 PM
2

Playa? What are you, an old black man?
/r/seduction16/01/16 07:03 AM
4

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:52 PM
20

Absolutely. I like a good repartee
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:51 PM
2

She got bored from the sound of it.
/r/seduction12/01/16 08:32 PM
4

If it feels weird touching women on the dancefloor, I really recommend ballroom classes. I've never felt so confident with kino as I do now.
/r/seduction12/01/16 08:31 PM
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Sharp wit. I like them funny and mean.
/r/seduction12/01/16 08:12 PM
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You fail to act sexually towards them.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:05 PM
1

This is only one school of dieting. Intermittent Fasting is the complete opposite of this. Ultimately, it comes down to just eating less calories.
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:10 PM
1

I can't help but think it's Riv haha
/r/seduction08/01/16 02:47 PM
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very well known shout caster That's a big part of it. Status is attractive.
/r/seduction08/01/16 01:59 PM
12

Fortune favors the bold. Who dares, wins.
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:09 AM
1

How about you tell us what your standard routine is.
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:25 PM
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A) Yes B) /r/askseddit
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:19 PM
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Tl;dw and adjusted to be on topic: You can make yourself more attractive if you want, but until you can truly love and accept yourself and have no questions as to your value as a person, you're still going to struggle with things. Lose weight, dress better, get surgery, until you love yourself you aren't really dealing with the deep issues. As an aside, as soft edged as JP is, I like the dude. This video cracks me up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kDso5ElFRg
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:46 PM
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That's one of the main points of the video.
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:45 PM
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Don't take girls to the movies. It's lame.
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:22 PM
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Probably more than the guy trying to buy platform shoes.
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:52 PM
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Except pseudoscience evo psych bulshit isn't the truth
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:16 PM
2

Oh, well, pack it up boys, women can smell us apparently.
/r/seduction05/01/16 10:44 PM
1

What about yes/no, in/out, up/down?
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:58 PM
1

If you're not showing any interest in real life, that might be cause for concern. If she's making an issue of it, just say you're not into texting a lot
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:57 PM
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The "GO GO GO" technique is for interactions that will presumably be one and done in the case of a failure. It's a person you don't know, want to approach, and if you blow out, you'll likely never see again. It's not necessarily the kind of thing you'd want to do if you're gonna see that person on the reg, or where you have the ability to generate attraction over a period of time.
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:50 PM
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Gollygosh
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:30 AM
2

Answer questions, but don't ask. Save conversation for real life. Don't prattle
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:23 AM
3

All good buddy, a lesson is learned. Remember, objective one is having a good time.
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:11 AM
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Texting is for setting up plans. Hands off your phone
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:08 AM
3

Maybe this is my inexperienced self, but straight up canceling comes across as a little petulant. I'd need tob know more background but IMO you should've just gone and had a good time anyway
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:02 AM
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You're putting them in a really awkward position. It comes across as puppy like, and you're asking them to say arguably mean things to you, all for information you can't do anything with.
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:59 AM
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I'm trying to work on 1., any tips?
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:58 AM
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Because Hooters girls make a thing about developing pseudo relationships with customers to encourage them to come back. Similar to strippers. Not to say its impossible, but we have no guarantee she won't just flake on the date and say "Got called in to work, you should come see me ;)"
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:58 AM
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Yeah, so there was one sided attraction. You used to be fine with attention from anyone, but now you realize that's hollow. You're getting better, though, which means when you meet someone you do have a connection with, you won't muck it up. Your experience with her is not a microcosm of all future relationships.
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:41 AM
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Why does there need to be an end goal? A purpose? A destination? Why can't it just be something to do? Regarding your situation: The other night, during a dry spell I saw one of them, we made out. On my back home I questioned why I drove half an hour to see her - it was satisfying, but it wasn't that great. It's because it sounds like you weren't really that into her. Also, you didn't get your rocks off, so...My question for you is, what did you want out of that interaction, and what did you get…
/r/seduction04/01/16 04:41 AM
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Yep, it's a little on the passive side. Even if she accepted it, you don't really know what happens after that. It leaves the ball in her court, and you should be the one taking initiative.
/r/seduction04/01/16 04:36 AM
1

I wouldn't call myself a "hardcore porn addict", but I've had years if inability to perform sexually or even get aroused in the presence of women because porn and masturbation had completely rewired my brain. I'm a couple weeks into "rebooting" my brain and it's astounding how different things are. And now I really want to go out and meet women. Like, really. There's a, uhh, urgency there that didn't exist previously.
/r/seduction02/01/16 05:11 PM
2

You heard wrong.
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:18 AM
1

The reality is, is that attraction is not the marketplace it's made out to be. Money, looks, status, they're all factors but none of them represent the entire picture. It's possible to be charming and have none of them. And it's possible to have all of them and be hopeless. Most men fall between those two extremes, and the negative "I'll never be able to do it" attitude is what holds them back. Anyone can lose weight, dress better, and work on their social skills. Women are not robots that compu…
/r/seduction02/01/16 05:12 AM
1

