So there's this woman I've had an on going crush for like eight months. Shes incredible artistic, smart, gorgeous, motivated, musically talented. I reached out to her after our most recent work gig. And she was receptive our first date is later today. Me I'm a farmer I grow plants and play video games pretty successful at both. I have no idea how im going to make a connection with her. I've seen her perform live and I think that's a huge part of my attraction to her. She knows how to dominate and be in control while being kind doing it. Its %$&in hot. Shes kinda of a manager due to seniority at these catering gigs it's where we met. Like I can already tell shes the kind of woman I could be devoted to but that shits so not "in" in this culture of hook ups and OLD. HOW do I make myself appealing to her when she has so many better options of fellow musicians and men who have their shit together.