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[–]MistahUndaCova001 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That "What did you want?" line sounded more negative than positive when I read it out loud. That's not how you open up a conversation with woman. Have you two spoken about potentially hooking up before that? If not, I don't see how you should just assume that she wanted sex. People are on those apps at all hours especially if it's a Friday where a lot of people who don't work on Saturday's and Sunday's try to get an early start to their weekend by making early plans. You two have been texting for a while since you met her. Why don't you just send her a message thru the dating app that says:
"[Her name]. Sorry I might've come off a bit rude to you over on Snapchat and I didn't notice it until now. I don't check Tinder or Snapchat too often. Shoot me a text. We should get together soon. My number is _______."
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[–]MistahUndaCova001 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You've got to keep in mind that "most women" isn't "all women". It's great that she's replying. Eventually ask her: "So what is it that you're looking for when it comes to dating at the moment? Something serious or something casual?"
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[–]MistahUndaCova001 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We'll have to agree to disagree. My Tinder dates have never been awkward because of that question. As uncomfortable and awkward that it may be, it's better to make sure you're both not wasting eachothers time. You want to shy away from leading eachother on.
[–]soltanparham -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
1- never ever tell a bitch sorry! you were busy and she has to understand , otherwise , left her ! 2 - maybe she was just bored! if she wanted sex she could hit you up in better ways rather than snapchat 3 - never ever double-text a bitch! move the fuck on
[–]MistahUndaCova001 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is terrible and toxic advice.
[–]New-Marketing-7164 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would go with your gut/instincts. You know what you need to do. And what you know is usually right but self doubt clouds that judgment. That's all I can say with certainty and tell the truth.
[–]Trs145 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"What did you want?" Sounds kinda off putting. Instead of saying that just literally say what she had asked you. And at this point if she left you on read just move on. If shes still interested. She'll write back.
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