So many fucking whiners in this thread. Dont you feel like your sense if hopelessness is at all related to your failures with women? Nobody wants to be around that. You're not being "realistic", you're being a little bitch.
/r/seduction02/01/16 03:09 AM
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It's pretty easy to tell if someone's down for a kiss or not. Asking to kiss someone is pretty chump status. Anyone with even a modicum of social experience knows how to reject a kiss advance if they're not interested
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:52 AM
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Alright bro, I've seen you post over and over about your appearance and how girls are repulsed by you. It's either in your head, or you're doing something way wrong, because you're a totally regular looking dude. I've seen some ugly folks and you're not even on that radar.
/r/seduction29/12/15 05:52 PM
1

But then I can't get achievements.
/r/seduction27/12/15 11:50 PM
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approache issues - not because of anxiety, but because it just seems incredibly forced and obvious when going up to some random chick trying to be chill. I never know what to say, Ive tried some basic things but it just feels super awkward. It's cause you're not used to it. Sales is the same way. A cold approach feels so weird and contrived, and you feel totally off balance. Just a matter of practice. Get into the head space of "I want to meet this person." If it was some dude, you'd go right up…
/r/seduction26/12/15 10:56 PM
5

>implying you're the first guy to make a video about this
/r/seduction26/12/15 07:00 PM
4

Ending the debate That's rich
/r/seduction26/12/15 06:54 PM
16

Ay bby u want sum fuck
/r/seduction26/12/15 01:12 AM
1

Your defeatist attitude is why you're never going to get better. I just looked at your post history and it's a marathon of miserable whining. Until you can start to love yourself, everything is hopeless. But anyone can love himself.
/r/seduction25/12/15 10:08 AM
1

Salsa is the shit man. I'd recommend at least trying some intro classes for it. I think you'd really dig it. And then you have an in
/r/seduction25/12/15 01:54 AM
1

Maybe if you're in a frat
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:24 AM
2

First off, stop saying "smash". Second, pretty disrespectful to the other guy. I get that you don't owe him anything, but try to have some empathy.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:56 PM
0

most Yeah, okay
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:39 PM
1

I too have a magnum dong.
/r/seduction22/12/15 06:39 PM
6

I dunno if that's true at all. Cops are human, just like you.
/r/seduction22/12/15 06:38 PM
2

neat
/r/seduction22/12/15 06:38 PM
2

I'm of the belief that dating in your social circle, like dating at work, is playing with fire
/r/seduction22/12/15 04:26 PM
11

I got rejected by a really hot girl at dance class last night, but I've gotta say I'm proud of myself for just diving in and taking the initiative. Paralysis by analysis is real
/r/seduction22/12/15 04:25 PM
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I think he makes a point. I think this subreddit is better for debriefing, thinking about what could have been done and what you can do in the future, but you should learn to rely on your instincts and being independent. Otherwise, like he said, this becomes a crutch.
/r/seduction22/12/15 04:24 PM
58

Just remember: She takes gross shits like everyone else
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:34 PM
1

Because it's a weird artifact of early pickup that draws a lot of negative attention and doesn't provide any practical use, despite what some people claim? "HB9" is up there with "peacocking" and "negging" as embarrassing artifacts created by social outcasts like Mystery.
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:48 AM
13

People still say HB9?
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:01 AM
0

Partially, and partially based on an assessment of myself. The general reaction I receive from people are sentiments like "You're easy to be around" "You're funny" "You're a good guy", etc. People tend to gravitate to me when I feel like being sociable. I think I have a lot to provide in a relationship. My biggest problem when it comes to the fairer sex is I am too outcome oriented. I do that thing where I'm over analyzing everything I say. I tend to get the best results when I am casual and rel…
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:26 PM
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And I'm saying I'm a good looking dude but I'd be an ugly chick XD I really like myself, which I imagine is what you're really asking. It took me a long, long time to get to the point where I did. Struggled with depression, self loathing, thinking I was worthless. These days, though, I think I'm a valuable person who has insights on things, a good sense of humor, and is personable and caring. I'd definitely date me.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:49 PM
1

I thought you were asking if I'm hot. What were you asking?
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:40 PM
13

Eh, I think I clean up okay lol. Could drop a few pounds. I sure as shit hope I don't have my present bone structure as a girl though. "Football shoulders" isn't really what I look for in a lady.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:35 PM
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I would. But I'd have to be hot.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:31 PM
1

The best song from the sound track is the barbershop cover of God Only Knows
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:19 PM
7

That's all they really want. Some fun when the working day is done. Girls - they want to have fun. Oh girls just want to have fun, they want to have fun, they want to have fun...
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:01 PM
3

