I am not sure what I am looking for anymore. However, I know for a fact that at some point in time I am going to meet a person that I will fall in love with but the wait is killing me. I have tried to put myself out of my comfort zone but I just cannot. Me not getting laid has been affecting all parts of my life lately. I would like to put an end to this, I have not idea where to will start or how I am going to end this need.

Objectively I know what needs to be done, basically to get out of my head? As I am writing this I realize what needs to be done but the problem is that I know this now but I am sure I will forget it soon enough (i.e. day after tomorrow).

I haven’t been laid in a while and now my confidence is at a point that even If I do go out to a bar and get a chick to come back home with a stroke of good luck I think will not perform well. How do I deal with these doubts? I am thinking it’s something simple that I am missing. Please help, thank you for reading.