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[–]JakalDX 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the kind of stuff that really bugged me before I found the seduction community. "Dating advice" online seems to be full of "movie advice" and things that even the most "forever alone" is aware of. The only thing I thought was really worthwhile was "No overtexting" and "Be decisive."
[–]on_the_dl 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Taking it apart:
She wants to feel like you are so enthralled by her presence, you can’t wait to find out more about her.
If you want to be her puppy dog or her slave then yes. If you want to have a relationship, don't fucking do this.
The woman sitting across from you wants to feel like you only have eyes for her. [P]retend the gorgeous blonde at the next table doesn’t exist.
As soon as she knows that you're on the hook, she'll stop making an effort to win you. And if she doesn't have to work to win you, she won't value you nor mind losing you. Don't fucking do this.
Trying to kiss her in public on the first few dates, being too touchy-feely or making suggestive comments can leave her fantasizing about tunneling her way to freedom like in Shawshank Redemption.
Stupid Shawshank reference aside, touchy-feely is what keeps you out of the friendzone.
You probably already know not to constantly curse around women, but even letting one or two doozies slip from your mouth in the beginning can leave a bad taste in hers.
Being too polite can be just as bad.
As much of the advice is good as bad. Random advice would be just as useful.
I bet this shit was written by a girl.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Without a doubt.
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Written by people with little dating experience and lots of romantic-comedy experience.
[–]TokyoXtreme 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a woman gets unresponsive and "busy", it's because you took too long to fuck her. Obvious beginner shit, I thought.
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