That's our word.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 01:28 PM
4

No it only works if you quote it verbatim. That's how pickup lines work. You use canned dialogue for guaranteed results!
/r/seduction05/07/14 07:21 PM
1

Yep. He wrote a book and so I was like "What a weird thing to say. Doesn't seem inside his scope", then I googled Peter J Carroll. Haha.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 01:39 PM
4

As a Seahawks fan, I was more than a little confused.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 12:42 PM
9

You're thinking of at will employment, not right to work. And at will employment prevents protected classes from being fired, still
/r/MensRights27/12/13 08:33 PM
2

I really appreciate you suppressing a lot of the more cringeworthy lingo around here. It doesn't serve any purpose and only seems to create more barriers than it breaks down.
/r/seduction11/12/13 11:47 PM
1

It's the soft open that's even more cringeworthy. "Hey man, how ya doing?" Like, I get it, and I'm happy to talk with you, but I'll tell you straight out I'm not interested. Never stops em. Commendable, I guess.
/r/seduction11/12/13 11:43 PM
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Both ideas, that people are good, and that women are attracted to power, are rooted in our genes. There is no universal "good", the universe does not acknowledge morality. Empathy, selflessness, friendship, these are all traits that arose because they're conducive to strong societies and promote survival of the group. In the same way, an attraction to power is just as rooted in us, as our attraction to physical characteristics is. To accuse women of doing this consciously is to miss the mark. Do…
/r/seduction11/12/13 11:20 PM
0

I'm just gonna go out on a limb here, is this Premera? Seems a lot like their benefit info from when I worked there.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 08:30 AM
10

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
/r/MensRights29/10/13 08:00 AM
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We use "they" the same way
/r/MensRights29/10/13 04:34 AM
1

Wayfarers are too angular for my face, and most sunglasses are too small for my face. The general consensus I've recieved is that I look good in aviators.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:36 PM
19

Would I buy a random dude at a bar a drink? If he was cool and I felt like it. Same story. I have no problem being generous, but I have no obligation to buy someone I don't know a drink just to "earn" a little time. "Can I buy you a drink" is chump status
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:58 PM
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As someone who isn't exactly "alpha" but is working on improving his confidence, I can see some value in this. Sometimes the conversation drops, and I scramble for something else to talk about, and it can seem forced. I think just kicking back, looking around, and reminding yourself that you're not out to impress someone could be valuable. "I don't need to be a chatterbox. She can realize my value or not, but I don't need to force conversation to keep her entertained." If a legitimate conversati…
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:11 PM
1

I have this problem, but it's because I focus a lot on how I read. I try to give my voice good dynamics so it isn't monotone. I try to read it like I'm telling a story, which means my ability to process the info is somewhat diminished
/r/seduction20/06/13 09:55 PM
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I was sitting in my new job orientation, and was trying to pay attention to what was going on, but all I could think about was bending her over the table and going at it like animals. Made me realize that there's a lot of pretense surrounding the basic act of reproduction and the need to breed is constantly there, nagging.
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:58 PM
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:I don't know who it is, so I'll just assume it's meant to be insulting.
/r/MensRights29/04/13 07:03 AM
-2

No probably about it.
/r/MensRights29/04/13 01:14 AM
-9

Every relationship is. The only question is the size of the lies.
/r/MensRights29/04/13 01:14 AM
-15

Maybe I've been cheated on, maybe I haven't. I don't know, so I don't care. That's the nature of my argument.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 10:29 PM
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In a perfect world I don't think anyone would choose to cheat and choose to lie, but when the opportunity arises, weakness can happen. Cheating isn't a rational decision, it's one of passion. But I believe in mitigating damage and I think honesty has the potential to be more damaging in the short term. Accounting for the long term is near impossible. That said, there's nothing wrong with erring on the safe side, as you propose. I'm just saying I can understand both trains of thought.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 10:27 PM
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Perhaps so, but I don't really see me ending up with someone for 30 years. If I do ending up suffering for my mistakes, so be it. You reap what you sow. I view the idea of me fessing up in a moment of guilt as a highly unlikely situation.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 10:22 PM
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It's a question of likelihood of being caught. Hooking up with your girlfriend's friend? Best to fess up. Hooking up with someone in Hawaii? What's the point? It's a cost benefit analysis.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 10:18 PM
-35

Misread your post, haha. I'm fully aware my views could be viewed as callous. I don't really care though. Everyone has ugliness. I'm just more honest about mine. I just don't treat romantic relationships as this incredible, spiritual, transcendent thing. I think there's more important things than the biological imperative.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 10:10 PM
-48

I view it as pragmatic. I tend to be callous though, and prefer to mitigate disaster. If I want the relationship to continue and I'm confident I won't be found out, I see no reason for honesty.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 09:52 PM
-65

I actually agree with this. People do make mistakes, and if you want things to continue working, honesty is probably the worst policy. What will it accomplish?
/r/MensRights28/04/13 09:16 PM
48

It's the best for everyone. A kid isn't born unwanted, he doesn't have to live with a liar, she learns the consequences of her actions.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 05:17 AM
3

You're either a troll, or so pathetically bitter that you think you're saying something meaningful. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and call it the former.
/r/seduction04/03/13 11:29 PM
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You can say hi with confidence. Lots of people do. The opening is probably the least important part of the interaction. A strong opening and a weak followup will never get you anywhere.
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:19 PM
16

What is the point in getting a number and not building any attraction beforehand?
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:47 PM
18

Better the guilty go free than the innocent are punished. People will slip through the cracks. That's how the world works. With a crime that hinges entirely on someones testimony, that just isn't enough to convict. An accusation is not enough to convict someone of a crime.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:03 AM
8

From the linked article: A 32-nation study of university students "revealed an overwhelming body of evidence that bidirectional violence is the predominant pattern of perpetration; and this study, along with evidence from many other studies (Medeiros & Straus, 2007), indicates that the etiology of PV is mostly parallel for men and women."[158]
/r/MensRights25/02/13 07:08 AM
1

What I was pointing out was this has nothing to do with "majority rule". It's perfectly acceptable to leave people out sometimes, people get left out of school activities all the time and they learn to deal.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 08:26 PM
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If a girl didn't make the cheerleading squad and was upset about being left out, should we ban the cheerleading squad?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 11:59 AM
3

I hear this often, and while I certainly can't empathize, I can sympathize. However, I am often curious...what's worse, growing up with a dad who wasn't there, or a dad who resents you?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:27 AM
8

I've always been of the mind that few people are as "straight" or "gay" as they would have you believe, and everyone falls along some kind of bisexual spectrum. I think it's perfectly reasonable to be a lesbian who happened to fall in love with one guy, but in 99% of scenarios would prefer the company of women. Labels so rarely capture the reality of situations.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:58 PM
4

So you're saying little boy penis is indistinguishable from man penis? I think you should seek therapy.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 05:42 PM
4

I kind of hate what fascism has become. It see,s like it's representative of any kind of oppression now.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 05:30 PM
3

The father can't just say "Not interested" and have that be the end of it, is the point. In this case, there's no reason the father couldn't pursue child support.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 03:55 PM
18

That's absurd. It's not so easy to absolve yourself of responsibility for a child. A man can't do that, he can't just say "Nah, don't want him".
/r/MensRights28/01/13 10:10 AM
11

Pedantic Reply: Or the way that HK-47 prefaces his sentences.
/r/seduction27/01/13 05:07 AM
13

As a soft, pasty sack of fat I can confirm this.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 01:44 PM
3

Female CEOs sometimes make less than male CEOs. What about that doesn't sound like outright oppression. Literally slaves.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 07:34 PM
1

It's just people being goofy. Not really supposed to be serious.
/r/MensRights12/12/12 03:25 AM
7

By the way, BTW, Bee tee dubs.
/r/MensRights11/12/12 09:33 PM
-1

A friend posted about this on facebook. She upped the game though, she said almost all MRA are like this, which is why she doesn't trust them. Edit: Sometimes I really don't get the shit people downvote.
/r/MensRights07/12/12 12:59 AM
1

Fair enough. I apologize for wasting everyone's time. I wish there was an opposite of an /s tag so you could say something like that without sounding like a sarcastic douche.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 06:31 PM
2

Absolutely, but that's not to say all people conform to the standard. There's always gonna be outliers.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 06:19 PM
3

I don't know that this is uniformly true. There's a subsection of women that like very pretty boys, and reject the "standard" male, just the same way there's men who like the tomboy look.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 06:06 PM
7

At 13, boys have just begun puberty. The physical development that will eventually split them away from each other hasn't even begun. Let me know when she's throwing an 90 MPH fastball.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 06:03 PM
3

Alright, that's totally reasonable. I'll admit I was inserting some of my own interpretation into the picture, but I have heard arguments that you should get verbal consent every time, which is silly to me. On a semi related topic, how do you feel about the concept of "coerced consent", the idea that a no can't turn into yes because it indicates someone pressured them into it. This is another topic regarding consent that has been interpreted as "rape" because there are men out there who will try…
/r/MensRights05/12/12 01:20 AM
2

tumblrinaction is just the name. It's more about social justice gone crazy. Unless you're referring to a broader issue.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 12:01 AM
1

Take it to r/srssucks
/r/MensRights04/12/12 11:50 PM
0

r/tumblrinaction and r/srssucks covers a lot of this material.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 11:49 PM
13

They said it violated the rules of "no politics". People will be resubmitting it again in a few weeks.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 11:34 PM
5

How is it different from having sex but not getting a no from the outset? Am I supposed to ask if I want to have sex? What about when things develop naturally from kissing to fondling to sex? She hasn't said no, so that doesn't mean it's a yes? I'm just extremely skeptical to start calling something rape because a girl wasn't clear enough with her signals. It's the same idea. How do I know if she "really" wants to have sex? What if she says yes, but she doesn't really want to because she's afrai…
/r/MensRights04/12/12 11:15 PM
4

I think there's a lot more civil people out there than the posters on Reddit realize. People tend to remember the jerks and forget the polite people. And everybody loves a villain.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:49 PM
3

Dog was phone.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:34 PM
1

You have a completely reasonable outlook then, I agree with you. There are people that disagree with us and believe that if the person declared rape, that it would be a legitimate complaint. My issue is towards those people. it sounds like you've got a pretty reasonable outlook on the topic.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:32 PM
2

S'all good, I made that mistake about fifty times before I drilled it into my head that there's no d.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:31 PM
1

It took me a while to get the one right, there's no d in privilege.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:28 PM
3

I don't think that the concept of privilege is necessarily inaccurate, just that's it's grossly overused as an argument against any kinds of mens rights advocacy, and the idea that some times people can't understand what it's like to be oppressed in the same way someone else is. It's been so overused as to become almost meaningless. I think advocacy is an excellent term that encompasses the general idea. Also, egalitarianism gets the message across pretty well. I just view individual issues on t…
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:26 PM
3

The issue with the privelege argument is that it isn't so cut and dried as some would have you believe. Who has more privilege, a poor white man or a rich black man? a rich black woman or a middle class white man? Privilege has so much more to do with class and education level than the standard dynamic says. Are there laws that affect men negatively? Yup. Are there laws that affect women negatively? Yup. So why talk about vague concepts of "privilege" which aren't easily applied and sometimes co…
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:15 PM
2

That's the general idea.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 10:11 PM
2

Ah yes, I understand. I agree with where you're coming from on the current state of the draft. What I was referring to was more of a required service, ala what they had in Germany or Switzerland, in which people are involved either with the military, or a civil defense program such as disaster relief. I think there are numerous positive benefits to mandatory civil service, but I can understand why someone might not be for it. The whole draft lottery thing is BS though, I agree.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 09:15 PM
1

Mandating that individuals must go out of their way to do something they don't want any part in is wrong, whether or not the intent is wrong. I disagree with this assertion. We make everyone pay taxes, whether they want to or not. We make people follow laws whether they want to or not. The idea of unfettered liberty is as flawed as complete subjugation. Imagine this turned down about a hundred notches: The government selects a few people to 'donate' $100 to PETA. Even if 90% of the people in the…
/r/MensRights04/12/12 09:02 PM
3

While I'd agree with the idea that knowlingly having sex with a drunk person, while you're sober, because you realize you can take advantage of them is unequivocally rape, what about when both parties are drunk? If I have sex with someone else who is drunk, would I be at fault? Would that be rape? The thing about being drunk, which I'm sure you've experienced if you've been drunk, is that it's kind of hard to gauge someone else's, or even your own level of intoxication when you're out of it. If …
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:58 PM
1

Most countries that have a system of conscription offer an alternative to participation in the military, such as participation in something equivalent to the Peace Corps. Would you think that's a good idea?
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:35 PM
3

That's the Oprah one, I was referring to the U of T video. I went a few pages back and I don't see it.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:19 PM
1

I'd like to ask you about your last one, do you really think conscription is so bad? To be honest, I wish we actually conscripted people. I think more people involved with either the military or with peace programs would do us a lot of good.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:13 PM
10

What confuses me is that the video has disappeared from r/videos front page. What's the deal?
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:08 PM
2

I don't know that this is true. You can foster attraction through cultivation of traits such as confidence, improving your style, etc., just as a woman can wear more flattering clothes and put on makeup in order to make themselves more attractive.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:58 PM
9

Here's the break down. Just because she isn't saying no, it isn't sex. Is she changes her mind, it isn't sex. When we combine these, we get this image of sex. We need continual reassurance that she wants it. Because what if she changes her mind, but doesn't say no? Apparently that's rape. This concept of what sex "looks like" has become so insanely watered down as to be unrecognizable. I've talked to some feminists about this, and their prerequisite is "enthusiasm", even though that is insanely …
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:51 PM
1

Sarcasm fell flat, apparently.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:41 PM
0

Edit: Alright, alright, no jokes, no jokes.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:35 PM
10

I'm curious, do you really think disparagement of radical feminists indicates a hate of women? I really don't see where the overlap is.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:34 PM
1

I'm getting brigaded in there for not believing in the patriarchy. Hurrr.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 07:31 PM
2

Well, some of us have porn induced ED which is a whole new ballgame. Kind of becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:34 AM
20

Dude, I like Neil Strauss as much as the next guy, but his stuff is ancient in this day and age. His stuff that emphasizes cultivating natural game is spot on, but most girls are smart enough to spot a canned phrase, and the ones who aren't, I don't think you really need it.
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:57 AM
14

So do language teachers.
/r/seduction18/11/12 02:42 AM
1

I feel like this is becoming somewhat trite. While it's true these guys exist, I think there are legitimately nice people who think it is a trait that should help them with women (In the same way someone could say "I'm handsome, why don't I have any luck) but it doesn't because they lack confidence. Calling out the "nice guys" as being secretly scheming dicks generalizes a bit much for my taste.
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:36 PM
1

Yeah, thats definitely a strong possibility. Moreso, even.
/r/seduction27/09/12 11:24 PM
9

Sounds like the guy has his priorities straight. She obviously wanted him to have an emotional response, and he refused to give it to her. I'm sure the writing was on the wall, and he probably was realizing as much as she was that they weren't compatible. She wanted him to say "I'll give it all up, baby. Just gimme another chance", and he called her bluff.
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:43 PM
4

I have a very difficult time finding jeans that fit. They are often too long, and drag on the ground, ending in shredded cuffs. What can be done about this? Also, for someone who has fairly short legs, what can be done to pull attention away from this?
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:39 PM
13

Yeah, let's not fool ourselves, menw ould probably do the same thing if the pay was good enough.
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:03 PM
1

Ask any vet and they would tell you the answer to getting out of the friend zone is to move on, find a bunch of other chicks, become a totally awesome guy., and see if she's interested in the new you. It's possible to get out of the friendzone, but it's way too much work and isn't surefire. It's just better to move on to the next one. There's a reason it's called oneitis, and it's hated. Be a guy all the ladies love before you worry about just one loving you.
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:06 PM
6

Well what my comment was more referring to was the nebulous "Be yourself" which is just a meaningless platitude. As far as the behaviors, I certainly agree that people could construe it that way, but I think we'd both agree that these are supposed to be practices to get you out of the mindset of "blend in with the crowd, don't make waves" mindset that many shyer people employ.
/r/seduction06/10/11 05:03 AM
0

What defines a douche?
/r/seduction06/10/11 04:46 AM
6

What does that even mean?
/r/seduction06/10/11 04:29 AM
59

Alpha and Beta are mindsets, not actual social positions.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:42 AM
1

This is something I wrote a little while back. Seems relevant. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j2nq0/just_be_yourself_isnt_just_bad_advice_its/
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:22 AM
39

Tell your parents you're working on a sign in sheet so they can keep track of the comers and goers.
/r/seduction31/08/11 08:34 PM
3

okay.jpg
/r/seduction16/08/11 05:30 AM
15

To those who don't know about this old chestnut, it is the ballsiest of ballsy moves. Basically, you go up to a lady you've never met. and say "Hey, how's it going" and then "What are you doing later" and if she doesn't completely blow you off or say she's doing something, you go in for the kill "Do you want to go home with me?" And then you just hold eye contact, be as absolutely confident as you can, and don't say a word. Let her evaluate, and see where it goes. It's hardly foolproof, but it d…
/r/seduction07/08/11 08:26 PM
1

Indeed. One could say we're all constant "works in progress". The fun part is that this process is never complete.
/r/seduction29/07/11 10:40 AM
1

Perhaps there's a mutual misunderstanding. I never said you should copy anyone, or advocated that. I simply said that even when copying someone else, you're still you, you are just absorbing new behaviors. Imitation is one of many ways of learning something. I don't think I really said anything in this aside from "Improve yourself." and how silly the phrase "be yourself" really is.
/r/seduction29/07/11 10:38 AM
3

Well, the first question would be "Why does this make me uncomfortable or unhappy?" I don't believe in holding a belief just because it "feels right". I believe in intense self-analysis. If we did everything that made us feel comfortable, we'd never step outside ourselves. If it's something that we truly find abhorrent, I certainly believe you should abstain form that action, but we have to ask our self WHY it makes us unhappy. As an example, I believe that theft is wrong. I realize that if I we…
/r/seduction29/07/11 09:20 AM
1

So make it short. You just want to set up a face to face meeting anyway, right? Your objective is to get them out with you. You can do the same with Facebook, I suppose I just don't think you should be doing most of, or even a large part, of your communication through any medium that's not face to face.
/r/seduction29/07/11 09:03 AM
4

Why would you use Facebook when you can call them, or see them face to face? Some contend that it's bad because of the lack of kino available, which I agree with, but to me, it's more like "Why don't you just call them?"
/r/seduction29/07/11 08:43 AM
47

Did anyone else read this as "All the ways that nerds will worship you"?
/r/seduction28/07/11 08:00 PM
1

Perhaps we have different meanings of "being a different person". Every day, you are a different person than the one you are before. The belief that "you" are an immutable force is rather silly, because you are constantly going through death and birth, learning, changing. Are you the same "you" that you were 5 years ago? Highly doubtful. Every time you incorporate new information or change your behavior, you are effectively a different person. By changing the way I think, I change the way I am.
/r/seduction23/07/11 10:04 PM
2

If "being yourself" worked, wouldn't everyone be successful in love? I'm myself all the time. Turns out, that me isn't really datable, so I had to become a different me.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:34 AM
6

Sounds like there's some self esteem issues there. I'd be kind of wary, but honestly, I'd just go with a "Do you always fish for complements?"
/r/seduction25/06/11 08:02 AM
1

Sweet, thanks. I'd just seen how empty the seattlesedditors board was. =(
/r/seduction04/06/11 11:52 PM
2

Yeah, the rating scale isn't strictly about looks, but behavior. Common misconception
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:15 PM
0

Seattle sedditor? Don't seem to be many of those, at least as far as I've seen.
/r/seduction04/06/11 04:04 AM
10

GREAT idea. Unless you get super clingy and attached. Just keep it to one rendezvous per week and you should be cool.
/r/seduction26/05/11 05:09 AM
4

Yeah, fuck IGN!
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:20 PM
1

Are you sure they're in relationships, or are they just telling you they're in relationships?
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:16 AM
6

How'd the Apocalypse Opener go? The concept of using it on Japanese people is even more delightfully absurd. Edit: Hold up, I thought the Apocalypse Opener is asking them to have sex with you. What is it then?
/r/seduction13/05/11 09:17 AM
22

Completely unrelated: Auntie Annes is fucking ridiculous. I remember the first time I went there and was like "Is that...is she...are they painting it with BUTTER?" I'm pretty much obligated to buy at least 1 every time I go to the mall.
/r/seduction13/05/11 05:31 AM
1

Right right, thanks for the correction!
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:48 AM
3

Never text a girl more than she texts you. I believe the ideal ratio is considered to be 1:2
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:33 AM
11

...okay, why does she think she's entitled to a response right away from you? Maybe you're busy with other stuff. Maybe you're out and about with friends. Maybe you just dont' feel like texting right now. Honestly, that just sounds liek a shit test to me, and in this situation I think it would be best to ignore it (Since responding by amplifying seems liek it would just show your hand) Additionally, I don't see how trading game she's seen before with AFC-itude she's seen before is really gonna h…
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:45 AM
1

P90x is 6 days a week I think.
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:36 PM
2

Cocky and funny. Basically adopt the mentality of "Nothing gets to me and I'm here to have a good time."
/r/seduction24/04/11 05:21 AM
18

I disagree, I don't think there's anything with making eye contact with another man. But I usually just give them a head nod instead.
/r/seduction16/04/11 07:28 AM
16

I like to make eye contact with people as I pass and go based off what they do. Some people will lock your eye contact. If they do, smile at them! Be personable! And sometimes they'll look away or down, in which case just keep right on rolling. This is one of the best ways to make an approach in public, because if you can get eye contact and a smile, you're on your way. I think the "stare straight ahead, don't look at anyone" looks really awkward.
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:59 AM
1

I thought you gave some solid advice. Seddit to the rescue again, huh?
/r/seduction15/04/11 12:44 AM
1

Oh, agreed. People oftentimes post completely unrelated stuff here for free karma. This doesn't really seem to be a relevant topic.
/r/seduction14/04/11 11:41 PM
4

Yes, the man has a problem with fidelity. He has poor impulse control. It sounds like in every other area of his life he is happy and successful. She certainly didn't make it sound like she was miserable around him. I agree, he is not a model citizen, but neither is he a "bad guy". To be honest, the man in the story pretty much sounds like my father, and for all his failings as a husband, he makes up in many other ways. Edit: Sorry, I'm at an [8] and I kinda got away from my initial point. We ar…
/r/seduction14/04/11 07:39 PM
5

If my parents agd stayed together, the fighting would have been endless and would have been a really, really uncomfortable place to grow up. Instead, my parents went off and found other people to love. What's wrong with that?
/r/seduction14/04/11 07:13 PM
3

These guys obviously have rock solid game. They're setting themselves insane challenges like this and really pushing the limit of it. I love it, it's like extreme pickup. Sure, their success rate isn't that great, but it's because they're essentially approaching women with absolute gibberish as far as they can understand, and having to pull through with confidence, humor, and persistence.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:56 PM
3

And that's totally legit. What's irritating is when said female then throws a fit when the guy cuts her off because he doesn't want to be friends.
/r/seduction13/04/11 04:00 AM
1

Actually, as I understand it, many Japanese men are quite timid, but that doesn't mean that Japanese women like that. The principles of seduction are pretty universal, and having read some of Tofu's FRs, his direct game seems to be pretty dang effective.
/r/seduction08/04/11 08:30 AM
5

The only usefulness of peacocking, IMO, is to set you apart from the crowd, but it can be a giant flag that you're a PUA. I feel like it's a pretty outdated technique, but if it works for you man, way to go.
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:31 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing, if he's got a girl wrapped up liek this (Even if she's drunk) he probably has some solid game.
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:16 AM
8

It's funny, the a-ha moment for me came before I started studying pick up, actually. Someone was walking by me, we made eye contact, and he gave me a friendly clap on the shoulder. It was a small touch, but I could literally feel some change in my body, and it made me weirdly happy. I thought it was weird till I understood the science behind it. I feel bad for all the people who believe that touching is "creepy" and stay contained in their little bubble now.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:40 AM
1

Make sexual jokes. Say things like "We'd never work out, I like naughty girls, you're too nice." See if she starts qualifying herself. Ask her what her favorite position is, tell her some hilarious, raunchy story. If she's into you, sex isn't gonna be an uncomfortable topic, it'll simply be the prelude. Oh, and btw, yes, you should've made a move. ಠ_ಠ Live and learn, huh?
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:44 AM
4

"We should catch up. Meet me at [bar] at [time]." Pretty simple. Oh, btw, there is a subreddit for questions like this. You should check out askseddit in the future.
/r/seduction23/03/11 06:40 AM
49

Fantastic work man. 'Ohh you and that guy would be perfect together!! He's a really good match for you. You should go visit him!!' Fuckin' gem.
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:33 AM
9

Honestly, I was glad to hear this. I was starting to take it personally in my AFC days
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:18 AM
8

I feel like my response would be the honest one. "Yeah, isn't that show awful?"
/r/seduction20/03/11 10:29 AM
0

This is my secret weapon for when I get bored of a girl. I remember all the right ways to act AFC to kill attraction.
/r/seduction18/03/11 05:20 AM
1

It's even funnier the hundredth time.
/r/seduction17/03/11 10:27 PM
3

This is the kind of stuff that really bugged me before I found the seduction community. "Dating advice" online seems to be full of "movie advice" and things that even the most "forever alone" is aware of. The only thing I thought was really worthwhile was "No overtexting" and "Be decisive."
/r/seduction17/03/11 05:57 AM
10

Honestly, I think picking up someone on the job is one of the harder things to do, so way to go man!
/r/seduction17/03/11 05:31 AM
2

This totally sounds like the happenin' spot.
/r/seduction13/03/11 04:50 AM
2

So why are you here?
/r/seduction13/03/11 04:46 AM
6

I absolutely agree with this. When people here say "Don't offer to buy her drinks" they typically mean at first meeting, because what men try to fo is buy your affection or time. "If I buy her a drink, she will talk to me." This is a bad way to frame the situation. But if it's a "I'll get this round, you get the next one", what's wrong with that? You're just being a fun dude. Basically, the "rules" of pickup are more guidelines which should be changed to fit the situation. IMO
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:31 PM
1

Maybe it's just me, but it's sounded like a joke.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:36 AM
2

Thanks for the clarification. I'll admit, I'm still leery of the actual usefulness of negging, but thinking of it as a disqualifier makes sense.
/r/seduction11/02/11 01:52 AM
1

Forgive me, I'm still rather new. I was under the impression that negging, when done correctly, is indistinguishiable from teasing. Care to clarify the difference?
/r/seduction11/02/11 12:23 AM
2

Of course. Many guys seem to misunderstand the concept of negging, just as many girls do. The whole point is for it to be fun.
/r/seduction10/02/11 12:39 AM
1

If he's a bro, get him to DHV you. If he's really that incredible, and he's complementing you and stuff, it just looks good for you.
/r/seduction09/02/11 09:07 PM
3

Dude, he's awesome. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1yxDWxUIM0
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:10 PM
11

Yeah, this is the perfect example. If pickup has taught me anything, nobody is "out of your league". Your league is what you designate it to be.
/r/seduction14/01/11 11:44 PM
8

As someone who is still pretty much completely new to pick up, this stuff even bugs ME. Seriously, have you read the FAQ?
/r/seduction13/01/11 09:46 PM
1

I believe this refers to his previous FR http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ezcvf/first_fr_kclose_and_close_need_to_figure_out_my/
/r/seduction11/01/11 08:11 PM
11

<So you tell a girl you like her> No. <online> No, no, no. <Then you text her asking her out sometime, at 2 AM one night> No, no, no, no, no. <You still like this girl, is there a way to salvage this situation?> See above. Or over there ------>
/r/seduction10/01/11 07:07 PM
1

By posting an FR, people can get an idea of what you're doing and give you advice to make changes. This post is beyond vague.
/r/seduction10/01/11 01:00 AM
1

Move on. Find someone new. There's a million HB9s.
/r/seduction31/12/10 11:45 PM
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